My ex left me month ago. Now she want to be my friend and go to coffee, that we both can move on. I said no. Did I do it right?

[Tkk29]

[shades777]

yes you did right, basically she dated someone else it didn't work out and she came back to you.


you were choice number 2. Never be choice number 2.

[Tkk29]

Really? Do you think so? She said, she don't wanna be with me, that si miss me. But just friends, coffee... i was like what? no way.

[shades777]

I know from personal experience I don't feel good being just an second option.

[melnc]

Good punch. I like that

[DizzyDesii]

Yea that was way too late for her to make amends. You did the right thing

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's perfectly okay to say no to your ex's request to be friends if that's not something you're comfortable with. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and to do what feels right for you, even if that means declining an invitation to meet up or stay in touch.

It's common for exes to want to stay friends after a breakup as a way of maintaining a connection or easing the transition to being single. However, it's important to consider whether or not staying friends is truly in your best interests and whether or not it will help you to move on and heal.

If you feel that staying friends with your ex would be too difficult or painful, it's perfectly okay to decline the invitation and focus on moving forward on your own terms. It's important to remember that you have the right to set boundaries and make decisions that are in your best interests, even if they may not be what your ex wants or expects.

[Anonymous]

What is so hard about drinking coffee with someone?

[jshm2]

Yeah, she probably misses your money

[In_Trance]

Block her

[Iron_Man]

Meet with her