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Is it cheating to think of someone else during sex?
I guess, if it's has been established at the beginning that you're just using each other as a living dildo/fleshlight, respectively, then it's ok. But if you're supposedly in a relationship and yet thinking of other people during sex, then you're just using each other and there's no real "ship" to steer your "relations", you know?
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Well, it's not cheating but it indicates that you don't quite find your partner attractive, but then I suppose everyone has their fantasies, so I guess that happens.
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Everyone fantasizes sometimes. NBD. But if you find yourself always thinking of someone else or that you can't get off thinking about your partner and have to think about someone else that's a problem
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well whats the point of staying with your partner if you're thinking of someone else especially while have sex with them? ultimate disrespect... might as well cheat.
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Its not today's society's exact definition of "cheating" but its definitely wrong and not very healthy for a relationship..
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It's mental/psychological cheating
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Many women will actually think of another man whilst having sex with you. Not because she does not find you attractive but because she's living off a fantasy of hers. Quite the same for men who will think about some girl he has been fantasizing about. It's a normal psychological thing. So don't let them call you out on it because they possibly are being hypocrites.
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Its not 'cheating', but its messed up on the same level lol.
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It's kind of blurred lines but I consider it way wrong. Just break up if you feel a desire for someone else. If I found out the person I was sleeping with was thinking of other people while we screwed I'd leave in a heart beat.
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Cheating is when you engage, on any level, with someone other that your partner, covertly. Exchanging contact info behind your partner's back is cheating. Fantasizing isn't.
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It really depends, true, in a variety of situations it's cheating, but there are a few situations where it's not cheating, but it's still wrong
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What if your partner will do the same while having sex with you he/she thinks about someone else. May be that will clear your understanding if thats cheating or not.
It is not cheating offcourse but not so good as well. - 1.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
No its not its your mind "at least I am safe inside my mind" - Spongebob
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Yes, Mathew 5:28 "But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart."
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No, but it's dishonest and disrespectful.
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Its not cheating but it is weird
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It's not cheating but it is inappropriate.
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It's fucking stupid. I mean why would you need to?
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You're only hurting yourself with that move.
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Yes, because i see it that way.
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very few times not many
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