Is my boyfriend bored with me or just used to me?

[sandysanna]

okay, I don't know how to start this one off

me and my boyfriend is going for 2 years now.

in the beginning of our relationship he could not keep his hands of me, he called me allot and called me all sort of names and kissed me all the time no matter where we were.

but now we lived together for like 6 months now.

this has all changed.

he hardly holds my hand when we out, we can go weeks without kissing if I don't make the first move. He still says love you but only at the end of phone calls.

we use to go watch a movie or rent one on our 1 monthverciry

but now its like just another day.

I don't know if I am just to needy and acting crazy or if its just how relationships go.

I like having a guy that shows he cares by hugging me out of the blue or just looking at me.

I have spoken to him about it but its like its in and out again.

he doesn't share his thoughts or emotions with me and he never really did.

please can someone tell me if its okay or if his losing interest in me

[leftrightnorthsouth]

start kissing him more get him used to the idea again.

get a hair change a dress differently or take up another hobby really focus on something drive your attention away from this allow him time to be alone to think about you or miss u, so when you come back he wants to be more intimate. AND REALLY SPICE UP THAT Love life.

sex could really help. cook him a really nice meal in your underwear and greet him when he gets home .

just try and spice things up. I don't think he is loosing interest, just very comfortable. I've heard psychologists say true love, is when you feel so comfortable with someone you don't even need to show it because you both know. he still loves u.

sounds to me like your the kind of girl that loves some affection and reassurance that things are good through actions. I'm like that too.

i have a similar realtionship with my bf.

take him out to dinner say its your shout - that usally gets my boyfriend out the house.

* on another note if his work is in a stressfull time, I've found most guys find it harder to focous on anything else even outside. all they will want to do is sit at home. around Xmas time its busy at my bf's work he gets like that superstressed and EXTREME lack of intamacy.

if you really think something is up tho still after trying - explain to him how those little things are very imporant to you to feel happy in a relationship and to feel loved. if he doesn't get it you might have to ask the question are you loosing interest. I doubt he is if he is saying he loves you and is living with you tho so don't worry hun xoxo

[sandysanna]

Thanks will try it and see:)

[justme121]

Sounds like he is just comfortable in the relationship now. You have been dating for 2 years and living together for 6 months, its just how the relationships go. If talking has not worked try showing him. You might want to consider spicing things up, whether its in bed or just little daily things (kiss him at random/flowers). Let him know your still interested in him.

[sandysanna]

hey hey, thanks for the advice. will try and see what happens:)

[Brokenhearted1982]

Oh man I have the same thing happening to me 2 years in also. But mine really doesn't spend time with me. he says us going to the store is spending time together yeah OK. That's a new one. and sex well it sucks for me not him I still go out of my way for him, he doesn't do it for me not like he used to.

[AmazingParkour]

He's too comfortable with you. It happens.

Stop doing routine things, make every day different and unpredictable for him.