Does a great sense of humor REALLY make a guy more attractive, or is it just a bonus?

[Anonymous]

Imagine a guy is super average in terms of looks (5/10 in looks), but he was the funniest person you ever met. Would that actually make him more attractive or does he still remain a 5/10? Women say sense of humor is very high on the list but if he's not physically attractive then it's pretty useless I think.

Being funny actually makes you more attractive

It's just a bonus, it doesn't affect your attractiveness

[hellionthesagereborn]

In my experience, no. In fact I would argue it hurts your chances it doesn't help them. If your attractive its fine but women preffer more somber men in my experience. I would consider myself a 5 and I have been told I am the funniest person they (various individuals) ever met. Don't think its helped me any, in fact I think it makes me be seen as comedic rather then romantic, they assume that because you have a sense of humor that that is all you are, that their is nothing deeper, nothing more to you. Your not viewed as "mysterious"(emotionally reserved), you don't come off as suave and cool (indifferent), so they tend to just ignore you, as far as romantic attraction is concerned. I would say some humor does help but not a lot. Hell they even did a study where they found that women rated men who where frowning or had a more serious look as more attractive then the smiling men. So no I don't think it really helps and if anything will probably hurt you (obviously their are exceptions).

[GoodManDave]

I know it's not done much for me as far as dating goes. I think most girls don't really care about my sense of humor. I'm probably considered ugly enough to be oogly. Yeah, they laugh, but it's never really made them want to spend extra time with me, go out with me, etc.

I've seen some guys who aren't funny get girls thinking he's the funniest thing out there. Sure, boring isn't good. And being humorless isn't good. But I've never seen a woman become attracted to me because I'm funny. It's made some things easier in general in life, so I wouldn't trade that if I could... but when it comes to dating and attraction around here, it doesn't seem to matter at all.

[ParadoxicallyDorky]

Dude I will tell you a story from experience and pure honesty. Ok so one time I met this guy. My first thought was that he looked average and that he's not my type. I wasn't attracted to him at all. Then, I talked to him. And he was so funny and entertaining! I thought about him for weeks after that. I don't know about anyone else but I tend to associate strong emotions I feel with the people I was with in the moment of experiencing them. Laughter and strong positive emotions are associated with this guy for me. It made him so much more likable in my eyes that I had a crush on him for at least a year (he went off to college so I never saw him again though).
Having a great personality does make up for whatever you lack in other areas. Especially if you're funny and good at conversing.

[Markfish]

Sad though as you still weren't physically attracted to him

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

So, majority of girls are sexually attracted to Mr. Bean? But majority of girls are indifferent to Chris Hemsworth?

[simplyaramdomgirl]

Of course humor make someone 10,000x more attractive! What is the point of being "hot" if you have no sense of humor or if you can't make the other person laugh or smile? A physique can attract, but a personality is what keeps someone interested. There hasn't been one guy that've liked that I didn't find funny. I would take an average Joe with an amazing sense of humor over an apathetic Adonis asshole any day. Of course there has to be other redeeming qualities, like intelligence, similar tastes/interest, and chemistry/attraction; but for me those have to be the most important features and qualities about a guy. His sense of humor, his intelligence, our chemistry/attraction, and having similar tastes.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

So, majority of girls are sexually attracted to Mr. Bean? But majority of girls are indifferent to Chris Hemsworth?

[i_am_shyvana]

HUMOR IS THE MOST ATTRACTIVE QUALITY ABOUT A MAN

srsly hot guys get crushed on but the funny guys pick up the girls fun fact

i dont understand what is up with our current society and obsession with appearance. yes, it is certainly something to keep in mind. but hot guys who are dicks aren't the ones who marry well. tip to all the guys out there: just be a gentleman. people dont just want to have sex. women dont want to be advanced by a guy who just wants to have sex. just... humor can do miracles

[10dsw]

"but hot guys who are dicks aren't the ones who marry well"

Because they don't want to get married. They can get all the sex they want with many partners without any commitment. Coming from a guy who has at least 5 male-coworkers who aren't settling down any time soon.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

So, majority of girls are sexually attracted to Mr. Bean? But majority of girls are indifferent to Chris Hemsworth?

