Is it normal for your boyfriend to joke about killing you. ?

[Pink2000]

My boyfriend has an odd way of thinking. Sometimes he jokes about killing me. We both laugh it off. I'm not worried cause I don't think he'll do it. He's schizophrenic and doesn't take medicine. He's quite larger than me. He's 6'2 180 lbs. I'm 5'0 135 lbs. he jokes about everything so it's hard for me to take him seriously.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes i got mental illnesses but no way , shape or form would i joke about killing a girl that is serious matter.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thank You For Most Helpful Guy :D

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

((Hugs))) I hope things can get better with you and your boyfriend ~!!!

[Pink2000]

Aww you’re the sweetest person I’ve ever met on here in 4 years. *Hugs*

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Awe thank you for the kind words :D

[Glen68]

Me and my wife joke about it to

[Glen68]

Thank you for choosing me

[Chaz269]

I've never been in a relationship in which my girlfriend didn't at some point, or sometimes more often, suggest she'd kill me for money. A couple even went into detail about how they'd get away with it. I always quietly listened with a smile, then punctuated their grand scheme with, "At least I'll be dead and all my worries gone. You'll be in prison, cuz that's not gonna work the way you think it will." Then I'd leave and go laugh my ass off in private.
So, yeah, I think that's pretty normal.

[Anonymous]

Omfgsh yo my boyfriend is schizo too. And he's actually killed someone. He stabbed someone to death in college when he went off his meds. Wtf. TAKE HIM SERIOUSLY. my guy not taking his meds would be the one thing that would make me leave for sure. Because I KNOW he's capable of killing without warning or provocation. Schizophrenia is nothing to mess with if he's really been diagnosed with that!

[Pink2000]

Aww hell nah. He’s never killed anybody as far as I know. I think he’s a little better now though.

[TripleAce]

he's schizophrenic?
ya Id take it seriously girly lol...

it's possible he could do that one day, and that's no joke. especially if he talks about it. one day that idea could pop up again and he might just amuse the thought

[kenjaminSlutton718]

No it’s not I’m crazy asf and I never told that to anyone unless I actually hated them if you try leaving him he more than likely will kill you you’re knew partner you’re parents then himself I suggest you take precaution unless you enjoy toxic relationships dude

[MissLogical]

It's not really normal in the first place, but especially not normal if he is schizophrenic and he doesn't take his medication. He has a mental illness that is currently unmediated, that isn't okay.

[lionking98]

I have that too

[KingDio]

If a person jokes about it in a funny way it can be fine. if a schizophrenic says in it a joking way can be red flags as what you see as joke for him could be him thinking outload

[Pink2000]

Gosh I hope not

[KingDio]

Be wary is all i say , schizophrenics see you as ether a hero or villain depending on he's feelings now its why he really should take he's meds

[MuseTay]

That's not even Ohkay, and should be the last thing someone "jokes" about. Warning sings everywhere, & since you've posted it it clearly bothers you.
Get out of there before the jokes on you.

[Purple_Babe14]

He's a man, which means he's strong. Tell someone about it, because that's how relationships mistakenly become dangerous.

[greNader]

The only bad thing is that he doesn't take his medication

[theFantasticJ]

Lol 😂 I guess I’ll be reading about you in the news soon

[bubble_tea]

It's probably not normal, but I have joked about it before too. We just have a broader sense of humor than some people I guess.

[tbeeks]

No, girl keep a frying pan near you at all time just in case you gotta literally smack flames out of him.

[CœurDoré]

That's terrifying wtf. Either get that man on meds or get out.

[Tysill]

You never joke about taking a life. Each word said is how he thinks he would do it.

[Seanfahey]

he is autistic what do u excpect

[Tysill]

That's not a valid excuse. Autism doesn't prevent you from knowing right from wrong, you may be slow, but you aren't unable to distinguish between the two.

[Seanfahey]

alright, correction: he is a psycopath

[Dog19]

Red flags

He called you a fat peice of shit

He cheated on you

He's a schizophrenic

[Pink2000]

He was joking when he called me fat. And he's not shit either. But he is schizophrenic and takes no medicine for it. I don't know much about schizophrenia

[Dog19]

What do you mean by he overpowers you

[Pink2000]

It's quite personal lol. I don't wanna go off into deal but i can call you when I activate mannequin phone.

[TripleAce]

You said you don't know much about his illness

Well many people have killed because of it and they end up in a mental hospital instead lf jail. U know why
Because something in his mind tells him to do bad stuff and he feels compelled to listen to that voice

[TripleAce]

Are people with schizophrenia dangerous?

Whilst the myth that all schizophrenics are violent is not founded in the evidence, it is the case that people living with schizophrenia are more at risk of dangerous behaviour such as suicide or violence while they are poorly.

Thankfully violent behaviour is comparatively rare. Most people with schizophrenia are never violent and indeed do not display any dangerous behaviour. However a small number do become violent when they are suffering from the acute symptoms of psychosis because of the influence of the hallucinations and delusions on their thinking. Studies have found that in cases of dangerousness, it is the delusions that are usually more influential in causing the dangerous behaviour than the hallucinations. However tragically it is also the case that many people with schizophrenia harm themselves and very often they succeed in killing themselves

[Dog19]

You said he choked you the other day

[Pink2000]

@TripleAce he talks about killing himself too

[Pink2000]

Girl that's a sexual thing. Choking is a turn on.

[TripleAce]

Ya in the uk people with that disease die almost equally to as many car accidents

So it depends on the person but its certainly not risk free
Like people have gotten out of jail for murders and went to mental institutions for it cause its not their fault

Lol so id be careful hahah

[Dog19]

Even bigger red flags!! I would leave if I was you

But if he also talks about killing himself you have a issue

[Greaver]

I mean I joke about killing my friends but they know that I can actually do it so they don’t piss me off

[Political_dude]

It is normal for me among friends and I think it is okay in relationship too

[pricey1983]

No its not If he scares u, n that's quite a size difference

[Lovemycountryboy]

No it not normal to joke about that

[outsidecurve]

Scary. You should be scared. Not normal behavior.