Should I tell my boyfriend I cheated? (Page 4)

[dfindley12]

if you really loved your boyfriend you would be honest with him. thats what relaionships are for, honesty and trust. you need to tell him and if he breaks up with you than thats your fault, seems like you didn't really need him anyways, you have your best friend.

[mojo_jojo]

I'm guessing there was a oral and fingers involved. You messed around with your boyfriend and still around him? Yeah, I feel sorry for your "bf" Just marry your friends with benefits boyfriend and get it over with. Stop playing with men.

[GOOSEBOY78]

you tell him then you accept the fallout. because you didn't tell your other friend that you were in a relationship with somebody else did you?

so be prepared to lose 2 friends.

[PinkBunnyBunBun]

If you love him then you respect his rights and want the best for him. Living a lie is also so emotionally draining, dont do it.

[bryon]

Your obviously not nearly as into you boyfriend as you claim to be. Break up with him and save him what is sure to be a repeat of this kind of action

[Juicy__Guard]

I don't even need to read your story, you cheat, tell him. And I saw the word guilt somewhere there and I'm hoping you feeling it. So tell him and see what happens then.

[TheAntiHero]

And they say guys are insecure when females hang out with guy friends.

Lawl at this story for confirming it, haha.

"It was only a two hour makeout session, you're overreacting." haha.

[Anonymous]

Never Never NEVER let yourself get into a compromising situation.

But what's done is done. I think you should tell him. Better now than him finding out later

[Anonymous]

You are just afraid of the consequences... a coward. That is the only reason why you are afraid to tell him.

[Asker]

what do i have to be afraid of? logically the only thing i'm avoiding is hurting him more. i'd break up with him, and kill myself with the guilt. i deserve it. i just want to know whats best for HIM. to know or be clueless

[Asingh]

you do deserve it...2 hours, i thought a cheeky 1 second peck was bad enough

[Opinion Owner]

What's best for him is to know the truth. You don't need to worry about hurting him, he's a big boy and there are millions of other girls out there. All of us deal with all sorts in life and we will get over it.

[LoloWaye]

Tell him. It's not fair to him at all. He should be able to make a decision in how this plays out, not just you. You weren't ready for the commitment. He should be with someone who is ready.

[scooogy]

At least there's something that upsets you, and your boyfriend might realize that after a while. I'd say you may lie to him, but at least you should tell him so everything seems okay again between you both.

[JustADude20026]

He would rather you tell him, than him finding out. Because he will find out.

[CrazynKinky]

Tell him. He deserves all the factors and take his decission

[matheus_mb]

Do it, if you hide it and he finds out later it will be way worse.

[Barrabus_the_Free]

Yes. He needs to know so he can dump your worthless ass and move on to the next girl.

[sexyphil]

Not if you want to keep your boyfriend you don't. Just bury it and keep schtum..

[bluenose1872]

Tell him why? To make yourself feel better. Look on the bright side he's probably pumping other girls up there

[Panay]

unfortunately, you seem to have been just a tiny bit of an absolute twat
tell him, he has a right to know. then its up to him whether or not he forgives you.

[DaddyRollingStone]

Oh you poor thing, you're really not to blame at all, its his fault for leaving. Isn't that right?

Excuses, excuses. Lol, I hope he leaves you

[OrdinaryGentleman]

sloots gon sloot
but @asker you are an idiot. Who the fuck does that. And yes tell you boyfriend you need to grow.