[i_am_shyvana]

@10dsw im confused, is the only reason people marry nowadays sex? u said that hot guys dont want to get married because they can get as much sex as they want. i would agree with that if they were a dick, but hot guys can be kind and respectful and want to marry for the right reasons, so would that still be the case?

[i_am_shyvana]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs lol that is an interesting way of thinking about it but hah no that is not what i meant

[10dsw]

It's not that they marry for sex. Instead it's that they don't marry because it would deprive them of having sexual relationships with multiple women + marriage being a pretty big commitment that many men don't want to follow up on.

And in general, yes. I think that would still be the case. Men who have multiple options are far less likely to settle down. This has been shown to be particularly true for college campuses where women outnumber men

[Allie_Oops]

It's a bonus but the problem is a lot of guys mix 'humor' up with 'immaturity'. There's a huge difference between the two so if you're being funny and it turns a girl off, most likely you just aren't funny or whatever you did or said was incredibly immature.

[pavlove]

Or it’s possible the girl has no sense of humor insane notion but it’s true

[Allie_Oops]

@pavlove Mostly it's because the guy is being immature or not funny... humor is something that's easily sensed. A lot of people are not as funny as they think they are which is why no one laughs at their jokes.

[HotDogg]

Your user name is hilarious to me... lol

[pavlove]

i blame family guy

[ManOnFire]

Females seem to need constant humor in a man for him to be appealing, and while I do think it can be a great characteristic to have, humor is not everything.

To be honest I feel like women needing so much funniness in a guy is because she either lacks her own inner joy and sparkle and needs him to make up for that, or because she's scared of being serious and scared of guys who are serious too. Learn to be a little grounded sometimes and not have a constant need for giggles.

[CubsterShura]

A good sense of humor shows honesty, intelligence and confidence in men.

[ManOnFire]

@CubsterShura Hey, I like you on this site, so I'll try to be respectful here in saying that I don't see how humor is any indication of a man being honest or confident. I know a lot of times there are guys who use humor to actually disguise their depression, anxiety, or true selves because they don't want people to judge them for who they really are.

[CubsterShura]

It's not what I say. It is what the researchers who researched on it say.

I would personally say that, it's comfortable to be around guys that are funny. If I like their kind of humor, I also feel like they are more humble. This is my personal viewpoint. Because jokes that clearly indicate that someone has a sick mind... I don't even find them funny to begin with.

What you laugh at or try to make people laugh with does tell a lot about you as a person.

[ManOnFire]

@CubsterShura I wouldn't go with what research says.

[CubsterShura]

Well, I am not telling you to religiously believe them. I don't either but thought that letting you know could help with better understanding.

[ManOnFire]

@CubsterShura No, it doesn't help. In fact it's actually further from making sense while your own personal idea of humor in men at least has some kind of realism to it.

[CubsterShura]

This isn't my reasoning so I can't really do much about it 😅 but we can all agree that no matter what cause, a good sense of humor is always a great quality to have!

[PrincessPie]

Makes a guy WAYYYYYYYYYYY more attractive to me if i find him funny.

[Markfish]

But not physically attractive, and that's what I think the asker is getting at.

[PrincessPie]

@Markfish it does make me see him more physically attractive

[Markfish]

Physical attraction by definition has to derive from the physical, you may be more attracted to him if he is funny, but not more physically attracted.

[PrincessPie]

@Markfish don’t tell me how I feel lol, I know what I feel and being funny makes them LOOK better to me so yes that is physical

[Markfish]

Look it up, physical attraction has to be based on aesthetics. It is not physical attraction.

[PrincessPie]

Physical attraction is subjective so it very much is.

