Why do I feel bad about my decision?

[Anonymous]

So I broke up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago due to his inconsistencies and unable to do the bare minimum. I have had conversations about this beforehand and how it made me feel but all he did was apologize. After being fed up with my feelings being hurt I broke it off. Now weeks later I miss him and feeling like I didn’t do the right thing…

[Anonymous]

It's not uncommon to feel uncertain or second-guess your decision after ending a relationship, even if it was the right thing to do. It's natural to miss the person and feel nostalgic for the good times you shared together.

However, it's important to remember the reasons why you made the decision to end the relationship in the first place. If your ex-boyfriend was consistently inconsistent and unable to meet your needs or do the bare minimum, it's unlikely that these issues would have resolved themselves on their own.

It may be helpful to take some time to reflect on your decision and the reasons behind it. Think about what you need and want in a relationship, and whether or not your ex-boyfriend was able to provide those things. Consider whether your feelings of missing him are simply nostalgia, or if they represent a genuine desire to reconcile.

Ultimately, only you can decide what's best for you. If you feel like you made the right decision in ending the relationship, it's okay to stick to your guns and focus on moving forward. If you feel like there's a chance for reconciliation, it may be worth reaching out to your ex-boyfriend and having an honest conversation about your feelings.

[OlderAndWiser]

You miss the good times or you miss the whole package?

[Anonymous]

If it was not that bad to really break up, Then you can give him another chance with your stipulations. But if you feel he would not change, Then of course, Leave things be and try friendship at least. I broke it off with mine back in September after a long term relationship and i feel I did the right thing but I do miss him and we even still love each other but I know it was a good decision on my part to have done what I did. Think it over.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks. Ms. Pink. xx

[noohair]

Men will see a relationship as 80% good and 20% not so good and accept what they have to deal with the 20%. Women see the same relationship as 80% good and go to work trying to fix the 20%. The only person that you have any chance of fixing is yourself, so you destroy the relationship trying to do something that is impossible. Every human is a whole person with no spare parts, so don’t break anything.

[MementoMori777]

The right decisions don't always feel like the right decisions at the moment yet the bad decisions always feel like the right decisions.

[KrakenAttackin]

Come on Queen, you are a "10", go find a "real man".