Ex boyfriend bringing up the past?

Thanks for posing your question. An ex friends with benefits (who I am still very close with) does this even though he is dating someone. Maybe not everyday like in your situation but often. Seems the longer they are together the more things are brought up and he tells me he misses me (in a friendly way I suppose) when we don't talk for a day. I really don't think he would cheat and isn't acting like anything wrong in the relationship like they are going to break up soon so kinda confusing. Good luck with your situation, and anyone having input on mine, feedback appreciated :)
being a guy ill tell you he may just be looking for sex. we know its easier to score with an ex than some new girl. it is also more comfortable because you know each other well. however he may also be looking for a second chance. if I were you I would tell him that you are not going to have sex with him until you are sure he isn't using you and you are happy being with him. or tell him you just want to wait a month or 2 before having sex. good luck hope it works out. :) love sucks
me being a guy, and also being a member of the guild of evil exes. id say he may be open to either one. and if that's truly the case which would you want? if you wanna friends with benefits with him...ask him that 1st. if you want him back, ask him that 1st.
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Yeah...all this nostalgia & reminiscing could well point to wanting you back...either physically or the entire package...sounds like you are on top of it...sometimes old relationships can be revived...more often than not they can't...has to be your call...
Do you want to give him a second chance?
i do miss him and all but I'm sick of the mind games. He can't just be straight up and say what he truly wants from all of this!
It's your call. Don't let him decide, you do ;) Let him talk and talk. Probably he just wants to hook you in like before.
nicee! It truly is my call and only I have a say in what'll happen. Thanks :P
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