[Markfish]

Subjective in the fact that some people are more attracted to certain physical attributes while others don't like that aesthetic and will be more attracted to a different look. But you aren't basing the attraction on physical attributes, so it isn't physical attraction.

[PrincessPie]

I disagree. 💪

[Markfish]

How so? You may become more sexually attracted to him in some weird demisexual way, but it isn't physical attraction.

[PrincessPie]

@Markfish it makes there appearance look better to me, which is physical that’s why.

[Markfish]

And it's not caused by their appearance so it's not his looks that attract you. What you are doing is actually looking past his looks or caring less about them, pretty much the opposite of physical attraction

[Coconut_Man]

Spot on @PrincessPie 👌

[PrincessPie]

@Coconut_Man 🔥🔥🔥🔥👍🏻

[Markfish]

She isn't spot on that it's physical attraction though

[Coconut_Man]

@Markfish She is 100% correct. That is how attraction actually works. We aren't robots bruh. Emotions play a huge part in whether we view someone as physically attractive or not.

[Markfish]

Do you not understand that physical attraction has to be to phyical attributes?

[Coconut_Man]

@Markfish yes and when you connect emotionally, the person's physical attributes becomes very, very physically attractive to you. 😊

[Markfish]

Ok, so if a girl is ugly to you phenotypically, but her personality makes you attracted to her, that's physical attraction? hahahahahahaha, no it isn't!

[PrincessPie]

@Markfish no it makes them LOOK better which is physical you’re the one missing the point lol

[Markfish]

How do they look better through non visual means? that is an oxymoron that your demisexuality confuses.

[Coconut_Man]

@Markfish dude you're making no sense. PrincessPie last comment was spot on again.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

Mr. bean is more attractive than any guys to you?

[Markfish]

Look up what the word physical means please.

[Coconut_Man]

@Markfish you're never had a girlfriend have you?

[Markfish]

I have... and why are you side stepping the argument? Go look up what physical means

[Coconut_Man]

@Markfish we explained it on numerous replies but you still don't comprehend. That's not my fault.

Later dude 👋

[Markfish]

Again look up what the word physical means

[jennifer_bloom]

Humour isn't that important but I want a guy who isn't overly depressing and serious all the time

[lanabub]

there was a guy i barely knew and to be honest i wasn't attracted to him at all thought he was an awful looking thing but eventually i fell in absolute love with him because he was so charismatic and funny and then thought he was the most beautiful thing i saw no zac efron, justin bieber or channing tatum or who ever; could of compared to him. long story short he cheated on me, now i hate him, and he back to being uglier than ever...

[Goochbreaker]

damn that says a lot...

[Lukej044]

O wow sorry to hear that , you seem like an awesome girl :)

[Markfish]

That's actually sad, as you aren't actually physically attracted to him

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

So, majority of girls are sexually attracted to Mr. Bean? But majority of girls are indifferent to Chris Hemsworth?

[latinabutterfly96]

It really really depends on the woman in question. For me, a guy doesn’t have to be funny. That’s just a bonus. If we have the same sense of humor then great but it’s not like HE has to make ME laugh.

Tbh I never understood why it’s so attractive to some women but I can’t judge

[ManOnFire]

I think it's because it's a deep inner thing where seriousness frightens women.

[CubsterShura]

It shows honesty and intelligence. And that you can be comfortable around him.

[estoydorado1]

Chemistry/personality is a huge part of attraction, if his personality & sense of humor makes me happy/constantly laugh then yeah, I'd be a bit more attracted to him.

The word attraction basically means to attract someone or something. If it's fun to be around the guy then clearly he has attractive traits. It's not all about being a 10/10 appearance wise.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

So, majority of girls are sexually attracted to Mr. Bean? But majority of girls are indifferent to Chris Hemsworth?

[estoydorado1]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs I've never found Mr. Bean funny. He doesn't appeal to my personal sense of humor.

