Do you think it's weird when a guy randomly sends you a friend request? And WHY is it weird? what makes it weird? Also does it make a different if he's cute?
Girls - Is it weird getting random friend requests on Facebook?
Yes! It is weird and completely creepy!
WHY: Because Facebook to me is my place for my friends and unwanted Aunts. Its private (somewhat).
What makes it weird: What is the point? You add me. Then what? we talk...I'm not going to meet you. So where is this going?
Now you know where I live, work, go to school, who I hang out with, what my plans are for the weekend, you'll know my families names, possibly where they work..etc! It's not safe, if you didn't pick up on that.
If Cute: No, it doesn't matter. If I don't know you or know someone who knows you it doesn't matter how cute or ugly you are, you are getting denied.
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No, its not weird. If he's cute than he has a better chance of being added. What is weird though is when guys add girls from parties while they're still both at the party and they don't talk at all.
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I'm not a fan of getting or sending random requests. It's not weird, it's just questionable. If you're interested in being friends, I think it's easy enough to start a conversation, see if you get along with the other person, and then send a request.
Would you run up to someone in reality and act like you knew him or her because you wanted to be friends? No. It starts with an introduction.
As for the guy being cute, I'm even less likely to end up adding him. With any random request, I let it sit for a while before I decide to decline or accept. -
A friend is a friend right? =)
as long as it isn't someone
from across the globe who's
just gonna stalk my profile, I see
no problem in it =) -
I don't like it. I don't care if he's cute. It makes it seem like he's trying to use Facebook as a way to get laid. It's not a dating site. It's for people to keep up with people they already know. There are guys who troll Facebook asking for friend requests from every pretty girl he sees ... it's weak, like he can't meet girls in real life and also they tend to "collect" girls who are really gorgeous and not talk to normal girls, which shows entitlement issues.
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Yeah, its weird. It doesn't matter if he's cute, its creepy if I don't know him or have never met him. If I recently met him at a party or a bar or something similar, its fine, but a complete random is just weird.
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i aways reject guys I don't know. doesn't matter how cute he is.
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Its weird because they are not my friend... therefore I wouldn't accept his friend request. It doesn't matter if they are cute or not.
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Yeah it is weird. FB is meant for friends to get together...
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I have to at least know who he is for it to not be weird.
I don't think girls make to much a deal out of it.
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