I agree with everything you said except when I marry he better put this pussy on a pedestal, because it comes on a golden platter lined with precious stones damn it.
Congratulations! I don't find anything wrong with your post. This is a record, I think. I didn't really read anything but the bold parts, but it's pretty spot on.
I think I'm a nice guy. But not only to women, I'd help anyone whom seek it. I don't get it either, all my friends are bad and they get girlfriends when there's me trying to get one.
"5.) "Nice guys" assume that girls only date bad boys so they can turn them into nice guys." - I think not only "nice guys" assume this, because that's basically what we hear all the time as an explanation from the girls who dated bad boys :D
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Very well said! Bravo! I hope all of the "beta nice guy bitches" read this, get a grip, and stop posting all of the same dumb questions over and over again. 👏
Most of this is correct. Keep in mind that this would apply to women as well. The "buff" or "muscular" guy being the most attractive is definitely a myth by experience. "Bad" and "nice" are wrong terms to use.
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Actually from what I see the buff guys are the ones with the most girls. Especially on college campuses.
All the bad boys I ever knew really were bad. After I transferred to another H. S. I watched the tv and round that almost the entire senior class was arrested at a rave party. They really were bad boys and girls. You people, lol. You don't know what bad is.
The problem is these terms "nice guy" and "bad boy" are vague and both can be used to describe almost everybody at one time or another. If by "nice guy" you mean someone just acting nice as bait to get the girl than they should be avoided. If by "bad boy" you mean sociopath then they also should be avoided. They actually can be the same person and often are.
@Hwlsop Yes, you do have a point. I knew a guy, he was a bully towards guys (and me), got in fights, and was dating a girl I knew, didn't find that out till years later from a relative of hers. No wonder she was so defensive when I said negative things towards him.
I knew somebody like that and a couple years after high school a girl I knew suddenly said this guy was her new boyfriend. I said nothing but wished I had. About a year into the relationship he started beating her she tried leaving him and he stalked her. I helped her get a restraining order against him. These guys are sociopaths and sane girls should steer clear of them.
When you are stubborn as hell, you don't want to see the truth. In the past she knew he was expelled from school for his shit, she knew I didn't like him for the same shit and she didn't tell anyone one of her relatives about it and refused to see anything. I had to tell her relatives about it, when the issue came up 10 years later just from pure accident. I realized the guy who worked at the store I worked at was her uncle.
This girl was stubborn to the point she would listen to nobody but I later told her that when she first mentioned he was her boyfriend I thought to myself that she is seeing the wrong guy but didn't say anything. She said I should have said something maybe she would have listened but she wouldn't have and she knows it.
I don't study who's good and who's bad, once they have a good personality, a good heart, treats everyone well, like me, then i'll definitely date them.
Graphic tees in my opinion are never trendy. A plain white/grey/black t-shirt looks x10 better. Plain clothing that is well fitted aka... black shoes, blue jeans and black t-shirt... looks better then whatever mess i see ''nice'' guys wear.
This type of my take has been redone multiple times. You're just repeating stuff
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Yes, but not really from the other end of the spectrum. I went through and mostly saw takes where the “nice guy” is complaining (or the more popular ones at least)
Am I the only one here who finds the ''Nice Guys Finish Last'' theory to be nonsense? Both got equal attention in my opinion, at least, from my experiences.
The claim that nice people only have that to offer makes me laugh every time. I guess my nice sports medicine doctor who runs his own practice is a real one-dimensional loser.
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I agree with everything you said except when I marry he better put this pussy on a pedestal, because it comes on a golden platter lined with precious stones damn it.
Congratulations! I don't find anything wrong with your post. This is a record, I think. I didn't really read anything but the bold parts, but it's pretty spot on.
Thank you!
So many good guys thinking they need to be "bad" to get in a relationship...
okay, overall I won't agree to all those points. Cause there are some genuine "nice guys" like me😂😂😂
jk
I think I'm a nice guy. But not only to women, I'd help anyone whom seek it. I don't get it either, all my friends are bad and they get girlfriends when there's me trying to get one.
