Yer likely Gona get the same on any of these other dayeing sites as well. I know I haven't gotten a legitamat date yet from the dating apps but I keep trying
Its good for pretty women. If you're pretty you'll hook up a lot. If you want a serious relationship, use a serious site like match. com. even if you're not that attractive, you'll still get more matches than any guy on tinder so yeah.
It's a waste and there is no nothing wrong with bieng introvert coz in outside world there aren't lots of people whom u can trust and depend on. take your time everything will come around
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Tinder is a hookup ap, and hooking up is what guys (and girls) on Tinder expect. It sounds to me like a hookup is not what you're looking for, so Tinder would be a bad idea for you.
Well if you are really lovely and need some one than you start by making friend first than to a relationship. This way you get to know the person before coming into relationship.
A lot of guys are that way. I'm not very sure on how to weed them out. But I'm on tinder an I want something real so I'm sure there are other guys like me out there.
I tried to prepare myself mentally, but thats just appears to be too tiresome for an introvert, maybe im just meant to fantasize with my lazy ass on the bed. Anyways let me know how it worked out, it won't be as hard being a girl i can assure u. all the best "bro" !
The struggle is real Broπ but i think its 20X harder being a girl. Its easier for guys to approach and start convosations with girls than the other way round! Also guys are so much harder to read so you never know whats going on in their mind at all or what they think about you...
Right sorry i forgot boys can be introverts as wellπ my bad... and what do you mean sit back and enjoy the show? Like, being an introvert, the only place i normally sit is on the couch and the only show i enjoy watching are normally comedies π
I dont get out much, and no, guys dont really approach me π i dont know what it is maybe I'm really ugly or something... but yeah i also fantasize about the day i can cuddle with someone all day long with hot chocolate and a good set of movies π
Dont make me feel lonelyπ ,,,,, and especially in the morning when the feel to waking up entangled with her and finally getting awake doing cuddlingπππ
First things first dont use tinder or other dating sites all are shitty. The only way is to be real and meet people in person, face to face, the old school way. my opinion (for kelzM) i dont think you are ugly its just about trying or making a move further, i think its never wrong to be yourself. Try to talk. There is nothing embarrassing in it. And plus why do you care when you are talking to a stranger. What dose he know about you? 'NOTHING.' be charming be happy make him smile laugh your hearts out, do something productive nd let people know that yes you exist.
For (interstellar) bro its never embarrassing in trying go talk to people. As far as possible what will the least happen if you feel your talk will be weard 'nothing ' coz they dont know you. Its ok if someone laughs at you. Just give them a reply with a smile 'thanks if you enjoyed laughing at me i felt blessed for making somebody laugh or smile ' i guaranty that they will apologize. But this my friend gives you confidence. Go out there and make people laugh smile. I am very sure u won't be alone. I am sry for such long message but i really feel that people like you need someone to be there for you. And dont worry if you dont find anyone i am there you both can dm me anytime of the day. You both will have a friend by your side π keep smiling, be happy
@KelzM hahaha im getting vibes, there can be further lot in common,,,,,,,,, me with a girl? They are alien to me, im too shy to even take a glance at them.ππ€£
Dude, i really didn't know guys like you existedπ. I thought all guys now a days were confident fuck boys... but you seem really genuineπ and like i always expected convosations with guys to be super awkward and stuffπ
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Just do realize that it's not all guys that are like that some of us really are just looking for love tinder is fun try it out there kiddo :)
Yer likely Gona get the same on any of these other dayeing sites as well. I know I haven't gotten a legitamat date yet from the dating apps but I keep trying
Its good for pretty women. If you're pretty you'll hook up a lot. If you want a serious relationship, use a serious site like match. com. even if you're not that attractive, you'll still get more matches than any guy on tinder so yeah.
Tinder is only a good idea if you don't mind filtering through the 95% of guys who are on there only to get in your pants.
It's a waste and there is no nothing wrong with bieng introvert coz in outside world there aren't lots of people whom u can trust and depend on. take your time everything will come around
Tinder is a hookup ap, and hooking up is what guys (and girls) on Tinder expect. It sounds to me like a hookup is not what you're looking for, so Tinder would be a bad idea for you.