I've only recently began to find the Hemsworth brothers to be handsome but not crazy sexy. I like how genuine & playful they come across as (this actually drew my attention to them). I actually know a couple guys who look like them and I've never considered dating them, they just had different values/priorities and we don't live in the same city anymore.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

Glad to know that people's work, qualifications attract you regardless of what they looks like and regardless of their gender.

You don't find Liam Hemsworth sexy but what is the reason? His lack sense of humor or physical appearance?

[estoydorado1]

I've seen guys that look like him around. People seem to act like he's this one of a kind sex God. I always objectively veiwed him as handsome but I wasn't drawn in by him in the movie roles he portrayed or by how he acted in interviews a few years ago. Seeing how playful he is through hia social media, though made me view him as someone I could be attracted to irl.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

So, you aren't attracted men visually?
When do you see your opposite sex you can objectively tell which one is attractive but it doesn't attract you? Attractive face doesn't attract you initially?

When do you see chair, table, pen, bag, shoes and other neutral objects and also your opposite sex you feel nothing.

When do you see your opposite sex you can just recognize whether the person has symmetry/asymmetry face, chicken leg/masculine leg, chicken hand/masculine hand, whether they are tall or short but until talking with them, until knowing them you can't recognize them which guy is attractive?

If a guy with asymmetry face, chicken leg, chicken hand, short guy, broken jawline ask you out and after knowing him you will find him sexiest person in the world and you will sexually attract to him?

So, it's often you are asexual to random guys though they are attractive because physical attractiveness does nothing for you only qualification does?

[estoydorado1]

Trust, I'm sexually attracted to men, I'm just a lot more gaurded about it.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

You said, When do you see your opposite sex you can objectively tell which one is attractive but it doesn't attract you. So, logically If a guy with asymmetry face, chicken leg, chicken hand, short guy, broken jawline ask you out and after knowing him you will find him sexiest person in the world and you will sexually attract to him?

What about women? If a woman have decent personality then?

[estoydorado1]

No, I'll be attracted. There will be no emotional connection though, just lust which isn't the end all be all for me.

I have a very strong "mind over matter" situation going on. I've had to repress a lot of anger, betrayal, heartache since childhood and process it in real time, meanwhile presenting a whole other facade. It's made me very thoughtful and given me a ton of self-control even in when I'm riled up.. that translates to other emotions as well.

[sodaa_popp]

I would add that a guy girls find attractive is also a guy that does not require as much wit to be considered "funny."

Often times when I'm not quite sure if a girl is flirting or not, I'll crack an obviously not-funny joke. And if she's laughing harder than the joke is actually worth... boom.

[lostgirl_searching]

To me it's just a bonus. I always date guys that are considered " average looking " so the fact that I look for personality, being funny is a plus.
But I have met a guy that was hilarious but he was a dick very rude, but I admit that he was really funny.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

( I always date guys that are considered " average looking " )

You aren't attracted to conventional attractive guys?

[lostgirl_searching]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs I don't really personally care about looks I mean as long to me I think he looks cute. I was told I don't have a taste in guys because the guys I dated were either severely overweight or ugly because I was focus on personality more than looks and body.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

So, when do you see attractive guys like Brat Pitt, Chris Hemsworth you don't experience primary sexual attraction? Even don't don't experience sexual attraction to men body, only personality after knowing their personality?
So, you are not primarily sexually attracted to men?

[lostgirl_searching]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs I'm attracted to men I just don't have a prefecence for the body. As for being sexually attracted. I had a crush on brad piit and Chirs Hemsworth but I didn't look at in a oh I want to have sex with him, i just looked at them being handsome.

[lostgirl_searching]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs anyways I'm into sex right now anyway so being sexually attracted to a guy isn't going to happen because I don't care. That's why go for personality more than anything. I will only care about sex or being sexually attracted when I'm ready to have children and when that happens I wilk be married already with the guy I chose to spend the rest of my life with.

