All Questions

What simple fact do you wish more people understood?

Random question of the day -Happiness is a choice. - You can only change yourself. -You cannot change someone else. GO!

janelle615

Xper 6 Age: 34

Any girls out there like conservative well mannered guys?

A lot a girls go out with guys that are loud and obnoxious almost ape like manners that have outrages styles hippie emo, punk, gangster, with ripped jeans, saggy jeans, skinny jeans, loose shirts, tight shirts, sleeveless...

Anonymous

(30-35)

A girl I like lied to me?

i've been talking to this girl since December, a few months ago we both established that we care deeply for each other but none of us has made the step into trying to make a relationship. recently there's been this big...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

How to get a "player" to commit? for the fellas :)

Hey fellas, I was wondering on what makes a guy seriously commit to a girl? I'm talking about a guy who has "commitment issues" and the "greener pastures" mentality. I'm talking about a guy in his early 20s...what makes...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is it possible for an average-looking guy to date a really hot girl?

I was watching the movie She's Out of My League with some friends of mine and we got to talking about whether or not it was realistic for a hot girl to fall for an average-looking guy. One of my friends said it would only...

TrickyNickn

Xper 6 Age: 39

I'm 5'4 but my boyfriend is only 5'6?

it sucks cause I love wearing heels but I feel enormous and I know it doesn't look good at all, what do you guys think?

babijay23

Xper 3 Age: 34

Girl wants me to come over for a "movie night"?

A girl who I knew from college recently moved into my neighborhood. Her and I messed around once in college years ago, and now I'm slated to go over to her place to watch a movie. I'm not sure how to act in this...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do girls think about cardigans on guys?

I wear cardigans sometimes, usually with a button down shirt. Just wondering how the female gender felt about them on guys :o

gotnerd

Xper 5 Age: 36

Why are girls such airheads these days?

I mean just look at society, go to your local grocery store, go to a college and just see the amount of stupid girls walking around today. My gawd.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

How often should I text her?

is starting a convo once a day too much? too little? what do you guys think

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I befriend the new girl?

there is a new girl at school and she is pretty cute, how can I make her feel comfortable at the new school, and befriend her

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

I think I blew my chances with a great guy :(

So met this guy online. We had been talking for like 3 months online and on the phone. He lives in another state then me. So I asked him if would like to come stay a weekend with me so we could see if we still felt the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Girl says she's going through a lot right now and can't handle being with anyone. Is she being genuine?

I've gone out or hung out with this girl twice and talk to her a few times a week. I've asked her out a couple other times and she would say she was busy doing something and the one time she agreed she called to say she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do girls look at some women and laugh? or give dirty looks?

I'm just wondering because I feel REALLY insecure. I don't like it when people constantly look at me or give me dirty looks because I honestly am not happy with how I look. I am constantly told I'm nuts and stupid and I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Signs that a guy is a player?

What do you think are some signs that a guy is a player?(: There's this guy I've been talking to for a while now. He lives in a different town but we text a lot and he's always really sweet.(: He calls me cutie, he...

CarrieDawn

Xper 7 Age: 36

Health & Fitness

Skinny but strong...is it possible?

OK so I'm like 5'8ish but only 135lbs but I'm able to squat like 285lbs and bench like 195lbs and can do like 28 pullups but I still look pretty skinny...should I see a doctor because I feel like I have a disease or...

VTUser

Xper 5 Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

How do you let other guys know... "She's Mine"

if you're out with your girlfriend and you notice other guys hovering around her or watching her or even hitting on her(maybe even guys you know) what body language would you use to let them know 'she's mine back off'?...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guys and girls explain your meaning to these phrases?

My friends and I were having a discussion on how guys and girls have different meanings for different phrases so guys and girls please explain what each of these phrases mean to you or what you mean when you use them. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do I dress too fancy on a daily basis?

i had my friends take pictures of my outfits all last week. the only places I went was school. these pics were taken after school, obviously. monday: link tuesday: link i'm the girl on the right wednesday:...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Cheating ex - PAY BACK?

so I found out that my girlfriend was in two relationships at once. now the guy and and I have joined forces. we want to show her what she did was not cool and have her feel what it was like for at least one day with the...

kyler25

Xper 6 Age: 36

Is 5'7" too tall for a girl?

Since I broke up with my boyfriend I have been feeling very self conscious about my height. When I go out at night I seem to be freakishly taller than everyone else (girls and guys). I am thin but not too skinny so I do...

pinto121212

Xper 3 Age: 41

Signs my hook up is falling for me?!

we are friends who are kinda seeing each other now but I wanna know if these are signs he is falling for me: 1. he texts me all day/msgs me on facebook 2. he wants us to be faithful to each other 3. he gets jealous...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does this shy guy like me? why do I like him so much? please help

OK, I normally end up liking (without meaning to) confident and some times even cocky guys, needless to say it hasn't ended well. recently I was chatting with Jordan (a good mate) about some silly stuff and he randomly...

steffikay

Xper 5 Age: 32

Shy guy went "deer in headlights"...what do I do now?

I'll keep this short. I told my crush that I have a huge crush on him --> dude froze up and kept on saying thank you --> still talks/interacts with me but so far epic failed in clarifying himself. Here, "he's not that...

starangel248

Xper 3 Age: 40

My girlfriend is a player; how to deal with it?

I have been with my girlfriend for a year now but she cheated me in the past..Our love only sustained for 4 month and then I heard it from her friend that she didn't love me. When I asked her she said: she tried to love...

Anjaana

Xper 5 Age: 36

Relationships

Signs that she wants to take the relationship farther?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months now and are getting along great. We both love each other and really want it to be a long lasting relationship. Because of that, we have been taking things very...

Anonymous

(30-35)