All Questions

Do people compliment your looks?

If they do, do you accept it or think they're full of sh*t and being nice? I'm the latter. The only thing I believe is personality compliments but those get old.

snackeyg

Xper 4 Age: 37

If I do a background check on my boyfriend, can he find out it was me that did the back ground check on him?

I smell something fishy with my boyfriend. Something is off. His stories aren't adding up. My family members would tell me his stories weren't adding up but I didn't want to believe them. Until I caught him in a lie but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls shaving legs during winter? Am I asking for too much?

My girlfriend does not shave her legs during winter, and if I'm ever holding her and I happen to touch her legs, she'll silently and awkwardly remove my hand. We both know its embarrassing and unattractive, yet I've felt...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Will you date a girl only once a month if you like her?

Thanks for reading my question. I am really confused and would like to seek your advice. I meet this guy 4 months ago and dated for 4 times only. He calls in infrequently, sometimes as long as over a month. I do think he...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

Ex works at my gym, what should I do?

My boyfriend and I broke up a couple of days ago. Its a long story. Basically he knew he couldn't be with me because of his culture so I broke up with him because he told me that we'd have to break up before one of us...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ex boyfriend, I changed my number ,what you think will happen?

we were each others 1st loves and we gave each other our virginities :( been together 2 years...we broke up a month ago but still texted everyday, one day he would text me a loving sweet message and the next day he would...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend is really cocky and I'm not sure how to deal with him?

I do love my boyfriend to bits. We've been together for 9 months. It's had it's ups and downs, but when it's good it's amazing. He is terribly cocky though. For example; 1) I have night planned out with the girls...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did he try to get me back and then leave me for someone else?

So devastated and would really like to hear what you think! I've been so depressed that I don't know what to do with myself. I can't get through this alone, and my friends stopped listening, so please listen. I'm...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

I think that men who cry are weak, pathetic and should be ashamed for doing so, do you agree?

Men are supposed to be strong and never cry, no matter what. Not even when someone close to them dies (they can be sad but not cry, crying is just going to far) Crying should stop when you are 12-13 years old. Men who...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do people run from love?

Ever notice how love always seems unrequited? if you care about someone, they never do for you? you open up and show your vulnerable side, and they get scared and run away? or sometimes they insult you, say you're a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She said I love you, but she was drunk?

My girlfriend and I were dating for 6 months and hooked up 4 months straight before I asked her to be my girlfriend. She broke up with me because I asked her best friend if she ever cheated on me. during our break up,...

slizzle

Xper 5 Age: 35

Society & Politics

Is a Deep voice a good thing?

I'm a freshman in High school and I have a really deep voice. Deeper than my fathers, my teachers, almost everyone. What do most people think about deep voices?

adviceneeder

Xper 3 Age: 32

Family & Friends

Why does my boyfriend keep creeping on other girls' facebook pages?

I am posting this here, for I am too embarrassed to admit to my friends that facebook has become a factor in my relationship. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 yrs, and though no indiscretions, things do...

hopeanne33

Xper 5 Age: 42

I don't get this quote?

i don't get the qoute ¨ Luckier is a girl to be a guy’s last love¨what does that mean? explain please (:

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is it annoying when girls don't text back, guys?

Is it annoying when a girl doesn't text back or if she takes a long time to reply? If so is it enough to stop talking to the girl?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Do guys wait for the girl to text/call them first?

i am texting someone that I am interested in... but I am usually texting him first... so lately, I have been backing off a bit.. but he hasn't been texting. does that mean he doesn't care really or does it possibly mean...

baaaby

Xper 5 Age: 36

Why is it okay for girls to show affection towards each other but not guys?

Question says it all?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Breaking up with my live in boyfriend of 3 years. Am I doing the right thing?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. Living together for 2 1/2. I adore him. I was originally attracted to his amazing sense of humor. He could make me laugh like no other. I was not thinking how hot he was....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

Boyfriend was going to meet up with another girl? Have your cake and eat it too?

my boyfriend of nearly 4 years planned a trip to panama with his buddies...i found on his email where he was trying to meet up with a girl there...he says he loves me and I know he means it but why do guys try to talk to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

What does it mean when a guy wants you to have his baby?

In the beginning of our friendship he told me he was doing the dating thing and how he haven't found the one yet, and that he would like a family and all. As our friendship progressed to the next level boyfriend and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Should I stop calling and texting her?

It's bothering me that she never contacts me first, and that ever since I've met her, up until our most recent date, I've always been the one to contact her. So I was thinking that I need to change my behavior to let her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Considered stuck up if you dress nice?

Why do people consider girls who look nice, dress in designer and name brand clothes/bags/shoes, have higher end make-up, etc. fake? I just do not get it! Like I get that really long fake nails or a super fake looking tan...

GymNasty19

Xper 3 Age: 32

Why Is Curly Hair Considered Unattractive?

Why is curly hair considered unattractive or not as attractive as straight hair to GUYS? This is what I've gathered from the male users on here. Girls, it's great that you think curly hair is attractive but I sort of...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

I always get hit on by girls that are underage, how do I get older women to start hitting on me?

So I'm 21 but I look like I'm 17. I'm 5'7'' and 135 lbs. At work I get hit on by underage girls (Under 17), it's quite flattering but frustrating at the same time because since I am 21 I can't do anything. So how can I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Should I dump her? My girlfriends been going clubbing.

she calls it "girls night out" every Friday she goes out clubbing with only her girlfriends and I'm sick of it i know she's probably cheating on me should I dump her ?

Anonymous

(30-35)

White jeans, gay on guys?

i often get asked if I'm gay. I'm not and have no problem with gay people. I have a white pair of jeans for summer, do women get put off by guys in white jeans and think they are gay. I normally would not care about this...

g1rl5a5k5uy5

Xper 5 Age: 41

What does it mean when a guy says I know you love me?

Is he telling me how he feel about me.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is beauty an opinion? Or a fact?

The question speaks for itself. Does the adjective "beautiful" differ through perspectives? Or is there a standard in which we can judge whether a person is considered beautiful? This is a very open question, so feel...

Already_over

Xper 3 Age: 35

He left me alone after dark. Does he care at all about me?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months now. I don't have any feelings for him at all, but I don't want to be used either. And some things make me wonder if he actually cares about me. Let me start with the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Does talking to other guys after a break-up really help you get over it?

I have been trying to get over this guy that I fell extremely hard for. One of the things that I've been doing to try to feel better is hanging out with someone new (I'm not interested in the new guy though. He knows that...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

(Girls) Do you find a guy that plays an instrument attractive?

Is A guy that plays and Instrument more attractive than a guy who Doesn't? Which instrument do you find most attractive? Just curious since I notice an incline in women interested in me since I learned to play guitar.

TheFallen

Xper 5 Age: 39

Why do men prefer brunettes over blondes?

I'm a natural blond and recently, I asked my boyfriend what hair color he prefers on women. He said that truthfully, he preferred brunettes. I did some research and now I'm realizing that a huge percentage of guys prefer...

andi1787

Xper 3 Age: 36