Il be nothing but honest with you here... I'm my opinion there are 2 reasons and they are as follows:
1. He does still like/love you and doesn't want to lose you so is keeping the door open by meeting you for coffee...may happen a few times whilst he is doing his degree untill he finishes when you get back together or he goes travelling.
2. He wants to find out if you are dating anyone else or just wants to meet up to keep you interested and hanging on (people say us guys don't like girls chasing them but I have to disagree) If I had a girl chasing me, it gives a certain 'i am the man' attitude and enlarges our ego's. I would mine anyway... maybe its just some of us.
The fact he has agreed to meet you and it was you that asked him and not him asking you makes me think that maybe he does still care about you otherwise he would have said no or made up an excuse...
As for what your friends said...play it cool. Do exactly that! Its hard, very hard, I know I've been there and pressure is a NO NO! Don't talk about getting back together, don't talk about breaking up, don't talk about you as a couple at all! Just be like you were when you first met, have a joke and a laugh and just be happy in eachothers company... men don't like pressure, hense the reason they say 'good to get away from the mrs, she's doing my nut about cleaning and doing this and that' Its not that we oppose doing it, I just we don't like being pressured into it. We are men and we have been taught to do as we want and please, we are alfa after all.
Bottom line is...NO PRESSURE! Agree a time and place and that's it, don't text or call before then or after.
Hope this helps.
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You said you recently broke up with him. I just want to get this clear? did you dump him or he dumped you? because if you did he may still have feelings for you but he got hurt and maybe it affected his studied and have decided to work on himself before he either get himself back out there on a "Romantic " level
Well I think he just wants to be friends. If you brok up because he wants to get his degree before he has a relationship then I would ask him " Hey I know you said you just want to get you'r degree right now but would you want to get back together when you get the degree?" If you broke up for another reason that may not work. But you'r friends are right you should respect his wishes.
Good Luck
you can't win someone back who doesn't want to be with you
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