[lostgirl_searching]

*will be

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

Never heard people can experience sexual attraction consciously. First thing is if you are not sexually attracted to anyone then you will not want to have sex with them.
Women also have decent personality so logically after knowing their personality you can experience sexual attraction to women?

So, you aren't sexually attracted visually? You are sexually attracted after knowing their personality?

When you are not ready to have children you will not experience sexual attraction. You shut off your sexual attraction/orientation and become asexual?

Basically nice sexuality.

[lostgirl_searching]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs I just don't really care for it ( sex period ) it's not in my mindset to have sex. Even when I was a teenager. I would only care for it when I want to have kids. I'm attracted to guys just not sexually attracted because I don't care about sex. I'm not attracted ot sexually to women. I will still date guys, hell I even have a boyfriend now. I had an ex boyfriend before him I dated guys. Had a boyfriend when I first turned 20 I had a boyfriend in my mid teens. Just didn't have sex with them. That's why when I date guys they're not considered attractive towards other women.

[lostgirl_searching]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs I don't really considered myself as a sexual I have masturbated out of curiosity and did it to please my boyfriend but we stopped I just wasn't into it. I forced myself to do oral once with my ex but I didn't do it amymore. So I rather not force myself to do something sexual anymore.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

Hahaha I thought you are sexual but you are totally asexual. Thanks nice to meet you.

[lostgirl_searching]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs no problem

[bloodmountain1990]

It doesn't help physical attractiveness but mental attraction.

That being said, no amount of humor will save you if you're ugly as sin. Look at Chris Farley. There were interviews of him where he'd talk about his struggles with women and he was one of the funniest people on SNL and comedy in general.

[dolemite68]

I’ve learned that girls usually find a certain type of humor attractive, sarcastic banter and kind of like agreeable humor they love. Girls aren’t as attracted to George Carlin or Doug Stanhope type of misanthropic comedy you could say. There’s some exceptions who have a fucked up sense of humor tho 😂

[cherryphi82]

I hate sarcastic banter. That's where all the negging comes from.

[CubsterShura]

I swear to God, sense of humor can make any guy instantly more attractive regardless of what he looks like. If he has a cool attitude and he's funny, oh dammmnnn 🔥🔥🔥

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

So, majority of girls are sexually attracted to Mr. Bean? But majority of girls are indifferent to Chris Hemsworth?

[CubsterShura]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs Mr. Bean is a character not a classmate or neighbor. Chris Hemsworth is an actor and actors and actresses are known for their looks.

[CubsterShura]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs also, yeah if Chris Hemsworth turns out to be a funny guy in real life it will make him instantly hotter.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

If Rowan Sebastian Atkinson (Mr. Bean) turns out to be a guy in real life it will make him instantly hotter?

If Chris Hemsworth is not hotter because you never meet him n real life?

Chris Hemsworth is not a classmate or neighbor, Mr. Bean (Rowan Sebastian Atkinson) is an actor and actors and actresses are known for their acting.

So, what is your point here?

[CubsterShura]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs the point is, Chris Hemsworth IS known for his looks. Rowan Atkinson IS known for his character Mr. Bean. I don't know how they are in real life. You can't compare how we see celebrities like how we see people around us.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

My female friends said, If the guy isn't physically appealing to women. His humor and kindness just won't work.

If they aren't sexually attracted to him (if he is not attractive) then "love you like a brother" and friend zone you or they don't give a shit at all anymore because your weakness repulses them.

Even in my university there are many funny guys (sense of humor) but girls consider them as a "friend". They fall for attractive guys even lust after hot guys not to sense of humor.

My personal observation says, sense of humor can make any guy instantly more attractive as a brother or friend.

[CubsterShura]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs is it a bad thing that girls still like him more even if it's not necessarily in a sexual way?

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

Girls still like him as a brother, but they still LUST after hot guys. So, "sense of humor can make any guy instantly more attractive regardless of what he looks like" isn't it a BS?

