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Questions: Break Up & Divorce

How long does it really take to accept a loss, divorce, or breakup?

Loss of a loved one took me a few years to reach acceptance. While this breakup has taken me 19 months to get over. I had an epiphany on Wednesday that we will never be together again and that I need to move on and...
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My 3-year relationship just ended—how do I cope with this heartbreak?

My relationship of 3 years ended, how can I deal with all the heartbreak, pain and sorrow?
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Would you ask an AI - like GPT- for breakup advice?

Would you ask A. I. like GPT etc. If you should break up? Like people feel torn, between staying together or breaking up, and feel uncertain, so would you ask it, or ask an A. I. girlfriend /partner, if you should stay...
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Would you ask A. I. like GPT etc. If you should break up? Like people feel torn, between staying together or breaking up, and feel uncertain, so would you ask it, or ask an A. I. Show More
A guy i would ask it
A gal i would ask it
A guy i wouldn't ask it
A gal i wouldn't ask it
It really depends
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Would you buy divorce insurance if it was offered to you?

I just learned that Divorce Insurance is a thing in the US. Still a relatively new concept, you pay a monthly fee and purchase blocks of insurance. If you get divorced, it pays out something like $1250 per $16 a month...
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If I date my ex’s casual friend, can it realistically stay a secret?

I broke up with my boyfriend for the right reasons and apparently he kept his friend in the loop as well. Though they are friends I do not think they are close. This guy contacted me a few months to confirm the break up....
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Am I being unreasonable for dumping anyone who doesn’t prioritize me?

things like texting back really late, or not texting back at all, or canceling plans but not telling me am I over doing it? or am i reasonable
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About the breakup... Do you remember?

https://youtu.be/NTvR7HySgHo?si=pMb25t3A4ft5iQFH This song is true for so many people who have had a love relationship and lost it This song reminds me of my first husband and our breakup.
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Do I just give up?

my ex (who I’m trying to get back together with) said he can’t trust me because I moved on from him too early (one month) after our breakup. He thinks he doesn’t believe that the relationship was real or meant anything to...
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Why do people choose someone they don't love and then cheats?

I know sometimes marriage or relationships are forced onto someone. Not by choice, if women aren't attracted they just never love someone but why destroy someone's life for it? Men can be like that as well and they are...
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If you went to a horror movie with a guy would this give you the ick?

She grabs his hand during a jump scare and his hand was limp. He didn't support her grip and now she thinks he's weak of mind. I guess it sounds reasonable but there's a lot of explanations for that 😂
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Without being too sentimental, do you ever feel sad when a car "gives up the ghost" 👻 and needs replacing?

The car, one of a few, has finally given up the ghost. Not unexpected, just unexpectedly the date. Months ago the mechanic agreed it was on its engines last kilometers, fit to drive and safe, just that it was showing its...
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The car, one of a few, has finally given up the ghost. Not unexpected, just unexpectedly the date. Months ago the mechanic agreed it was on its engines last kilometers, fit to drive Show More
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No
It's an object, shrug. No sentiments.
I tend to be sentimental. Even for heartless objects of steel or rubber, or of other.
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What is closure?

When people have recently been through the break up of a romantic relationship, I frequently hear one of them say, "I just need us to talk one more time so I can get closure." Often, I'm not sure that they really know...
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When people have recently been through the break up of a romantic relationship, I frequently hear one of them say, "I just need us to talk one more time so I can get closure." Often, Show More
I have never said that I need closure after a break up.
If I say I need closure after a break up, I mean that I want to ask questions - why? is it somebody else? was I not enough? - but I know the answers I get may not be satisfactory.
If I say I need closure after a break up, I mean that I want to ask questions - why? is it somebody else? was I not enough? - and I won't stop until the answers I get are satisfactory.
If I say I need closure after a break up, I mean that I want to hear my recent ex say, "I'm sorry."
If I say I need closure after a break up, I mean that I want to hear my recent ex say that it was their fault.
If I say I need closure after a break up, I mean that I really want my recent ex to say that we can try again.
If I say I need closure after a break up, it means that I want to make them feel guilty or just vent my feelings.
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What's the best way to move on from your ex?

I feel so uncomfortable with the idea of deleting all of the pictures with them and just basically erasing them from my memory something that meant so much
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What's something your ex taught you?

For me, it's that-Listening and really hearing someone are two separate things. Listening is a passive, physiological act of perceiving sound, while hearing someone—true listening—is an active, conscious, and...
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What's your standard breakup strategy?

What's your standard breakup strategy (if you have one)?
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Make a list of every reason I disliked the person, everything that got on my nerves, till I'm good and mad... and never want to talk to or see the person again.
Find one solid "dealbreaker" reason to walk away and just never look back.
Just have an "irreconcilable differences" chat and part ways while we're still sort of able to be friends.
I've never been able to walk away from a person. They usually have to walk away from me.
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Is there anyone you 100% regret meeting?

I was thinking about this bc I'm always one to think God puts folks on my path for a reason. However a few times I've wondered... "WHY tf THIS one, God?" then He and I have a silent chitchat (which is mostly me grumbling...
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Opinion on me telling my boyfriend I cheated?

I’ve been married for a bit, I want to tell my boyfriend I cheated on him. There was so feelings involved, honestly the other guy could die today and I wouldn’t care. I don’t have a reason as to why I cheated. It’s not...
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