Zero (0) but then I have also never asked a woman out on a date, I have never dated in my lifetime and I have decided never to date either, I have decided to stay single till death, so I don't really care if women ask me out or not. I don't really care what happens.
That was just a small info.
Anyways I am not talking about me here, my case is entirely different, It wouldn't be right of you to base your point on my case, we are talking about men in general. I do know for sure that women also ask men out nowadays, I am not talking about the percentage (%) here, what is the percentage, whether it is more than more than what it was 20 years ago or not, that is not the subject.
I just said I am sure that women ask men out nowadays and that the traditional roles are slowly fading. I know this for sure.
I've only experienced that girls have to ask guys out
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Guys don't like me so I always do the asking out. I've been rejected by every guy I've ever asked out and not one guy has ever approached me. Life is great, right?
I ask guys out. I'm a shy and blushing mess, but i do it. If i know what i want I'm going to to for it. I invited my crush to come over today (for our first hang out) and I've asked boys in the past :)
Girls like to be chased, so generally prefer the guy ask them out. Girls take rejection probably harder than guys do, reason why it happens less often.
actually, guys take rejection really really hard, we just hide it a LOT better. And also, guys like to be chased too, which is why its a such a big turn on for a girl to ask a guy out to the guy.
Yea , that's definitely not true... A lot of guys have never talked to a girl for fear of rejection... And if your already a man in a competition with all the other guys in the bar, AND you have low self esteem... Another rejection is only going to make that worst... And from a crush? Oh god... I'd rather keep my mouth shut and just forget I ever liked her than face her rejecting me... I've neglected my friends for 3-6months after being rejected by my crush before... So yea... We take it pretty damn hard sometimes... It's different when we are at a party or a bar.. But a girl that actually matters to us?
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I have, he canceled and I haven't heard from him since then. Other than that I have asked guys to hang out.. didn't work.. they didn't like me
I asked him out, but I don't know if he likes me. Im just a gal too.
Last time I asked a guy out I was like in 8th grade or a freshman in high school.
No. No, I do not. Maybe someday. If someone seems that interesting to me.
Well, I am sure nowadays women also ask men out if they are interested.
women don't ask out men any more than they did 20 years ago.
@orphan. Is it so? I don't believe that. However that's fine you have the right to your opinion.
how many women have asked you out on a date?
@orphan.
Zero (0) but then I have also never asked a woman out on a date, I have never dated in my lifetime and I have decided never to date either, I have decided to stay single till death, so I don't really care if women ask me out or not. I don't really care what happens.
That was just a small info.
Anyways I am not talking about me here, my case is entirely different, It wouldn't be right of you to base your point on my case, we are talking about men in general. I do know for sure that women also ask men out nowadays, I am not talking about the percentage (%) here, what is the percentage, whether it is more than more than what it was 20 years ago or not, that is not the subject.
I just said I am sure that women ask men out nowadays and that the traditional roles are slowly fading. I know this for sure.
Zero (0)
that's all that needs to be said.
@orphan.
I apologize I didn't mean to negative your sentences, you may be right.
it's ok i didn't read anything past zero.
@orphan That's fine, you don't have to!!, I am not bothered
I've done it in the past, if I liked the guy and wanted to hang out with him.
my experience no but they will surely drop you hints
I've only experienced that girls have to ask guys out
Guys don't like me so I always do the asking out. I've been rejected by every guy I've ever asked out and not one guy has ever approached me. Life is great, right?
I ask guys out. I'm a shy and blushing mess, but i do it. If i know what i want I'm going to to for it. I invited my crush to come over today (for our first hang out) and I've asked boys in the past :)
Girls like to be chased, so generally prefer the guy ask them out. Girls take rejection probably harder than guys do, reason why it happens less often.
actually, guys take rejection really really hard, we just hide it a LOT better. And also, guys like to be chased too, which is why its a such a big turn on for a girl to ask a guy out to the guy.
Yea , that's definitely not true... A lot of guys have never talked to a girl for fear of rejection... And if your already a man in a competition with all the other guys in the bar, AND you have low self esteem... Another rejection is only going to make that worst... And from a crush? Oh god... I'd rather keep my mouth shut and just forget I ever liked her than face her rejecting me... I've neglected my friends for 3-6months after being rejected by my crush before... So yea... We take it pretty damn hard sometimes... It's different when we are at a party or a bar.. But a girl that actually matters to us?
I've only asked one guy out before. It led to a quite amazing friendship 😂
I asked my fiance out 4 years ago. I was so bad at it that I told him to tell me no. He said yes anyway and we're getting married next month!
Im really bad with signals. I might think he's into me but he might just be friendly sooo,..
If I like him and I want to go out, then I'll ask him.
It's pretty common here.
I've asked guys out without being sure. Been shot down but it's a risk I continue to take
90% of the time I have to.
I have before and he agreed. But it never exceeded the first date. So it doesn't work anymore than a guy asking the girl out first either. 😕
If I like a guy enough and he hasn't asked me, I'll ask him out
I've asked guys out and been rejected too. Ah well, it stings but you can't win em all.