I recently text a guy I am mad about to basically tell him how I feel. We have shared a lot of kisses in the past and he has always acted into me.
I sent him a message asking if he wanted to come to my house and watch a dvd and stay over as I really like him.
This was his reply.
I like you too. I hope I haven't given you the wrong impression when we have been out together a few times. I am flattered you like me but I am just out a relationship and still getting over it to be honest. Friends is all I can offer just now x
What does he mean? Does he like me and its just not the right time or is he totally not into me but just trying to be nice about it? He was with his ex for 3 years and they broke up 7 months ago.
Thanks! x
I sent him a message asking if he wanted to come to my house and watch a dvd and stay over as I really like him.
This was his reply.
I like you too. I hope I haven't given you the wrong impression when we have been out together a few times. I am flattered you like me but I am just out a relationship and still getting over it to be honest. Friends is all I can offer just now x
What does he mean? Does he like me and its just not the right time or is he totally not into me but just trying to be nice about it? He was with his ex for 3 years and they broke up 7 months ago.
Thanks! x
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Well I would say he does like you, I mean he said he did, but he's not ready. That's a pretty long relationship, and getting over someone can take a lot longer than 7 months. So give him time but I'd say if he never comes around, then yea he's just being nice. Or you could always just ask him if he would consider giving you a chance when he is ready.
take it as how he wrote it.
ya he's into you - as in attracted to you - but doesn't want a relationship right now. it could be either because he's afraid of one right now or still not over his ex, just like he wrote.
so give it time and don't pressure him for a relationship. also don't get too physical [like beyond kissing] while you're not in a relationship with him or you'll end up being like "friends with benefits" and I'm guessing that's not what you want.
Guys who are into you don't say, "Friends is all I can offer just now."
Now, there's a good-girl way and a bad-girl way to handle this. The good girl would "understand" and "wait until he's ready", giving him his "space".
The bad girl, lies. She says, "Of course we're just friends, so just come on over. Nothing will happen." Then what happens, happens.
Your call, but the bad girl is getting the guy.