Going to be 32 and never been in a relationship, weird? (Page 2)

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I keep getting bugged about being a relationship, I guess that has never been a priority of mine. I was a really late bloomer, didn't hit puberty until after high school. So never really had any experience with women in high school, I mean I tried because that was what you were supposed to do. But I knew I didn't stand a chance. I'm an alright looking guy, 6'3" 200lbs, broad shoulders. I know women are attracted to me. But I never got in a groove of trying as after high school, I played games, focused on work. I really suck though. I went out with a couple girls, but they always seem to get mad at me for something small. I think it's because I wait too long to make a move. It's just because I don't know signals or I second guess them. I read books on picking up women, some are just evil it seems. Some make sense and seem like good advice, but takes huge amounts of time and money. The only women I have been with really just throw themselves at me and seem more like a burden than an asset, no job, not trying to do anything. I can take care of myself, but don't want to stay poor over getting laid. The amount of time and effort doesn't seem to actually be worth the reward, but I do want children or what is the point of making extra money. They can enjoy it when I die.  I think I'm a lost cause, I know I need to make more friends as I might meet a good girl through them. But then how will I have time to finish my projects? I'm a mess in my head when I think about it, is it worth the effort? will women find it weird that I have never been in a relationship?

OrangeBoy · Answer

Dude, girls like you. Don't complicate stuff.  Give a chance to them, be pratical and make an effort to meet them on a deeper level, yoou might actually like someone.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Stressing it isn't going to solve anything. Just meet women and pick the one you like. And tell her you like her and see what happens. Is that easy bro.

TripleAce · Answer

Yes that is getting funky. Focus on building a meaningful relationship and connection with a girl

Anonymous · Answer

I'm almost 27 and never had a relationship but everything else. I quit stressing about it because doing so won't help anything.

Not that no one wanted a relationship with me but the ones who did, I wasn't into and vice versa.

Mr-Kabuki · Answer

read a book called "models" by mark manson. this is not some evil pick up artist book its actually about getting a woman to like by being honest and by being the best person you can be.

kkendall · Answer

weird in the sense that its abnormal but it's your life, i'm not gonna judge you for it

ChocEyes1 · Answer

I've never been in a commited relationship either. Not a relationship guy, never will be :) But people keep telling me to and I just ignore them

Anonymous · Answer

I have never been in a relationship... is totally cool! I'm a late bloomer too and it also wasn't a priority of mine. I view dating differently than the majority of people and when the time comes, it comes!

BloodyEmerald · Answer

Have you ever thought that maybe you are asexual? There is nothing wrong with being asexual. It a perfectly naturally sexuality.

IHateBeingaMan · Answer

i don't think its that unusual, i'm sure it's more common than we think

DiegoO · Answer

Maybe you have a lot of insecurities, open up, don´t over think, just act.

Anonymous · Answer

I haven't been in a relationship either I'm 23 , I would like to be in a relationship though.

Anonymous · Answer

its better to stay single, the current generation of women are not worth it. Rather just get sex and dump her.

Chico_brah · Answer

Yeah that's weird AF tbh

rgb008 · Answer

Yes that it weird to me.

moviedude714 · Answer

ya, not unusual, more common than we think

Anonymous · Answer

At 32, that's a bit old tone normal.

BluntlyHonest · Answer

Hmm nope , i find it common especially nowaday

Anonymous · Answer

are you neotenous looking?

Anonymous · Answer

Sorry but yeah weird. kinda sad too

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