Guys don’t keep hot chicks around just to be friends (more often than not).
Naturally, all kinds of guys are pressuring "good looking" women to go out -- If she’s gorgeous why wouldn’t they ask her out?
Most guys that have problems with this are insecure and have trouble facing reality.
If I learned ANYTHING in college it is that "guys are bird dogs", even your friends. According to male/female psychology men will almost ALWAYS try to steal your girl (consciously or sub consciously), especially when she is attractive (they're studies that prove this).
When it comes down to it they're very few guys who’ll be loyal when it comes to your "squeeze"... very, very few.
But to answer your question... when it comes down to it I'd have no problem with my girlfriend having lots of guy friends.
I don't want to be the kind of guy that dictates my girlfriend's life.
Even if her guy friends might have some sort of interest in her romantically I'd let these other dudes show their true colors over the long haul.
Long story short... Worrying about my girlfriend spending time with other men is a good way to drive yourself crazy AND drive a wedge in your relationship.
Hope that answered your question
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ask the nice guy that has too many "just friend" girls as friends lol.
no not really as long as she's not in a committed relationship then such close buddies should back off some because she is. also I would expect the same thing if a guy had a lot of gal pals and he was in a good relationship. doesn't mean it should end but realize that said boy/gal pals now have someone they may spend more time with than them. if said bff forever gets more upset because said pal is speng time with their (bf/gf) then one would have to ask the question why are there deeper feelings there knowing that said pal may not be as available because of said relationship. question would you want said bff to be pissed or upset if situation was reversed.
just some food for thought
Guys make better friends.Girls are fake,shady,melodramatic,two faced,lying,backstabbing,overdramatic...I like guys as friends better.I get along with guys better.
I can see the difference between a girl who hangs out with guys for attention and girls who hang out with guys because they are "tomboys" or like guys better.There's always an obvious difference.
thats perfectly fine!i have lots of guy friends tooo.theyre so much fun and chill.but its always nice to have your girls by your side too
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Na not at all as long as they just friends. The way I see it friends are friends guy or girl shouldn't make too much of a difference. In my case anyway I'm secure and confident enough that if my girl did have a lot of guy friends it wouldn't bother me too much. So do you girl and if a guy ain't too happy bout it then buck em. Your friends been here b4 him and I'm sure they'll be here after he's gone. feel me.
Hope it helps, get at me if you need nething else. good luck and tc. 1Bottom line.Girls talk too much.Am sure you heard other girls say that,they would rather have guy friend cause girls a back stabbing bitches,there are few good ones tho,not all the same.I personally have more girl friends than guy's.My best friend is a girl but guys are kool when you find a good group to hang with.if a girl has a lot of guy friends it is OK with me,I think no less of her.
I know plenty of girls that have more guy friends then girl friends.
It's because of what evanelina said.I love girls who hang out with a lot of guys. They are usually so much easier to relate to, and I've found are actually MORE inclined to give it up. I think its hot, specially if she wants to hangout a lot with the bros. That take balls.
Not weird but certainly less datable. Even if they're just friends, they're still competition for time, attention. You'll always be compared to them. Also, guys are more territorial with their friends and will be more reluctant to approve of another guy dating their friend.
+1 on evangelina's answer.
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