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My girlfriend kept slapping me so I choked her up?

was I wrong? she says I should apologize but I told her she was the one who hit me first, now we are not talking to each other

youngal

Xper 5 Age: 34

Break Up & Divorce

What's the best thing to do when he leaves you for his ex?

I was seeing a guy for seven months, I thought we were deeply in love. everything was pretty good, we had our arguments, but we became best friends. everything moved really fast but he told me every day how much he loved...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Cut under my nail :(

I cut myself under my right thumb nail.. like where dirt usually accumulates... with a plastic thingie.. it cut evenly on 3/4 of it like 2 millimeters deep right under the nail... it stings every now and then.. I'm...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Uncomfortable saying "I love you"

My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 yrs. He isn't an emotional person and to an extent I've learned to accept that. When I tell him I love him he just nods at me. When I asked him about it his answer was "I...

nwells08

Xper 4 Age: 43

My boyfriend is too nice to me

He tells me that he loves me ten times a day. He want me to be with him all day long. When we're not together, he'd continuously text me. He still can't believe that I am his gf, its been like 6 months and goes "you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dream about my crush and his ex girlfriend? help

I had a dream I was living with my crush and his on/off girlfriend who he split up with 2 years ago and there was flirting going on between me and the guy.He had an argument with his on/off girlfriend and I walked...

selinamc

Xper 5 Age: 39

Is there any household item that helps you tan?

Is there any like house hold item that helps tan you? Does vegetable oil work? Are there any good ways to get tan from using everyday items?

kipperlove3

Xper 5 Age: 35

Why does she stare at me often?

I am working in a BPO., I was attracted to this girl at the first sight in my job training. But she works 4 different process.. Yet from the first sight she stares at me often., And do often.. One thing about her is that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do guys get mad when girls cry?

I've realized every time I cry in front of a boy they get mad or annoyed. So I try to keep it all in when I'm around a guy but when I can't they just seem upset and irritated like they don't even care they just want you...

Rosalie_19

Xper 4 Age: 33

Should I wear cologne on a first date, if so, what kind?

I don't ware cologne mainly because when I was younger at least it made me sneeze. I'm just wondering if girls have favorites I heard of this one called touch or something was supposed to be pretty good.

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm kinda a "one-woman" kind of guy... Is that bad? At least right now?

I mean later in life when I'm with the love of my life, it would be GREAT, but I'm 18 and have never been in a relationship. Now what I mean by my question is that, I haven't really liked all that many girls over the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to deal with a womanizer?

My boyfriend is a womanizer. He told me so when we started dating and I accepted it. I set some boundaries, I don't mind him flirting with other girls, touching breasts playfully or kissing others but I don't want him...

AverageGirl

Xper 5 Age: 33

Do girls only date guys that are the same height as them or taller?

I'm 5'1 and 24 years old so I know I stopped growing, I say my looks are probably average. I look around no matter where I live (in Canada any way) 80% of the time if not more the guy is usually the same height or...

kairon156

Guru Age: 41

Girls, What hairstyle looks best on black guys?

what hairstyle do you favor the most on a black guy for ex. mohawk, dreads, afro, bald, normal short brushed hair, twists etc. you can name a celebrity as an example if you want

wrestler119

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why is he distant after we hang out/not texting anymore?

I've been seeing this guy for about a month. I met him online----his profile said he was looking for a serious relationship. He travels a lot for work so sometimes he is gone for weeks at a time. We've gone out about 4...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Do girls really look at a guy's backpack in school/college?

I have been wondering about this because when I'm on campus (Rutgers University if you're wondering) I noticed that most chicks go for the dude with the black backpack. It seems like as long as made by JanSport or The...

KushKhalifa

Xper 4 Age: 37

Do guys honestly like girls that dress like sluts? Or do they really like clean cut girls?

