Hello.
I just wanted to request answers from you. Does no contact or radio silence work on someone who had feelings for you but lied about them and said they didn't?
I have been in this situation where this guy has feelings but refused to admit to them even though I told him everything honestly. I had to cut contact with him and I told him since he was unwilling to commit to a relationship (we didn't have sex, just dated and then were talking to each other for almost a year now) and he did not take the "break up" nicely. He was very upset and said he wants to move forward as he feels stagnated but when I asked him why he feels stagnated when he told me he doesn't have feelings for me, he remained silent.
We are talking again as I really care for him and seeing him so dejected and the unhappiness that both of us felt was too much for me so we had a chat again and we talk in person. However, we no longer see each other in person and have 0 contact now.
I'm afraid he may move on to someone else and I didn't want that.
So I'm wondering will no contact or radio silence work or will it just push him away?
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For me it does not because when i break-up, I am done. Most guys have something else going on anyway. It is doubtful he will care. He may but will not likely be serious or exclusive.
Yes, failing to talk to someone by going no-contact will ‘push them away’ or offer no incentive for them to talk with you.
You should leave the guy in question alone. He straight up told you that he’s not interested.
He wasn't telling the truth
He literally told you he ‘doesn’t have feelings for you’. Have some self respect and leave the man alone before he files a restraining order.
I told you he lied to me because he has told hid frieds who told me that he likes me
.. I fail to see where you told me/anyone on GaG that but if that’s the case, why are you wasting your time on a guy who’s not even sure he wants to be with you?