It's nothing new. Women as like you are perfect human beings are never shallow, especially on GirlsAskGuys or Internet. I am familiar with this replay.

[CubsterShura]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs what if I tell you I have found several guys worth dating for their sense of humor?

All girls around me like funny guys. And enjoy their company. And find them more date-able.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

All girls around you like funny guys if they are not unattractive. And enjoy their company. And find them more date-able because they aren't unattractive. Suppose, they are unattractive and the guy isn't physically appealing to them, what will happen? That's why his humor and kindness just won't work. The reason is "his is not physically appealing to them".

All people enjoy the company of funny people but it doesn't make them sexually appealing automatically.

Physically attractive + 5/10 sense of humor = Crazy attraction
Physically unattractive + 10/10 sense of humor = Friend zone (he is not my type) LOL

(sense of humor can make any guy instantly more attractive regardless of what he looks like)
This was the funniest thing I have ever seen. If it true then 90% unattractive guys will get girlfriend.
But unfortunately conventionally attractive guys have more than 5+ girlfriend. But average guy or unattractive guys with 10/10 sense of humor = friend zone.

[CubsterShura]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs Looks aren't the only factor that makes a person attractive, lol.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

But looks are the main factor of initial physical attraction. Girls don't want to accept it because they want to show they don't care about looks, they are superior to men bla bla bla. But reality is none of them LUST after Anupam Kher rather they LUST after Brad Pitt.

Now please don't say we women don't like Brat Pitt, we like Anupam Kher.

[CubsterShura]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs I'm not a fan of Brad Pitt, and I heard of Anupam Kher for the first time.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

Ok leave it. I accept it that women in general feel nothing when they see conventionally attractive guys, they are more physically attracted to unattractive guys because of their sense of humor and they are only attracted to sense of humor regardless of gender. I was wrong. I thought women are attracted to attractive men.

[CubsterShura]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs wrong.

Women are attracted to men who are good.
No one likes an assholes no matter how good he looks.
Everyone likes a cool dude even if he isn't attractive.
Sense of humor is always a big plus.

I am done here.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

But a question arise that...

Until knowing someone properly how can you acknowledge that whether the person is asshole or not?

Logically, girls are physically attracted to the guy whom they know well, if it is stranger whom they never meet and don't know about their personality then they feel neutral (no physical attraction)?

Girls are attracted to good guys because of their behavior, not attractive one if they don't know their behavior? Is it?

[CubsterShura]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs from personal experience, I never liked a guy for solely what he looks like. But I liked guys who genuinely look good, are good people and have impressive skills.. I tend to like a guy when I find him good overall. My ex was short and he had a really unattractive face but you wouldn't believe how crazy I was for him that time. I still struggle to get over that jerk after two years.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

You didn't get me.
I am not talking about "LIKE". It's a powerful word I guess. We use it when we really fall for something.

I am talking about "attraction" primary sexual attraction. A sexual attraction to people based on instantly available information (such as their appearance or smell) which may or may not lead to arousal or sexual desire.

Like refers romantic/emotional attraction.

When do women see good looking guys (random) whom they never seen before what do they feel?
They don't attract to good looking guys or attractive feature doesn't attract them until they know whether the person is a good or bad person?

If it is the case then women only drawn to guys whom they know well, if in their group there is no conventional attractive guys then they will never feel attraction to attractive guys?

[CubsterShura]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs well if I see an attractive guy, well, they are attractive so they are pleasant to look at. Of course, I also get impressed and think 'damn that's a handsome guy right there' but that's it.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

This is too neutral description, I can't relate this.

well if you see an attractive girls, well, they are attractive so they are pleasant to look at. Of course, you also get impressed and think 'damn that's a attractive girl right there' but that's it?

if you see an attractive dog, cat, well, they are attractive so they are pleasant to look at? You have eye sight that's why you can detect the objects, that's it?

