It's shallow because you are turned off by something about her looks that she likely can't control (alopecia and many other hair loss problems are genetic). Break up with her because you won't be happy, but don't give her some bullshit reason. Tell it like it is.
I am trying to understand what you said. If you tell her you are breaking up because of the hair, is THAT the lie? You really have another reason but want to use this as an excuse? Or do you have a typo, and meant to say "OR make up a lie"?
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lol @ the butthurt women in this thread. He has every right to break up with anyone he wants for whatever reason he wants.
and if a girl made a question talking about: my boyfriend has leukemia and he's getting too thin. should I dump him for looking skinny and weak im sure the guys would be talking shit as well
But wouldn't you feel like shit if a girl you liked told you she doesn't want to be with you anymore because you're losing your hair (or gaining weight, or not muscly enough, etc)?
Yes. Everyone is a bit shallow but you have taken it to the next level. Its a fact. So just break up with her because she deserves better. Someone who isn't that shallow to dump because of minor healt problem.
Oh there are men who like bald women. The point is finding a man who will understand and support her and try to find out solution for her heaĺth condition. True men support their partner. Many stay with their women throygh cancer and everything and that alsk takes away your hair.
I hope someone breaks up with you for something this stupid. Hair generally falls out from stress, and with an attitude like your's it's probably your fault.
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Aren't you shallow little man. She deserves better so tell the truth and leave her.
Have you thought that she might be sick?😨
You dont care for her, just her hair clearly.
I'm not shallow
Yes you are if you dump her because of her hair
She probably has alopecia and should go see her doctor. Anyways, yes tell her the truth so she knows that you're shallow.
How is that shallow?
It's shallow because you are turned off by something about her looks that she likely can't control (alopecia and many other hair loss problems are genetic). Break up with her because you won't be happy, but don't give her some bullshit reason. Tell it like it is.
So for example if your boyfriend started gaining weight rapidly and lost all his hair and grew wrinkles you wouldn't care?
I am trying to understand what you said. If you tell her you are breaking up because of the hair, is THAT the lie? You really have another reason but want to use this as an excuse? Or do you have a typo, and meant to say "OR make up a lie"?
lol @ the butthurt women in this thread. He has every right to break up with anyone he wants for whatever reason he wants.
Thank u
That is correct. But he is still shallow.
and if a girl made a question talking about: my boyfriend has leukemia and he's getting too thin. should I dump him for looking skinny and weak im sure the guys would be talking shit as well
most couples regardless of sex would break up if their partner all of a sudden turned very unattractive.
it's hilarious so many people are getting offended when they'd likely do the exact same
But wouldn't you feel like shit if a girl you liked told you she doesn't want to be with you anymore because you're losing your hair (or gaining weight, or not muscly enough, etc)?
"he is still shallow"
So are you and everyone around you, toots. Deal with it.
@musicbrain5 Absolutely. Yeah I'd be hurt but at the end of the day, what can ya do?
Yes. Everyone is a bit shallow but you have taken it to the next level. Its a fact. So just break up with her because she deserves better. Someone who isn't that shallow to dump because of minor healt problem.
"deserves someone better"
Good luck finding guys who like bald women, lol
Oh there are men who like bald women. The point is finding a man who will understand and support her and try to find out solution for her heaĺth condition.
True men support their partner. Many stay with their women throygh cancer and everything and that alsk takes away your hair.
I hope someone breaks up with you for something this stupid. Hair generally falls out from stress, and with an attitude like your's it's probably your fault.
You should definitely tell her the truth so she can warn other girls that you're an ass. You should be concerned for her HEALTH not her looks.
Wow dude that's messed up. Tell her the truth, it'll be good for her to see your true colors.
So if a guy you where dating for just a few months started forming something you found physically unattractive you would stay?
Yeah I would especially if I really liked him. I would learn to accept the fact that he is what he is and if he's okay with it then so am I.
Well I don't
You don't love her yet. Because the first thought you had was to flee, rather than help her with it.
Anyway, tell her.
I would suggest you do it in indirect way and be as tactful as possible, if so much hair dropped off it could be due to health reasons too.
Tell the truth, clearly. The sooner she knows you're a superficial bastard, the sooner she can move on from you.
my god your breaking up with her because of her hair i thought you loved her not her hair
It's not attractive
weave have you ever heard about this and she is probably diseased you should take her to the hospital and be there for her not breakup
I've only dated her for a month
even if whatever your a man i get it you only care about the body anyway tell her the truth
All humans are like this, not just men.
no i'll never breakup with a guy because he is unattractive and i am sure a lot of men and women agree
BULL
-_- no cow