"5.) "Nice guys" assume that girls only date bad boys so they can turn them into nice guys." - I think not only "nice guys" assume this, because that's basically what we hear all the time as an explanation from the girls who dated bad boys :D
Very well said! Bravo! I hope all of the "beta nice guy bitches" read this, get a grip, and stop posting all of the same dumb questions over and over again.
👏
Most of this is correct. Keep in mind that this would apply to women as well. The "buff" or "muscular" guy being the most attractive is definitely a myth by experience. "Bad" and "nice" are wrong terms to use.
Actually from what I see the buff guys are the ones with the most girls. Especially on college campuses.
Then you haven't been around enough lol. Countless women love the slim/cute type!
Because the bad girls are the ones that date them and are crappier than you think and are crappier than the realize they are.
All the bad boys I ever knew really were bad. After I transferred to another H. S. I watched the tv and round that almost the entire senior class was arrested at a rave party. They really were bad boys and girls. You people, lol. You don't know what bad is.
Yeah, you haven't seen bad until you've come across a raver who's just gotta dance.
The problem is these terms "nice guy" and "bad boy" are vague and both can be used to describe almost everybody at one time or another. If by "nice guy" you mean someone just acting nice as bait to get the girl than they should be avoided. If by "bad boy" you mean sociopath then they also should be avoided. They actually can be the same person and often are.
@Hwlsop Yes, you do have a point. I knew a guy, he was a bully towards guys (and me), got in fights, and was dating a girl I knew, didn't find that out till years later from a relative of hers. No wonder she was so defensive when I said negative things towards him.
I knew somebody like that and a couple years after high school a girl I knew suddenly said this guy was her new boyfriend. I said nothing but wished I had. About a year into the relationship he started beating her she tried leaving him and he stalked her. I helped her get a restraining order against him. These guys are sociopaths and sane girls should steer clear of them.
@Hwlsop She and her relatives were still wondering why I didn't like the guy 10 years later.
You didn't explain?
When you are stubborn as hell, you don't want to see the truth. In the past she knew he was expelled from school for his shit, she knew I didn't like him for the same shit and she didn't tell anyone one of her relatives about it and refused to see anything. I had to tell her relatives about it, when the issue came up 10 years later just from pure accident. I realized the guy who worked at the store I worked at was her uncle.
This girl was stubborn to the point she would listen to nobody but I later told her that when she first mentioned he was her boyfriend I thought to myself that she is seeing the wrong guy but didn't say anything. She said I should have said something maybe she would have listened but she wouldn't have and she knows it.
I don't study who's good and who's bad, once they have a good personality, a good heart, treats everyone well, like me, then i'll definitely date them.
And Good luck !
I wasn't expecting such a logical, well-written article on this topic. I completely and 100% agree with everything you said. Thank you!
Fuck bad guys I want a nice one who stands up for himself abs shows me love and care
Another bullshit mytake. There are plenty of genuine nice guys who are not faking it and are genuinely nice, yet women still shit on these guys.
you didn't get it.
@WTFliberals I did actually
Yes. And that’s because they aren’t attractive. Not because they’re nice
Horse shit
Graphic tees in my opinion are never trendy. A plain white/grey/black t-shirt looks x10 better. Plain clothing that is well fitted aka... black shoes, blue jeans and black t-shirt... looks better then whatever mess i see ''nice'' guys wear.
You forgot, "have a positive attitude and a good outlook on yourself"
People get too caught up with what other people think about them that they forget to think for themselves about themselves.
This type of my take has been redone multiple times. You're just repeating stuff
Yes, but not really from the other end of the spectrum. I went through and mostly saw takes where the “nice guy” is complaining (or the more popular ones at least)
I've seen both sides a lot, I've been on this website for a long time. This is preached all the time.
It was a first for me, so I appreciated the take.
Because one's a beta and one's not. The beta never gets the woman.
Agreed
Am I the only one here who finds the ''Nice Guys Finish Last'' theory to be nonsense? Both got equal attention in my opinion, at least, from my experiences.
My older brother and I are nice guys and never had a girlfriends. It's just a coincidence, I assure you.
The claim that nice people only have that to offer makes me laugh every time. I guess my nice sports medicine doctor who runs his own practice is a real one-dimensional loser.
Be a 'good guy', not a 'nice guy'. There's a difference.