But what is the difference between seeing an attractive guy, attractive girl and other neutral object even seeing natural aesthetic?

[CubsterShura]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs doesn't make a difference to me unless it's a well-built man walking shirtless or in a tight t-shirt that time it's difficult to look away but I am trained to not stare at guys. I'm very conservative. 😂

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

Doesn't make a difference to you? :O
Seeing attractive men and women same for you?

If a woman wear tight dress and show her cleavage, show her curves is it also difficult to look away for you?

Actually I don't get how actually women see their opposite sex and how it is different then seeing their same sex?

[CubsterShura]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs I can't tell you about others, but I try to practice my religion more so by now I'm actually used to not staring at people inappropriately and even in case I ever find myself looking at someone mistakenly I immediately look away. That's also why I value piety over everything else in a man. So character and personality etc are very very important to me.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

So, it is valid to say,
you aren't attracted to attractive men, you can be attracted to particular guys after knowing their character and personality regardless of what he looks like.

[CubsterShura]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs yeah. I have nothing against boring looking or average guys.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

Glad to know you are not sexually attracted to attractive guys. :) You are sexually attracted to unattractive guys.

[CubsterShura]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs I am sexually attracted to my boyfriend, lmao.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

(My ex was short and he had a really unattractive face but you wouldn't believe how crazy I was for him that time. I still struggle to get over that jerk after two years.)

Ex boyfriend of present bf? As you said you had boyfriend.

You can't feel sexual attraction without being in a relationship with the person? When do you see your opposite sex you can just recognize whether the person has symmetry/asymmetry face, chicken leg/masculine leg, chicken hand/masculine hand, whether they are tall or short but until talking with them, until knowing them you can't recognize which guy is attractive.

If a guy with asymmetry face, chicken leg, chicken hand, short guy, broken jawline ask you out and after knowing him they will find him sexiest person in the world and they will sexually attract to him.

But you don't have biologically response when do you see attractive member of your opposite sex? This was great. I am really impressed by this. Ugly and unattractive guys are so lucky :(

[CubsterShura]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs lol. I find my boyfriend charming and nice that's why I love him in the first place lol. And yeah my present boyfriend not my ex.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

But don't you think your statement
(you aren't attracted to attractive men, you can be attracted to particular guys after knowing their character and personality regardless of what he looks like)

and

(you don't have biologically response when do you see attractive member of your opposite sex)

Was too much swindling?
If it was the case the when you were single it's basically means you are asexual as like demisexual who can't experience sexual attraction visually. Seeing opposite sex and same sex same for them.

[CubsterShura]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs you are the only one complicating stuff here. Am I supposed to get the lady equivalent of a boner every time I see a hot guy? Or am I supposed to hyperventilate? What exactly do you want from me and what's your problem? Can't handle that I have my priorities in a guy on check, right?

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

I have no problem but your statements
you are not attracted to attractive men, you are attracted to particular unattractive "man"

and you don't have biologically response when do you see attractive member of your opposite sex

Make me surprised because I am not familiar with this term of sexuality.
I have asked my PSY teacher and she said whether the girl is trolling or she is a "grey asexual"

[CubsterShura]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs I am heterosexual, lol.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

Heterosexual person don't need emotional connection to experience sexual attraction. They experience sexual attraction to the attractive member of their opposite sex visually and immediately. It's call Primary Sexual Attraction. (A sexual attraction to people based on instantly available information (such as their appearance or smell) which may or may not lead to arousal or sexual desire.)

Secondary Sexual Attraction: A sexual attraction that develops over time based on a person's relationship and emotional connection with another person.

http://bit.do/Heterosexuality or sexual people.

[CubsterShura]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs fine. I'm rocksexual, sexually attracted to Dwyane Johnson. Happy now?

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

Not only happy but also amused by your pseudo :D
Have a good day.