If you just want to have sex then sure
By the way im pretty sure tinder is 18+
Work on starting real world conversations. Tinder is a short term solution.
Honestly I think most guys are looking for something serious. But the guys that most guys swipe right on are not.
Well if you are really lovely and need some one than you start by making friend first than to a relationship. This way you get to know the person before coming into relationship.
A lot of guys are that way. I'm not very sure on how to weed them out. But I'm on tinder an I want something real so I'm sure there are other guys like me out there.
You can use tinder if you're really looking for hookups and not serious relationship.
Tinder isn't kind of app where you would find relationships, kind off hook up type
Maybe try to find from school maybe friends, or join a society like. You'll find someone who has common interest
yea try it. I'm on it and have nothing bad you say about it hope I see you and match!! 😁 leave it to fate
Hey I feel you! I'm going through the same like not exactly but kinda sorta, hit me up if you'd like to talk
For a relationship? No. Tinder has become more of a hook up app, rather than a dating app
Guys trying to hook up with multiple girls, is not Tinder... it's nature.
Its okay for a fling
But not for a good 😅😅 generally
Yupp, exactly same condition, please do let me know how to work it out, or either we are on our own.
Judging from the responses i think we're on our own bro !
I tried to prepare myself mentally, but thats just appears to be too tiresome for an introvert, maybe im just meant to fantasize with my lazy ass on the bed.
Anyways let me know how it worked out, it won't be as hard being a girl i can assure u.
all the best "bro" !
The struggle is real Broπ but i think its 20X harder being a girl. Its easier for guys to approach and start convosations with girls than the other way round! Also guys are so much harder to read so you never know whats going on in their mind at all or what they think about you...
Did u just said an introvert, its easier to approach and start conversation. πΆπΆπΆπΆπΆπΆ
And being a girl, all u gotta do is, sit back and enjoy the show
Right sorry i forgot boys can be introverts as wellπ my bad... and what do you mean sit back and enjoy the show? Like, being an introvert, the only place i normally sit is on the couch and the only show i enjoy watching are normally comedies π
Well thats what i would love to do too, even better with a girl in arms...π
Eh but dont u get approaces by guys often?
I dont get out much, and no, guys dont really approach me π i dont know what it is maybe I'm really ugly or something... but yeah i also fantasize about the day i can cuddle with someone all day long with hot chocolate and a good set of movies π
Dont make me feel lonelyπ ,,,,, and especially in the morning when the feel to waking up entangled with her and finally getting awake doing cuddlingπππ
Wow. It sounds like you're copying and pasteing this straight out of my headπ . Have you ever been with a girl?
First things first dont use tinder or other dating sites all are shitty. The only way is to be real and meet people in person, face to face, the old school way. my opinion (for kelzM) i dont think you are ugly its just about trying or making a move further, i think its never wrong to be yourself. Try to talk. There is nothing embarrassing in it. And plus why do you care when you are talking to a stranger. What dose he know about you? 'NOTHING.' be charming be happy make him smile laugh your hearts out, do something productive nd let people know that yes you exist.
For (interstellar) bro its never embarrassing in trying go talk to people. As far as possible what will the least happen if you feel your talk will be weard 'nothing ' coz they dont know you. Its ok if someone laughs at you. Just give them a reply with a smile 'thanks if you enjoyed laughing at me i felt blessed for making somebody laugh or smile ' i guaranty that they will apologize. But this my friend gives you confidence. Go out there and make people laugh smile. I am very sure u won't be alone.
I am sry for such long message but i really feel that people like you need someone to be there for you. And dont worry if you dont find anyone i am there you both can dm me anytime of the day. You both will have a friend by your side π keep smiling, be happy
@tanmay216 thanks bro, i really appreciate your help, i will surely look into. Tysm
@KelzM hahaha im getting vibes, there can be further lot in common,,,,,,,,, me with a girl? They are alien to me, im too shy to even take a glance at them.ππ€£
Dude, i really didn't know guys like you existedπ. I thought all guys now a days were confident fuck boys... but you seem really genuineπ and like i always expected convosations with guys to be super awkward and stuffπ
πππ i do like to get to know u too
You never can tell make sure you know what you're getting yourself into