My bf used to be more independent and self-contained as we started seeing each other. However, since our relationship got a "physical aspect", I find he behaves somewhat submissive towards me. When we just mess around (in bed) he stays cool and decisive. But when I'm on top (and better yet, hold his wrists down), he's getting hot in an instant.
I know this is pretty normal, but sometime he started to have a submissive attitude outside the bed, too. Not to openly, but still unambiguously. Sometimes I respond to him, tell him that I will remind him of his promises. (They're mainly about him doing as I say...) When I actually do and tell him to do something, he's eager to obey me immediately---whether it is a triviality like getting me something to drin, or even kind of degrading like sitting on the floor next to my chair to caress my legs and feet. He always seems happy to do what I want.
I never expected him to be this way. Now he is and I'm not sure how to make use of this. Should I even? Is this just sexual or does he like a bossy attitude on girls/me in general? It' not that I'd have something against having a personal "servant", but I'm not sure whether he'd really like to take this position ;)
I know this is pretty normal, but sometime he started to have a submissive attitude outside the bed, too. Not to openly, but still unambiguously. Sometimes I respond to him, tell him that I will remind him of his promises. (They're mainly about him doing as I say...) When I actually do and tell him to do something, he's eager to obey me immediately---whether it is a triviality like getting me something to drin, or even kind of degrading like sitting on the floor next to my chair to caress my legs and feet. He always seems happy to do what I want.
I never expected him to be this way. Now he is and I'm not sure how to make use of this. Should I even? Is this just sexual or does he like a bossy attitude on girls/me in general? It' not that I'd have something against having a personal "servant", but I'm not sure whether he'd really like to take this position ;)
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