Do you struggle with breaking up with people or do you just rip the bandaid off? (Page 2)

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I try to make myself clear from day one of what I want in a relationship. If down the line, he’s doing more of the opposite, I still find myself struggling to end things. I pull crazy stunts to try to get the person to leave. They rarely every work. Then I try to be annoying in hopes they breakup with me. That also rarely ever works. Once my bag of tricks is empty, then I just lose my shit and tell them nicely why I don’t see a future. But then they use the excuse of wanting to switch things up and work things out. I usually fall for that BS until I see nothings changed. Then its no more nice girl and I turn into She-Hulk and get all cutthroat, nearly killing the mf with my words until we are finally through.  Lol In the future, I hope to be more forward and straight to the point, but I know me and I’ll probably continue to beat around the bush. What do you usually do when looking to end things? #FeelFreeToList #IsThisTheEnd

TallAnon · Answer

I've never had to officially break up, but I've had similar circumstances and I'm definitely not emotionless.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

I try to work things out until I go fucking nuclear. But thats no longer an option at my age because kids are involved

collie22 · Answer

I've only broken up one time , it was the worst thing. Took my like 2 seconds

AimeeKyle · Answer

I struggle…. Because it isn’t bad all the time…. I need to do better at it, for sure.

ZenJen444 · Answer

I rip the bandaid off. If the guy isn't working then adios. Men are very aware of their actions and behaviors.

MzToffeeSweets · Answer

It's an immediate emotional reaction. For men it's a delayed emotional reaction when they actually get past their own egos.

LiamJHayden · Answer

lol The meme of Mr. Obama. If it isn't working I just end it immediately.

DevinAM · Answer

I've never been the one to end it, only officially been in two though.

Agape93 · Answer

Rip it off. No half measures.

ariadneR · Answer

Just get up and leave

Anonymous · Answer

Never had this problem.

Do you struggle with breaking up with people or do you just rip the bandaid off? (Page 2)

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