I have moles on my face, does that make me ugly?

[Anonymous]

I've been self-conscious about many of my physical features for most of my life. I'm short (I'm a guy), I'm ugly in my opinion, and probably the worst of all, I have moles on my face. Yes, I know I have a low self-esteem. The only physical feature I truly like a lot about my self is my eyes, they are green. All of my moles are flat, except a raised one which doesn't have any hairs, and to be honest, I probably wouldn't be so insecure about my moles if it weren't for the raised one. It's so embarrassing to meet new people because usually they see it and I can see the reaction on their face when they see it. Someone went as far as saying "Oh, damn, moles," as they shook my hand looking at my face. I never seen that person before and haven't seen them since. But that interaction made me feel even more like an ugly donkey. I know I can cut it off at a dermatologist, which I'll probably do when I'm older (I'm 17). But what do you guys think? Without knowing what I look like, do you think I would look uglier with or without the moles?

Yes, kys immediately.

Kinda ugly

Not ugly (yeah right)

Moles are attractive (for you trolls out there)

[Rainie_]

Believe it or not I actually like moles. One of my favourite actors has A LOT on his face and I love it.
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I have some strange moles, one between my boobs (sometimes people are like: there's dirt/something between your bewbs. 😐 I really don't care tho lol). Also got a triangle of moles on my forearm that a lot of people tend to comment on.
My favourite mole is on my cheek though, I love it.

Embrace it man, you're always gonna have some kind of hater, can't please everybody.

[Asker]

My raised mole is right next to my right cheek bone. It isn't like those witch moles because it isn't that steep nor hairy, but I still think it's ugly.

[Rainie_]

Well you've just got to accept it, it what makes you you. I had a friend that got his mole removed from his face and what was left was a scar. I personally thought the mole looked better than a scar, and he just doesn't look right anymore without the mole tbh. 😅

[MelanieAmber33]

I have a pretty big mole/beauty mark towards the left side of my chin, its about as big as a sunflower seed (with the shell). It is a struggle for as I oftentimes feel self conscious about it. I do wish I didn't have it, but I think that it makes people see through your physical imperfections to truly see the person that you are, not just on your physical appearance. Hope this helps, because I can relate.

[Bleh-___-]

Based on moles alone, a person isn't ugly. There are quite a few people that are considered very attractive that have either many moles or a single/couple prominent mole (s). Not to compare you to women, but these are the only ones that come to mind right now who have moles and are still considered attractive: Gigi Hadid, Marilyn Monroe, Cindy Crawford, Mariah Carey

[Asker]

These ladies would be attractive either way, though. And they only have a mole or two on their face.

[Bleh-___-]

Well Gigi has a sh* ton on her body if that counts. And that's what I'm saying, I can't judge how attractive you are based on moles alone. Take the hottest guy you can think of and put a bunch of moles on him. He'll still be hot.

[kilowatt04]

Lemmy Kilmister probably wasn't considered attractive, but he was considered badass.

[Bleh-___-]

@kilowatt04 Yeah but the rest of Lemmy's face isn't too attractive either. And the stache isn't doing him any favours

[kilowatt04]

Whether they are ugly may not be as important as how much the occasional bad reaction bothers you. You would probably have an easier time with them removed, but people will still like you if you're a good person if you don't.

[Cowboy6666]

I have few moles on my cheeks too but I don't care.

[Redkovu]

Moles will naturally be ugly. But at the same time everyone has them. It someone really respects you, they would say "Ew thats ugly" because nobody can really prevent their growth. Everyone has them though. I have maybe 6-7 on my face, eyelid, i even have them on my arms and stomach. BUT JUST BECAUSE MOLES ARE UGLY DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE!!!

[Anonymous]

love your own skin. Moles can be very attractive.