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Should men put in more effort into dating and relationships than women? (Page 2)
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if both want it, then both should put in the amount of effort they think they should.
No, it must be from both sides. If both want the relationship to work then both must put in equal effort
Both partners should equally put in the effort. What makes one person better than the other? They both love each other so why should only one person put in the effort?
honestly, Guys in this society are saposed to basically bow don't to the females. so answer is yes.
It should be a 50/50 ... both should equally put in the effort... it takes two to make it work
How can we put more effort into dating exactly? Women don't like clingy men or guys that throw themselves at you. Women will still put out for dudes too, so whats the incentive to try harder anyway?
no. it should be equal, in my opinion a relationship is supposed to be enjoyable on both parts. if one half is putting in more effort in then the other then it really won't be all that enjoyable for either half.
NO NEVER!!! I hate when women think that. It should be 50%/50%.
I think both sides should make effort. Afterall it takes two to make it work
No. It needs to be a two way street. Putting in little to no effort is putting off on her part and is really telling about how she actually feels about you and her character. Like she expects to have everything handed to her... not my kinda woman
What? Is approaching you, paying for your dinners and fancy jewellery not good enough for you?
Depends on the match-up. Some people are more opportunistic than others so you may need to play some games with regards to how much you're giving.
Nope, relationship means 1+1=2 lol if "1" and "1" equal so nope they should put same effort.
YOUR QUESTION IMPLIES ONE PARTY SHOULD TRY HARDER THAN ANOTHER
No, but they generally have to, it's far harder to get and keep a girl than a man.
of course men put in more effort than women. actually women are coy
both party should do equal. if only one person give more effort then it won't turn out good
We do, but we shouldn't. It should be somewhat even.
We already do. Girls just overthink a lot of things
Both should put effort in, not more than the other.
thats pretty much the reason why I dont date. Its exhausting and frustrating when Its clear Im putting in more effort.
I think that women should put as much amount of effort as men when it comes to dating
It has to be equal effort. Two people have to be working to make the relationship work or someone will end up like the other more. Eventually someone will get hurt.
bitch you fought for equality so why the fuck should I try harder than you?
lol of course both should put the maximum of effort that they can bear
No, because when you do that, you don't get the return on investment.
depends.. if you like someone then there is nothing like he/she, the best thing is to take a step, may be that would be the final step that was required
I must say, it's law of nature that men have to initiate for relationship
Yeah, but if I don't get a response within a certain time frame..
trust me it takes all my energy every day and I'm still struggling with the ladies
Grab the guy on this thread that answers yes and wrap him around your little finger twice! :D
no, i feel like we do our part to get girls i think women need to do more to try to keep us tbh.
No i believe it will trivialize the effort men put into relationships.
No they both should express naturally. I find romance to be fun but that is me.
For some girls yes, for other no we still don't live in ancient times
i don't think that either men or women should put in more effort than the other it should be an equal amount of work put in by both people
Wish if there was some effort measuring calculator available. Still i feel men should put in more efforts whereever its feasible :)
No? It should be equal.
It should DEFINITELY be equal, no doubt about it 💁🏼💁🏼
We shouldn't have to i mean we don't really get anymore out of it.
no that's ridiculous and horribly sexist.
Sorry but this question makes no sense since men put a lot more effort than women
what else do u want from us? lmao! can't me liking u be enough!!!
You wonder why guys only care about getting laid..
No. it's 2017. equal rights and responsibilities.
No men shouldn't because women are the ones looking for a potential mate to take care of them and their children.
yes ofcourse !! If man will not give time to his partner than it will not work.
Yes, I do think men should put in more effort however I don't think the woman should do nothing.
In a perfect world, they shouldn't. In a real world, they have to !
Why is it that girls doesn't like sex mostly of the time?
there should be an equal amount of effort being put into the relationship
Men already do put in more effort than women.
No, a relationship is a two way street.
Some women are terribly hard to please, the rest are impossible! Before you open your mouth to speak, make sure it's an improvement upon the silence.
they put enough effort as is
no, it should be 50/50 because if one person put more into a relationship than the other. whats the point of dating
Uh no it should be equal
i think the boy and girl should be equal for putting in effort in their relationship.
No, a relationship is equal effort.
No it should be equal