[sunrays1]

I think women get it wrong when they say they want a funny guy. Women who are dating will probably find their guy automatically funny because they both share a connection of making each other laugh.

[Coconut_Man]

This is very accurate^ 👍

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

So, majority of girls are sexually attracted to Mr. Bean? But majority of girls are indifferent to Chris Hemsworth?

[Coconut_Man]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs stop trolling all the women dude lol

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

@Coconut_Man How it is a troll dude? Glad to know that Mr. Bean is more sexy than any guys.

[Coconut_Man]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs you do know personality, mannerisms, morals, similar interests, mental connections , chemistry etc all play a major factor as well? It's NOT just being "funny" that's going to be the sole reason the girl finds a guy attractive. So no , your MR. Bean argument holds no weight.

Furthermore everyone sense of humor is different. So Mr Beans humor might be a complete turn off for some women.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

@Coconut_Man Mr Beans humor might be a complete turn off for some women because they aren't sexually attracted to him (he is not sexy physically)?

Glad to know womne's sense of humor theory only works if the guy is sexy.

[Xoxocutekitty]

Physical attraction only gets so far. It he's beautiful but says only ugly things, that gets old fast.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

So, majority of girls are sexually attracted to Mr. Bean? But majority of girls are indifferent to Chris Hemsworth?

[BatmansWife]

The guy I'm currently dating isn't what people would say "extremely attractive." But he has an amazing sense of humor (dry & sarcastic like I) and that's what I like about him.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

So, majority of girls are sexually attracted to Mr. Bean? But majority of girls are indifferent to Chris Hemsworth?

[Browneye57]

Girls like to be entertained. They're looking for a guy that can lead, and having a sense of humor is simply being cultured, entertaining.

It's far more important that you have money. Girls REALLY go for that. Just look at the Donald!!

[CurvyPryde]

Absolutely. You would be surprised how much a sense of humor can reel a woman right in.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

So, majority of girls are sexually attracted to Mr. Bean? But majority of girls are indifferent to Chris Hemsworth?

[CurvyPryde]

Not mr bean.. i prefer a happy balance. Think Ryan Reynolds or something like that

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

Why not Mr. Bean? Sense of Humor of Mr. Bean is 10/10. You would be surprised how much a sense of humor can reel a woman right in, wouldn't you?

The guy isn't physically appealing to you. That's why his humor and kindness just won't work.

So, what is your point (You would be surprised how much a sense of humor can reel a woman right in.)

[OverworkedGal]

None of my male partners have been conventionally attractive. I like them for their personality and sense of humour.

[Markfish]

That's actually sad, as you weren't physically attracted to them.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

So, majority of girls are sexually attracted to Mr. Bean? But majority of girls are indifferent to Chris Hemsworth?

[Amy247]

A 5/10 physically who is the funniest guy I've ever met moves up to like 8/10.

[Markfish]

Yeah but he doesn't move up to an 8/10 physically.

[Amy247]

Im not sure that makes sense? Of course it doesn't change how he actually looks. It does increase his sexual appeal if thats what you mean

[Markfish]

It doesn't increase physical attraction, as physical attraction by definition has to derive from the physical. I just see a lot of girls say things like "I wasn't physically attracted to him until I got to know his personality" like suddenly there where physically attracted to him... that's not physical attraction.

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

So, majority of girls are sexually attracted to Mr. Bean? But majority of girls are indifferent to Chris Hemsworth?

[Amy247]

@WhistleThuslyTWEETs i think your logic is failing

[WhistleThuslyTWEETs]

Why? Please explain?

[WhistleForTheChoir]

It absolutely, without-a-doubt does not help you to attract women. If you're already attractive it's just a bonus. If you're not, then best-case scenario you get an image as the asexual comic relief.

[phonetic_au]

80/20 rule overrides everything ie 80% of women typically only rate 20% of men as potential suitors or reply on messages from on line dating stats, Tinder stats are more brutal 90% of women only rate 10% of men as likes