I know a bunch of guys who always seem to go for the same girls at school: short skirts, low tops, the average and typical sluts. Are these girls and guys the exceptions? Or do most guys like girls who are clean cut and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Finally moving on... but I feel guilty

My ex and I were together for over 2 years and are still friends. It ended because he met someone else but he never told me about her. Things didn't work out with them and I ended up finding out the truth months later. It...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Kill him with kindness?

So I decided to be extra nice to my ex with whom I pregnant to. I figure I am just gonna be open and not bitter about the break up. Maybe I'll throw him for a loop? What's everyone's thoughts on this?

Danni

Xper 6 Age: 46

Flirting

When a girl says "I need space"...

What do they REALLY mean? Don't just say you need space, there has to be something behind this. I have had probably about 3 experiences with this and all 3 times the girl was sleeping with another guy within a week. Does...

joshnumber21

Xper 3 Age: 44

Flirting

How long was your longest crush?

Guys and girls, What is the longest period you have had a crush on someone? Did he/she ever know/find out?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does "kind of dating" mean?

I've recently started chatting again with this guy I briefly dated last winter and have known for a long time (we didn't date before because I lived in a different state). I am really into him, and I know he likes me,...

maebybaby

Xper 5 Age: 43

Guys, what is the difference between attraction and interest?

Sometimes you look at a girl because she's pretty and your attracted but you don't want anything more than just admiring her. At other times, there's the looking at her and wanting to know more about her.. so what exactly...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What's the best way to impress/ gain trust of a Capricorn?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it wrong to hook up with a guy the first time you hang out together? If so, how long should you wait?

guys do you consider girls slutty if they hook up with you during the first hangout?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should my boyfriend call when he's out of town?

Been dating for 5 months and my boyfriend went out of town for two weeks. Its been 7 days, I thought he would call just to say hi or at least tell me he arrived safely. We talk every day and see each other every...

babygil

Xper 4 Age: 68

Am I being treated like a trophy boyfriend or is she ashamed of me?

Today me and my girlfriend got into a little dispute about me getting a job and I'm really trying but she doesn't understand how hard it is because everything has been handed to her. The job she has was given to her by...

DaLastHNIC

Xper 5 Age: 39

Why do guys like ditzy girls?

yeah, that's about it. Why do guys seem to be attracted to girls who are dumb or pretend to be dumb?

Nikki12345

Xper 6 Age: 36

He says it's whatever, so is it?

my best friend is a guy. at times it kind of feels like were more than that, but without the attachments. when I go places I don't always ask him to go with me. sometimes I like doing my errands or going about town by...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do bad boys like good girls or bad girls also?

im typically a good girl and happen to fall for the bad boys. But do they prefer good girls (opposite) or bad girls (just like them) ?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do guys think of innocent girls?

Do they like it or not?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

What does a girl mean when she says she has mixed feelings?

girls, may I have some help with this please? thanks

Anonymous

(30-35)

When a guy says 'I love you', how can you tell if he means it?

says 'I love you', how can you tell if he means it? Backtracking a lil' bit; I have a bad history with guys ( big surprise here, I know) & being lead on a bit. I've described myself as an eternal pessimist on multiple...

kaylaaxbabiee

Xper 5 Age: 35

My boyfriend goes over to his female friend's house at least once a week to fix something, should I worry?

Hi, My boyfriend goes over to an attractive female friends house at least once a week to fix something. They have been friends for about 10yrs and he says when he first met her he was attracted but nothing happened....

MCKAH

Xper 5 Age: 45

Why doesn't my boyfriend go out of his way for me?

I love doing things to make my boyfriend happy. I cook, I clean, I randomly buy him things that I think he'd like, I got him an iPod touch for his birthday and I bring him food from my house or buy him food. I am far from...

charminbear

Xper 4 Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

He's a very laid back, quiet guy....how to deal with him?

I've been dating this guy for about 7 weeks now, we met when I got his number and we texted and agreed to meet up. During the first couple of weeks, we went on about 2 - 3 dates a week, then I stayed at his one weekend...

clueless_girl

Xper 5 Age: 41