IMO, he wasn't very mature about this, and maybe you weren't either. At your age, you should be a bit more thick-skinned about him "talking about" another girl, but if it seriously did cross the line (and maybe it did; I'm not saying that's impossible), then instead of fighting about it, you need to just tell him how it makes you feel when he does that.
His reaction was definitely immature; it seems he's not able to share his feelings well either. Given that that's a problem for both of you, this relationship probably didn't have much of a chance to go the distance anyway, so it's probably best that it's over; he might have done you a favor by breaking up with him.
In the future, though, instead of getting mad and fighting with your guy when he does something, just tell him how it makes you feel. If he cares about you, he'll realize he hurt you, and he'll fix the problem (or at least try to share his perspective), and if he doesn't, then you know that you need to end it and find someone who does. Don't tell him not to do something, just tell him how it makes you feel when he does it, and let HIM figure out what to do about it, unless he directly asks you what to do. You'll find things go MUCH better that way.
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Sometimes you do something that can't be undone with "I'm sorry" especially early on in a relationship. He may have found what you did as something he isn't willing to forgive or he caught a glimpse of behavior he is not willing to deal with. Some behaviors are deal breakers for one and not another.
He may have just seen the relationship as exhausted and was just waiting for an excuse to end it. If it's done it's done... don't try to force something.
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I had something similar happen to me with my last relationship. We were together for 5 months everything seemed great. Then, the first argument, text him the next day and apologized. He gave me the silent treatment, that was his break up. Really though, he just wasn't ready, didn't think I was the right girl, doesn't matter why, and took the first big wave as an opportunity to jump ship. I had a sweet ending though . . . I was dating someone else and he came back and said he wanted to try again. Well sorry bub, moved on already. Glad I did too, while I got along OK with the ex and we had a nice time, it was nothing to the love I have for the guy that came after him. We're now engaged. And the ex knocked up another woman about 2 months after he had tried to come back to me so maybe in a sense I bit the bullet :-). Bottom line is, he didn't want the relationship and was waiting for the first easy oppportunity to bail.
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There is another possibility. He was cheating with the other girl and he didint care about the relationship much and breaking up with you was the most "convenient" option before you found out. But who know? Whatever the reason, I'm sorry to hear. Things will get better. :)
What was the fight about? You call it a little argument, but he obviously he didn't see it that way. My guess is you really disrespected him in your " little argument" and he saw you for who you are, or he felt like you were starting drama over little things and didn't want to wast time with you.
It sounds like this wasn't the reason for him breaking up with you. Maybe a small part of it, but there must have been something more. What was the nature of the fight? I mean, was it heated? Were regrettable things said?
He owes you more of an explanation than what he gave you, that's for sure.to me Crazy Jealousy, Smoking & Ghetto Public stunts are Deal Breakers.
I think you need to move on, I know hurts, but try an stay strong1. who uses the word "mellow" in this day and age?
2. He might have felt like there was no trust in the relationship.
3. Apologizing and/or saying you're sorry doesn't fix everything.He might have decided that jealous girls are just too much hassle to have in his life.
I feel the same way, to be honest.He didn't want to be with you
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