He completely broke me down to nothing. How to move on? (Page 2)
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Time heals all wounds.
Just focus on this new guy. Shake it off. You've been sucker punched, but you're not dead. Pick yourself up, go one day at a time, and try to be a better person than you've ever been before. This is a growing experience and it will make you stronger, tougher, and more disciplined. Do you need this guy's acknowledgement of something you already know? No.
Concentrate on the new guy. Anyone who runs to an ex as soon as they come back are not worth the trouble of chasing after. If they truly cared for you that much, they would not just go with someone else while with you.
Would you be able to possibly tell me why he lied about his feelings? It's all just so confusing, and I've been in over 5 relationships, but this one was so odd.
He was most likely confused about his own feelings due to being hurt. Don't worry about the amount of relationships you have had. What really counts is the quality of the one you are in now. Don't lose sight of today for what you had yesterday. Yesterday is gone and today is what you have.
Well, this should teach you never to have too much trust and faith in another human being. Some is alright, but if you get into a state of co-dependency, things may eventually turn sour.
The biggest upset was him lying about his feelings. Would you be able to possibly tell me why he did this?
Well, he is both telling the truth, and he's lying. He's honest in that when he's saying it, he doesn't really care about you much, he's just happy to have his ex back. But he's lying in that when he did feel these things, they were genuine and native and real. In short, he's a fickle beast, with very low capacity for empathy towards other people. Selfish, narcissistic, and malicious. You're better off without him if he can sink to such lows like he's doing. Yes there's good things about him too, but that hardly matters when he has so very much maturing to do.
That`s his fault. And when that girl cheats on him again, and he tries to take you back, tell him no. He doesn`t deserve you. And he is stupid. You should keep telling yourself that and find someone who treats you like a princess.
Anyone who goes back to someone who cheated on them is a pussy & a wimp. That there should be enough to put him in the past. Concentrate on the new guy & leave el wimpo in the dust.
Could you possibly tell me why he lied about his feelings... you know from a male perspective?
Hey, some people are just asses. He most likely said it so word of it will get back to his ex, saving face. He's kissing his exes ass at your expense, it's what bootlicking wimps do. Don't worry, when she cheats on him again, & she will, laugh then tell him you have, & had no feelings for him when he comes running back.
How to move on? You already met someone else! You're better than most people who get crapped on and stay single for years afterwards.
he could have been scared of falling in love with you because of a previous relationship or something.
try to move on, it'll do no good dwelling on it.
guys face kind of situations everytime (not exactly as yours), i mean girls broke us apart many times but we just accept it and move on but if its a girl who is the victim, it always seems to be a bigger problem.
He sounds a bit unstable. Realize that he has his own questions like this in his head about that other girl. Keep your chin up and don't pass the craziness on
That sounds bad and i wish i could say its going to be okay but the truth is i can't say that its going to hurt for a bit but time will pass and you will start to feel better just try and have as much fun as you can and don't let this drag you down have a smile on your face and hug some people hugs are Amazing and they make you feel better talk about it with a friend xx
Hey that sounds horible i have been in one of those i was never into u but i was so totally into u monents but urs is cerious i think that u should do some thing to get ur mind of of him take the new guy in ur life to an amusement park or on some fun adventure/date to get ur mind els whair just try to spend as much time as u can with the new guy in ur life just think of this as a next chapter and make it a good one to remember;)
You probley were a rebound but for real he's a loser and he will get his good when his ex cheats on him again and destroys him cuz he obviously didn't learn anything the first time
He is a jerk if you ask me and he deserves to be with the sleeze who cheated on him if he's willing to drop you when she comes back lmao.. what a loser? Girl you dodged a bullet LET. HIS. ASS. GOOOooooo.. Don't feel sad over some sorry piece of shit who dates whores. You can do better than that I'm sure.
I think that a lot of guys think that if they say that they never cared about the girl, the girl will find it easier to move on, like there isn't any hope of a relationship so the girl won't want them back...
This is why it's always a risk to date guys or girls on the rebound. I am sorry to hear about you going through this.
Plus all she will do his f**k on top of his face with another guy anytime again soon. His loss, not yours.
You can't help you love and its obvious that he is so in love with his ex ever tho she's probably the worst girlfriend ever you have moved on so focus on making the relationship that your in now to work
Some people in this world have mental issues. Just pretend he's one of those. Eh who am I kidding, he might be one of those.
I know the feeling hun. It's so hard to move on., only time can help you heal. One day you will look back and it won't hurt anymore. Stay strong ! ❤
I think the ex used sex to get him back.
Get away and live in another city? and burn all his stuff that he gave you.
make your self more better than him, this is a best revenge and a hope to move forward. GOD BLESS YOU