I have seen a few of your posts the past few days. I am sorry you are in the place you are. I believe that everyone was wonderfully and beautifully made. That includes you.
Now for some hard advice perhaps... And take it or leave it. How can you expect someone to love you, when you don't even love you? I suspect that you have many talents and things you can give others, but right now you are hurting so much, you don't feel you can give a thing and it is going to be hard for someone to come along side you and lift you up. Perhaps you need to pause and think about what you can do for others. Is there some place you can volunteer to help others - to make a difference? Perhaps if you can do something like this it will give you new perspective. Yes there is a lot of bad in the world... but guess what there is good and you can be part of the good and not the bad. If you can move that way, your attitude is going to change and people are going to see all there is that you have to offer... but until your attitude changes people are going to be afraid to draw near to you.
I wish you well... i truly do. And I am sorry that whatever has happened has happened. What makes a man is not that he doesn't get knocked down... it is what he does to stand back up again. Believe me I have had my fair share of being knocked down. It has not been easy but I have always gotten up each time. You can too.
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Ian McKellen exists. Your argument is invalid.
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Have you done much travelling, Question_Asker? There is pain, misery and cruelty in this world, true, but there are things out there that would amaze you. I used to suffer from depression a lot, but travelling around strange places I had never been to before, and meeting the most incredible, kind and welcoming people that couldn't even communicate with me in my own language, really helped open my eyes and see past myself. Volunteer work could maybe help change your outlook a little, perhaps?
Or, if it's a dream world you're after, there are ways to achieve this, as well. Lucid dreaming, tantra, or certain substances that I shan't go into too much detail on, the world is your oyster.
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All you ever do is complain
act like a victim
and hate on white people.
doesn't it just get boring after a while?Personally, I much prefer the real world to a dream world.
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