All Questions

Are people who hate Valentines Day just mad, butt hurt and jealous that they are single and can't find a date?

coachTanthony

Influencer Age: 55

Is this considered too picky or unlucky in love?

A woman gets approached by guys but only the kind of men she doesn’t find attractive. If they’re good looking, they’re usually flighty. And if they’re decent looking and nice, they’re usually short. She’s single because a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do men shut down when stressed?

My boyfriend and I had a bit of heated talk yesterday and now he is acting pretty cold with me and quite distant. I’d like to talk it out but don’t want to push him and cause him more stress. I want to respect his...

Judyjetson

Xper 2 Age: 40

Why would an introverted girl give mixed signals, but start dressing in baggie clothes when I pulled away and ignored her?

A really introverted girl would always wear really tight clothes, and I would often notice her doing things to get me to look at body (like arching her back while giving me eye contact). One day she was smiling at me then...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you want an educated man/woman?

For me, being educated isn’t the same as being intelligent. Unless you’re in a STEM field, your degree/level of education tells me nothing of your IQ level. I want a girlfriend who has a high IQ, not just “educated”.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

Any other multimillionaires here?

I am. I don’t need to explain how I have this fortune. You probably are skeptical. But to me it’s no big deal. It’s kind of like whatever.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Are women always looking for a better deal whenever it comes to having a partner?

Are women always looking for a better deal whenever it comes to having a partner? For example if their boyfriend is an 8 out of 10 in terms of looks and makes 40000 a year would she dump her boyfriend for a dude that is a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy asked me out on a second date but texts a lot less. Uninterested?

After our first date, he no longer asks about my day or talks about his, unless I initiate a text. He asked me out by asking if I have any idea of what we should go out and do together. He waited 3 days before asking. He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, Why do girls tend to see guys going shirtless as a negative thing?

If a guy goes shirtless in public, even if he has a great body, lots of girls seem to get offended by it somehow. Like they'll give you crossways looks and even make comments to let you know they think you're a douche....

HikerDude

Yoda Age: 34

Society & Politics

Can you imagine Feminism?

Feminists. Assume you managed to convert your country into a feminist paradise. Describe a generic day in the life of your average feminist family. You may include any details you want but at minimum you must include •...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do the guys I like never like me back?

A lot of times I feel like things go well and the conversation is flowing and we laugh about random things and even sometimes get sexual. Almost all the guys I admit feelings too always end up saying “You have such an...

Flavava21

Xper 4 Age: 27

Should I block his ass, keeping talking, or just move on?

we pretty much made it clear we like each other and he said all these sweet things as if we are going somewhere with us. But on social media, I can read all these thirsty shet he can say to another girl he seemed to wanna...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I am breadcrumbing and/or paperclipping a guy. How do I stop myself?

So there is this guy from another country that I have been talking to, and it had been going pretty well with him. We actually started off as friends, and in an year, I told him I liked him. Now that I think of it, I...

theunattractiveone

Xper 3 Age: 23

My ex boyfriend got a new girlfriend and I don’t know what to do?

My ex and I dated for four months before our break up in November. When we were together, he flirted with other women (trying to get with them) and did a lot of rude, childish stuff. Maybe a week later or two he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Is this girl playing hard to get or is she not interested?

I met this girl on a dating app, and a few days after we started talking she gave me her Snapchat. We kept talking on there for a few more days and then we hung out. Nothing sexual happened or was even attempted and we...

BradyH

Xper 4 Age: 27

Why my ex unblocked me? Just to make me jealous/mad?

Why my ex who tells everybody that she's over me suddenly unblocks me from Instagram without saying a word just to post bitter quotes about me and pictures with her boyfriend who was her ex before me... I'm not posting...

Redbaron21

Xper 2 Age: 32

Boyfriend says "You will never find anyone better than me?" Emotionally draining. Is he a narcissists or loves drama? What does he want from me?

When I would bring up slightly upsetting circumstances; leaving a broom and dust pan on the floor of the bathroom overnight, he would find ways to turn it against me or bring heated issues to unrelated topics. He would...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He's dark, not good looking at all but I have a crush on him just because he has a crush on me and the way he acted around me. What does this mean?

This guy has a crush on me (I suspected). He's not good looking at all but I developed a crush on him on the 2nd day just because I find it endearing that he tends to be around me in school but acts shy, nervous, quiet,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What’s a bigger issue for you ladies?

wingspan83

Explorer Age: 30

Why do so many black men here always elevate white women onto pedestals? Why do so few of them value black women yet still expect them to be loyal?

It just makes no sense to me. It seems like most black guys are attracted to white women who share their socially liberal lifestyle values of not wanting to marry and raise kids. And they’ve just become bored of...

Jack9949

Explorer Age: 24

Why does my boyfriend wants me to chase him? why do guys like to be chased? is it manipulation?

He knows he suppose to do the work when I go through hard time but why does he want me to go after him why does he wants me to chase him? I went through hard time yesterday and he was there for me, yesterday I said thank...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it mean if a girl says don’t tell anyone we hooked up?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fashion & Beauty

Do these white stockings look weird with this black dress?

I wanted to wear these stockings for Valentine’s Day because it has cute little hearts on them

pink_and_inlove

Yoda Age: 24

Why does she say that she doesn't like me but always stare at me and smile?

I asked her does she like me, she said "No." Yet she's always staring at me. I turn around and there she is looking at me. After a few seconds, she looks away. This happens everyday. When I say hey to her, she smiles and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My new Girlfriend is mad at me and wants a break how to make her forgive me?

I started dating this girl for a month and it's a new relationship. We have dated 8 times so far. Last time we met was 4 days ago and I could notice a sharp decline in her interest in talking to me for last 2 days. When I...

ik09011

Xper 4 Age: 34

Flirting

What does it mean when a guy leaves you on delivered?

We had some conversation but then he just stopped responding. We were gonna make plans to go to dinner.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do guys like hearing “I appreciate you😊”?

I’m sort of freaking out because I just sent this for the first time ever to my boyfriend. He complimented my heart so I sent this back. My goal is to make him smile, would you like this?

Hannah_Ann_Linge

Xper 6 Age: 28

Girls, Saved and unsaved a pic she sent on Snapchat, thought ur was ok but she blocked me after, and hasn’t replied to my apologies?

Was talking to a girl for a couple of months, she sent me a pic on Snapchat that I thought was ok to save but I unsaved it 5 minutes later cus I realized I didn’t really want to save and wasn’t the right thing to do. She...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Boots on a guy? Yay or nay?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Any minority girls on here who are into white men?

What do you like about us?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Are all men superficial or is it just NYC?

The experience I have had here is that guys are really into looks

Rebeccalions

Xper 5 Age: 36

Why do girls play cat and mouse game?

The girl i like is playing cat and mouse with me at the moment. Like when I first met her she was really chatty and I could feel both us been drawn to each other everytime we lock eyes. Suddenly she acts all shy with me...

ando90

Xper 7 Age: 30

Health & Fitness

Have you ever been unconscious?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend broke up. He begs me to forgive him and then breaks up with me again. I feel like it’s emotional abuse?

I know he’s playing with me and definitely doesn’t care about me the way he did before. He keeps going back to the same girl we broke up about. I do my best to let go and move on. I’ve blocked him and he finds a way to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are the Middle Easterners ugly?

its all. i never heard that they are beautifull

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is a very tall volleyball girl stronger than an average short guy?

When the girl is almost a whole foot taller (6'3/1,90m) and like 50 pounds (20kg) heavier than the guy (5'4/1,64m) and in volleyball training, will she be stronger than him or does he still have greater overall strength...

Anonymous

(25-29)