All Questions

What exactly does "whispering sweet nothings into one's ear" mean?

Rebellious

Xper 3 Age: 37

He's always joking around with me, is he just playing games?

There's this guy I like that always mentions us going out to a movie or concert together (saying we should watch this movie or he would only watch if I were with him) but then takes it back almost immediately with a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

My girlfriend is pregnant. Help me get rid of her! :(

It has recently come to me that my girlfriend recently got pregnant and, I don't want to be a father of the child. How do I get rid of here in a humane and proper way?

Crow123

Xper 5 Age: 38

Fashion & Beauty

He avoids eye contact, but steal glances?

So my crush knows I like him. He avoids eye contact, but my friends always tell me he steals glances and is checking me out/looking at me from afar. Is this a good sign even if he doesn't ever make eye contact with me?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend dumped me twice but the second time was completely unexpected.

My ex and I have a complicated relationship. We knew each other throughout high school, but didn't actually get together until we graduated. At first it started as just a summer thing, because we were going to different...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What makes a guy curious about a girl?

Does it mean he likes you if he's curious about you or is it 2 different things? What is he thinking then?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to tell if the girl wants to hold your hand?

Tomorrow I'm going to be hanging out with this girl that I like, and she has told me that she is interested as well. We're most likely going to be walking around the neighborhood together, and I figured holding hands...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Why do guys not look at me anymore?

I Dress trendy and I'm a good looking gal, but guys don't look at me anymore and if they do, it's only a peek. so that I don't see that they're looking at me? does it mean, I'm doing something wrong?

Anonymous

(36-45)

When he does not include you in his life that much?

My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for one and a half years now. My family and friends have met him but I have never met even his friends. I include him in some of my activities but he has never invited me to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Weird situation... is cutting him off the right thing to do?

Ok, I am in the strangest living situation which I really can't get out of unless I decide to become homeless. I moved to another country last year to attend university near my ex (we were on a break when I came). I have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls , would you like to control/dominate your crush?

I’m doing research. Please help girls. ? Tell me which of the following ideas is hot or not: 1. tell her I’m in love with her. 2. tell her she's so beautiful that I want to obey her. 3. tell her she can control me if...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do I have a crush on my best guy friend?? Does he?

ok I met this boy in college.well I met many lol and we're all very good friends but this guy is a bit closer than my closest guy friends.we share very very similar interests.we can read each others minds and its so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did she stop liking me?

It was awkward after seeing her after a week but we got back to the way things were before she left. I noticed her looking at me for long periods of time and when I see her looking she quickly turns away. We talked and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Is it creepy to send a girl flowers with barely knowing her?

A girl, that was in my high school class, has a birthday coming up. I like this girl and she did some weird stuff towards me while we were in school. they didn't involve me personally, but they seemed pointed towards me....

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy says you're interesting?

Guys are always telling me that they find me very interesting. This happens with a lot of guys. Recently, I had a conversation with this guy who I think likes me, though he's all afraid of commitment. Not a big deal to me...

sassygal4

Xper 6 Age: 42

Dating

He doesn't seem very interested but keeps asking me on dates... what is up with that?

well he doesn't seem interested meaning he doesn't call me unless he's asking me out on a date..he doesn't usually return my calls either... we've gone on 2 dates last saturday I turned him down for a date and I tried...

allie04

Xper 5 Age: 35

What does it mean when a guy says you melt?

The guy I like who likes me too told me "You make me melt" ... I know it means something nice but somebody please just explain it to me. I'm sure it means different things to different people. Tell me!

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are men so inconsiderate of women's feelings?

Lately I am feeling depressed.. I hate my relationship and waiting for that exact moment to just end it. I am very emotional during this time so I have been crying a lot... He says to me "Do you even know what you are...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

He took her virginity and then dumped her.

okay, so my friend was with this guy in 11th grade for six months. they were going to wait for each other to have sex, but she dumped him because she was bored and didn't want to be tied down her senior year. he was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does this mean I will never hear from him again? Please help

fell in love with this guy,even though I knew he was going to move away.but I did it anyway.he is the first man I ever got intimate with.now,the last time I saw him,i got very emotional,because he has to leave in two...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you respect people who never get angry?

I really respect this guy because he got mad at me three times in one week. That says to me that he's a genuine person and that he has morals... Some people when they don't like you, they keep it to themselves or they...

993099142

Xper 6 Age: 41

What does "exotic" meant to guys? [inspired by the question below]

So in the question below this one, I saw that the question asker mentioned Megan Fox as exotic (she's just tan with really dark hair and nicely arched eyebrows but I see nothing exotic about her features). Do guys really...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Is it normal to think of your ex everyday?

He was my first Love, was with him for 2 years 1 months. We have been apart now for 18 Months, and Everyday he is in my head. Is this Normal?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Which hair color is most "exotic"?

It's time to dye my hair again and I want to look exotic. by exotic, I mean like one of those victoria's secret models from Brazil. I am very Caucasian, not going to lie. But what I do have going for me is a pair of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm in love with a maintenance man?

Hey Guys :) I am a freshman at college, and have been into this guy since last September. I would see him in the dining hall all the time and after a couple of months found out he is a maintenance man for our school....

additb16

Xper 3 Age: 36

Why do men chicken out of everything??

I have a good friend - we've known each other for about six years. Really hitting it off; able to tell each other a lot. Ever since last Christmas I'd continue to keep in touch through email (we live several states away)...

dothedew

Xper 5 Age: 43

My crush's brother likes me!!

My friend tells me that my crush's brother likes me which means both of them like me. She tells me everything they say about me but both of them don't talk to me .Also they don't want other people to know that they like...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I dump my boyfriend who is obsessed with my farts?

my boyfriend is obsessed with my farts, i find it weird. should I dump him?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Bulky vs skinny guys (? for women)

ok I been losing weight recently and I've noticed I have a very large frame ,im like the definition of big boned, I come from germans,scots, and the irish.(some of bulkiest people in world) But even when I get to my ideal...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Another girl likes my crush...

I just found out recently another girl likes my crush too, and apparently they are really close, but not dating.i think he likes me but I get so angry/jealous when I see her going over to talk to him.my crush knows I like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is he using me for sex?

so...I've began to wonder if my guy(dating but not official) is using me for sex..here's what happened recently. tuesday night at like 10:40 pm ..after he got off training, he texted and said he was heading home and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

I'll call you tomorrow....or the next day....

This is what my guy says when ever I get off the phone with him. For instance, we were on the phone last night and are planning to do something this Saturday and he ended the call with "I'll call you tomorrow...or the...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Boyfriend wants "a couple days to clear his head" after argument. What should I expect?

My boyfriend and I had a huge fight last night. We were both out having drinks at the bar where he works and, after one too many drinks on both of our accounts, we ended up arguing in public. Basically, I'd been feeling...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl said she likes me and now acting distant?

So there's this girl I really really like, we talked a lot and about pretty much everything. She even said she liked me as more then a friend but since a couple of weeks she's been a bit distant. I always have to start...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys slow down with texting?

Why do guys slow down with texting? When we first started going out, my boyfriend and I texted like crazy, and now we rarely text at all. And its not me, its him. I'm lucky enough to get 30 texts from him, when we used to...

Anonymous

(36-45)