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My crush's friend stares at me and acts weird when I talk to him?

This guy I like has this really,really close friend(even though my crush told me he was weird after he gave me a massage). Anyways, his friend always looks at me during lunch. My friends are in there (especially my...

MadiDeer21

Xper 5 Age: 32

Dating

Why do guys bail out on a date?

why does a guy call you, have a chat, plan a night out then bail?, was he just making conversation, if so why bother calling at all ? Then when you check to see if plans are going ahead with a text they don't reply? then...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

What does it mean when my girlfriend doesn't invite me to parties?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months. Things are going very well relationship wise, but this is the only thing that bothers me. I don't embarrass her, I'm usually pretty quiet during parties. I also...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My recent ex-girlfriend has a new boyfriend, what do I do?

My girlfriend of 2 years and I broke up last week. We had started to fight a lot recently and a very similar thing happened at the end of last year with her and I which resulted in us taking a month break from each...

tdpenrod

Xper 5 Age: 36

What does it mean when a guy puts his arm around you?

OK so I was walking with about 6 friends today and all of the sudden a guy I know puts his arm around me . Then later on he did it again and after that he put his hands on my shoulders. I've known him ever since I was in...

megan15

Xper 5 Age: 32

Break Up & Divorce

Why do men cheat on good women that have been there for them through thick and thin?

I been with this man for three years and I loved him to death. I found out he been cheating on me for about six months straight. Me not knowing he was cheating on me into I found an open condom in his car. I ask him about...

mz_NoMoreDrama

Xper 5 Age: 37

Pretty girls, they have it easy. Agree or disagree?

Says it all above, personally I disagree because you will eventually become too dependent or your looks but then again what is pretty?

Lollypop7x7x7x

Xper 3 Age: 34

Shopping & Gifts

What size shirt is my boyfriend? Help!

He's 6'1" and really skinny, he's 21. What size do you think his shirt is? I want to get him a shirt for his birthday.

Anonymous

(36-45)

When a shy guy looks at you then looks away quickly and doesn't look back, is this bad?

my crush does this A LOT and I can't tell if this is good or bad! help

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why don't guys/girls appreciate what they have until it's gone?

I am in terms of boyfriends and girlfriends. And you dump someone only to regret it later on. Why can't you appreciate what you have? Do you believe that if they truly cared they would never have dumped you?

Anonymous

(30-35)

When a woman squeezes your hand?

I do salsa and get to dance with some wonderful women. Recently I have noticed that several of them squeeze my hand after a dance and when I pass them on to others in a Rueada. Is this platonic or does it have other...

stallion

Xper 5 Age: 58

Is it OK for someone that is in a relationship to dance with someone of the opposite sex while at the club?

Let's say the boyfriend or girlfriend ends up going out with their friends to the club just to unwind and have some fun. Is it OK for someone that is in a relationship to grind/dance with someone of the opposite sex while...

Bubbles_the_Magician

Xper 5 Age: 35

Girls, why do you always hurt the "nice guy"?

so I recently got out of a relationship where I loved her to death, I always showed her how much I loved her, always was nice and polite and never forced anything on her but in the end she broke my heart by saying I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

He cheated and now he wants me back.

Okay, here's the deal. I've dated a million guys, which I know doesn't sound good at all on my part. But with him, it seemed so different. Like, it felt different and it felt good. I was so happy with him and I came to...

awholemessofme

Xper 5 Age: 34

Dating

How do you change your age on here?

my age is wrong... how do you change it?

jessica_the_divine

Xper 5 Age: 32

What does "innocently beautiful" mean to you?

and what celebrity would be an example of it?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How should I feel about my girlfriend getting drunk without me?

So my girlfriend goes out every now and then and drinks with her cousins. she is very trustworthy (as far as I know) and she is still a virgin(which for me contributes to my trust for her). but the problem is that I've...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls like guys tan or pale?

I've heard that most girls only like tan guys (aka Taylor Lautner) and don't like guys with lighter skin. True or not?

reelofthoughts

Xper 3 Age: 33

We didn't plan on an affair, it just happened.

I've been seeing this man 2 1/2 years now . We're both married to other people have been for a long time . We didn't plan on an affair it just happened. We didn't plan on the relationship becoming serious and falling in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, how often do you think about your crush?

Like, if you have a crush on a girl you don't talk to. e.g. in school. And also, if you see her, for example passing by, and you're looking at her, what are you thinking? :D If I see my crush my mind just goes totally...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She stares but never smiles

This was such a weird situation that it took me a while to realize it. I sit on one side of the room during class, and this girl, who's never spoken a word to me yet I've seen a bunch in my other classes, sits all the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Grinding at parties?

When I'm at parties and I'm grinding with a girl sometimes the girl will put there hands up around my head and kinda lean there head back and there lips are in reach of mine is that a sign to go for the Kiss or is the...

dtaylor31906

Xper 7 Age: 35

Fashion & Beauty

What does it mean when a guy looks at your eyes very intensely without smiling?

So why would a guy go and look directly into a girls eyes very intensely? What is he trying to tell her?

Samantha8888

Xper 5 Age: 35

If a guy grabs/caresses your hand :)

these two guy friends.. every time like when we high five or when I hold out my hand to get something from him like gum or whatever, they always grab my hand and pull my hand towards them! one of them, when we high...

angelinanguyen

Xper 5 Age: 32

Shopping & Gifts

My boyfriend doesn't want to celebrate his birthday but I still want to do something special for him?

He knows I don't have any money right now and I'm jobless so he told me he doesn't want me to do anything from him on his birthday, last year I went all out on his birthday and got him all these nice meaningful things but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

He thinks I'm cute, but won't make a move?

There's this guy, we don't know each other, but we have the same lunch period (high school). He talks to some of my friends, and thinks I'm really really pretty, he told them I'm the prettiest girl he's ever seen and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

"If a guy wants to talk to you, he will".. is that true?

is that quote true or do guys wait for the girl to contact them sometimes?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ask my friend to give me her number?

i met a girl who is one of my friends friend, talked to her for a while and felt a connection, but I didn't think of asking her number. So is it weird to ask my friend to give me her number because I'm not sure when I...

carl8908

Xper 3 Age: 36

What does this random once a month texts mean?

I'm having a hard time of knowing what this guy is doing with me and what the heck he wants. We were seeing each other non-exclusively in my opinion and one night when I was drunk, I texted him that it's probably not a...

Anonymous

(36-45)