u I pick her up at her home. She is ready and doesn't keep me waiting. We have pleasant conversation as we drive to a nice restaurant. It is a quiet place with a romantic ambience. We enjoy a meal and more conversation, then we leave and go to a concert. It might be the symphony and it might be Styx, Foreigner, Alan Parsons Project, Elton John, Billy Joel, or some other group that was popular when I was younger. The concert is great and I hold her hand at some point during the performance.
Neither of us want the date to end, so we go for dessert and a drink after the concert. I finally take her home and walk her to her front door. She gives me a look that is the green light and I give her a passionate kiss. The kiss may arouse some desire within us but we say goodnight, because we want this to become a relationship that is not just about sex. About 30 seconds after I drive away, I call her to again tell her what a wonderful time I had and that I look forward to seeing her again very soon.
going for a walk or a small picnic somewhere like this
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with a candle light dinner
For a first date I like it simple but effective. If we go to the movies we won't get to to talk that much, if we go have dinner together it could get awkward since we don't know each other that well and that especially depends on the chemistry and how good we both are at opening up right away etc. So going to the zoo or taking a walk or smth sounds like a good idea to me, you get to talk but at the same time you get a little distracted by the walking and are still doing something. A simple date also refelcts how a normal day between the pair could go by the way.
I think the first date I had with my boyfriend was pretty much perfect. We didn't know each other too well so we decided to take a short walk to the sea. We sat there for about an hour I think, just talking, watching the birds, throwing pebbles into the sea. The weather was super nice. It didn't feel awkward at all, we had lots of things to look at and talk about. Never had an awkward moment. It was super laid back and I don't think I'd change anything about it. :) First dates are supposed to be simple and sweet in my opinion.
I like dining out for a first date. It shouldn't be a dragged out thing for the first date but that's just me:) I need time to process things after a first date so just a dinner or a lunch will be good for me:)
I'm not that picky (I mean I might protest to dumpster diving). If I'm with someone who can make anything fun and is pleasure to be around that's really all I could ask for.
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s going for a meal or a trip out somewhere for first few dates :)
when i finally get comfortable with them video game competitions sound great love doing that its so fun... i end up getting really competitive lol.
It would vary depending on the kind of female I am taking on a date. If they are energetic and excited or calm and casual.
In my own opinion, very few things would beat dinner and movies as a first date (you don't want to go all out right at the beginning) Depending on the girl I am taking would depict the movie choice, afterwards going to a nice restaurant, probably get a bottle of champagne or wine depending on what she likes. I would hold back on the flirting for a little bit, and eventually work into it, if I flirt off the bat I feel I am coming across too clingy and aggressive. Afterwards go out to the city, go to various stores and stuff. At the end of the night I would walk her to her door, have a small conversation, kiss her (whether cheek or lips) and smile as she walks through the door.
Bit too much of a fantasy?
Stealing the Declaration of Independance together.
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I love nature and a picnic sounds perfect. Dinner on the first date might be a little awkward and quiet if you don't know each other very well. Getting to know each other at a laid back park would be ideal.
Going to a few pubs for drinks and a walkabout the city :)
i haven't gone to any date yet so any of the other three is fine only the dinner date i don't
having dinner together will ripe nothing other than staring each other eat talk about food (which i love but here no no) then go home finished😐
but going to aquarium (never went but love to go) museum zoo sound fun👫and we will find more to talk than just sitting having dinner
if ever have to go to date someday that will be it 😊
going to a museum or art gallery, spend a few hours there getting through it all and then going out for a walk following a bite on the way, somewhere not too formal though so we can just relax with each other.
or a night in a park , chilling and chatting until night where we can watch the stars
I'm surprised there are not so many girls who do enjoy a dinner together.
I'm more surprisd there are more girls willing to play video game with the guy than going to a dinner.
Also, I find much more romantic in a dinner than taking to park or to aquarium. Is that the general taste of North American girls?
A, B & C
All great ways to connect and have fun.
D is more of a friend thing and is not a date. It's something you do together all the time once in a relationship.
The arcade would be fun but not the perfect first date it can be the 3rd or 4th date.
Going to the aquarium or zoo or museum would be amazing.
i've liked to combine A and B. dinner and then a walk afterwards to talk. basically i like a first date to allow for maximum conversation and getting to know you stuff
I vote aquarium. Because they get excited at all the fish and you can just sit back and fall in love with their excitement.
My perfect date is a night underneath the stars out in some field in the back of a truck talking about life and slow dancing.
Picnic, but the zoo, etc. is good, too.
You need someplace relatively quiet, so you can talk, but interesting, so you have stuff to talk about.
(Ah yes, I remember it well...)
Well at this current stage id say a fun activity like miniture golf and maybe end it with burger on the bonet of my car over looking the city from a secret spot i found.
We go to a library or bookstore. He watches me browse for five to six hours. An even better date is that he browses with me.
Usually like things in nature, but if we shared interests of music, getting high, etc maybe we could go to some cool jazzy cafe or art gallery... or maybe a Rollercoaster or night at a carnivallll.. something cute at night. Maybe even going to a library and finding all weird books together and reading about stupid things.. just talking about topics.
I like taking my gals to a fair or roller rank for the first date
a baseball or football game. I would like to see how competitive they are and how they react with others around
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