Seek a lawyer. Go for divorce. You are killing yourself daily or let him kill himself or you. The pain must end. Take action.
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Yes, definitely cheat on your husband, but do it infrequently. If you get pregnant out of wedlock, make sure to abort the baby. It's not fair for you to just have one dick in your whole life.
@reptocarl Absolutely... cheating is better than a divorce. It's wrong to leave your kids with a step dad or step mom instead of their own biological parents.
Then do it right and divorce and find someone else instead of setting a slutty example for her kid which WILL find out and possibly do permanent damage to that mom child relationship
@reptocarl Monogamy is not natural and it's very unhealthy. A little cheating is not going to kill anyone, it's only if you do it excessively. Look at French culture and Japanese culture as an example. This whole not cheating on your wife and husband ever at all during your marriage is bullshit as fuck. It's not natural, and comes form a sexually repressive Christian version of Taliban society. I wouldn't have a problem if my wife fucked a guy on her business trip.
This isn’t Japan or France and this is a Christian country by a wide margin. It’s also grounds for divorce in all 50 states. If she’s caught cheating not only will he win the divorce but will also win custody of the child too if he doesn’t kill her then wind up in prison and the kid in foster care. But you don’t see any of that. All you see is sexual need
@reptocarli like how everyone makes this something sexual. I know it's easy judge if you've never been married or had kids but trust although some cheating can be sexual not all are some people need a connection with someone. Someone who gets you and appreciates you being alive. I honestly would be fine if it wasn't sexual at all but I do want intimacy (even as into that I am not even sure what that means)
That's fuckin bullshit.. if you want intimacy only, it's easy to find it.. I bet you if the sexual wasn't there you wouldn't be in it... not saying that the sexual is the only thing, but it is a key component.
Get a divorce. He wants to control you, he doesn't want you for you. Also, he won't. Threatening to kill one's self has been a method of manipulation and control for centuries. Don't fall for it.
That's an abusive relationship. You have to think about yourself, cuz clearly his is not. While you think about his wellbeing, hi is not. Hi has problems? Good. You too and you need to get your problems solved, not his as well.
This guy is manipulating you. Leave the number for a suicide hotline, take the kid in court and leave him. You deserve better than this motherloving, goat fucking cunt.
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" threatens to kill himself"
Find an attorney that specializes in spousal abuse cases. Get a divorce, move to a new city under a new name.
"Threatens to kill himself..." Get the hell out now, and be sure to take the child when you go. Then get a lawyer and a restraining order.
Seek a lawyer. Go for divorce. You are killing yourself daily or let him kill himself or you. The pain must end. Take action.
Yes, definitely cheat on your husband, but do it infrequently. If you get pregnant out of wedlock, make sure to abort the baby. It's not fair for you to just have one dick in your whole life.
Cheating is better than a divorce? Where the fuck are your priorities?
@reptocarl Absolutely... cheating is better than a divorce. It's wrong to leave your kids with a step dad or step mom instead of their own biological parents.
She’s the mom idiot
She would get custody
@reptocarl Asshole, can't you reply to someone in a polite way.
Not to obvious idiots
Yeah, she is the mom, but she has sexual needs too.
Then do it right and divorce and find someone else instead of setting a slutty example for her kid which WILL find out and possibly do permanent damage to that mom child relationship
@reptocarl Monogamy is not natural and it's very unhealthy. A little cheating is not going to kill anyone, it's only if you do it excessively. Look at French culture and Japanese culture as an example. This whole not cheating on your wife and husband ever at all during your marriage is bullshit as fuck. It's not natural, and comes form a sexually repressive Christian version of Taliban society. I wouldn't have a problem if my wife fucked a guy on her business trip.
This isn’t Japan or France and this is a Christian country by a wide margin. It’s also grounds for divorce in all 50 states. If she’s caught cheating not only will he win the divorce but will also win custody of the child too if he doesn’t kill her then wind up in prison and the kid in foster care. But you don’t see any of that. All you see is sexual need
@reptocarli like how everyone makes this something sexual. I know it's easy judge if you've never been married or had kids but trust although some cheating can be sexual not all are some people need a connection with someone. Someone who gets you and appreciates you being alive. I honestly would be fine if it wasn't sexual at all but I do want intimacy (even as into that I am not even sure what that means)
Then divorce and find someone you love and that loves you
That's fuckin bullshit.. if you want intimacy only, it's easy to find it.. I bet you if the sexual wasn't there you wouldn't be in it... not saying that the sexual is the only thing, but it is a key component.
Just forget her. She’s doesn’t want a solution only for someone to feel sorry for her. She’s a drama queen
@reptocarl I think you are right.. ... LFMAO
The problem isn't what your husband does:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=im1z73nuyYwGet a divorce. He wants to control you, he doesn't want you for you.
Also, he won't. Threatening to kill one's self has been a method of manipulation and control for centuries. Don't fall for it.
Leave him, it isn't healthy for any of you.
That's an abusive relationship. You have to think about yourself, cuz clearly his is not. While you think about his wellbeing, hi is not. Hi has problems? Good. You too and you need to get your problems solved, not his as well.
End your marriage. It dosen't help either if you continuing.
Cheating isn't going to resolve anything. End it and move on.
Don't cheat. Divorce him. The longer you linger with him, the harder it'll be for him to get over you.
Another "I love him but I am not IN love with him" woman. You are thinking about cheating which means you don't love him at all.
Yeah y'all see what "messing around" and "rebound sex" does?
Nobody listens man : P
Yeah, ultimately I feel only pity for him and contempt for her.
This guy is manipulating you. Leave the number for a suicide hotline, take the kid in court and leave him. You deserve better than this motherloving, goat fucking cunt.
You should leave and grab control over your life rather than acting like an immoral piece of shit.
If you don’t love him take a break or try to sit down with him
I think he must go to psychologist NOW. Next time you speak with him, tell him, he needs help
you shouldn't had children together in the first place... this can't end well
Wow... This sounds like my story with gender roles reversed
dont mistake love for sex they are 2 different tings
fuck other men if it makes you happy and love your husband they way he wants
If you don't love him, divorce him. Cheaters are low life cowards.
Leave, its safer for everyone, and everyone will be better off