I don't think you should then. The reason being, I think desperation would lead to you being codependent in whatever relationship you get into. I think we should all learn how to be content single, and then when we are content we should look for people. But I could be entirely wrong.
You make a fair point. I've never seen myself as a person who would get into a relationship just for the sake of a relationship, though. At least that's my excuse for having been single my whole life. However, I guess I'm getting impatient. Tinder gives me the illusion of putting myself out there.
Yeah I understand what you mean. I think it's only natural for humans to want to be in relationships. Most of us want to reproduce and to find a good person who can be a companion to us. But those things aren't necessary for contentment in my opinion. I think that societal norms and media have pushed on us that love is almost the sole point and goal of life, and I don't think it has to be.
I hear these success stories all the time and I guess that's what makes me wonder about the apps time and time again. I guess deep down I still hope they would work for me, too.
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I don't know I've been on there a while and haven't gotten any worth while matches but you never know
Perhaps things are different where you are, but in most places in the UK, US, etc, Tinder is just for hookups.
I've not experienced that here. I didn't really experience that in the UK either but maybe that's just because I'm very picky about who I swipe right.
Yup do it. Your thumbs and fingers will get a nice workout from all the swiping.
Lol love your Gif's. Go for it, whats the worst that can happen
Yes but only if you aren't desperate to be in a relationship.
I guess I'm leaning towards desperation at this point.
I don't think you should then. The reason being, I think desperation would lead to you being codependent in whatever relationship you get into. I think we should all learn how to be content single, and then when we are content we should look for people. But I could be entirely wrong.
You make a fair point. I've never seen myself as a person who would get into a relationship just for the sake of a relationship, though. At least that's my excuse for having been single my whole life. However, I guess I'm getting impatient. Tinder gives me the illusion of putting myself out there.
Yeah I understand what you mean. I think it's only natural for humans to want to be in relationships. Most of us want to reproduce and to find a good person who can be a companion to us. But those things aren't necessary for contentment in my opinion. I think that societal norms and media have pushed on us that love is almost the sole point and goal of life, and I don't think it has to be.
What you are proposing is the definition of insanity...
Yes that good feeling you get when a stranger faces you away from him as he uses you for a tissue...
go back to old-school dating
don't waste your time or anyone elses
Lmao that GIF 😂 😂 😂
Just do it and see the outcome.. nothing to lose
I have tinder. i should totally ask u out when i match with u on tinder LOL😄
I found the love of my life on OkCupid!
I hear these success stories all the time and I guess that's what makes me wonder about the apps time and time again. I guess deep down I still hope they would work for me, too.
What is your purpose of tinder? 1 night? or relationship? if its relationship i do not suggest tinder. few guys on there are relatioship seeking
No, you're wasting your time.
Maybe you should try a bookstore.
Don't waste your time there
Sure! If you're in my area match me!
I think you should go for it.
Pretty as you are, you probably dont need Tinder ☺
Thank you but I'm one of those people who have never been in a relationship and I'm getting impatient.
Im not sure that Tinder is the best place to find a strong relationship partner lol
Do you have some confidence issues? ☺
Most likely.
I know how you feel. But you look cute af, you seem to be a nice person so you should gain some self esteem ☺
But if you're comfortable with Tinder you totally can give it another chance :)
I've never gotten the vibe that people would only be looking for hook ups but maybe that's just me being naive.
I've never been on Tinder honestly but i heard that most of the guys on it are looking for hookups
Boycott the system.
I would swipe rig
Haha thanks but that doesn't really help me.