Sometime i just clicked in the l "Like" buttom many times really fast until i run out of likes, look the matches and if i like her i'll text her... just for you to know i may not be the only one
I think the whole idea of men being responsible for messaging first is bullshit. If you match and actually like the person just message them, doesn't matter who texts who first. It doesn't make you look desperate or anything like that.
Why the fuck would it be an obligation to any sex? Bother persons swiped right so the first to notice should start the conversation. I think it's childish to say I don't message first.
Have you ever been on Tinder? Because no man would say it's easy to find women on Tinder. Well, not if you have used the app in the last few years or so. Girls are ridiculously picky.
@Benedek38 If you are at all attractive, it is easy to find women on Tinder. Actually, women on tinder are more aggressive than most males when they see someone they are actually attracted to. They are direct and sexually aggressive.
Yes, girls have become picky because they have endless options so they become more and more shallow. But someday they will expire in the looks department and they will become desperate pathetic overused worn-out sacks of vaginal meat, and it's then that they will become less picky about the male and they will start "looking for a nice guy"... etc.
"If you are at all attractive, it is easy to find women on Tinder. Actually, women on tinder are more aggressive than most males when they see someone they are actually attracted to. They are direct and sexually aggressive. " Bullshit. It really depends on region, and age group. How old are you, what's your financial state, and what age group are you trying to date, is the good question. But generally, women on Tinder are only aggressive with the top 10-15% of men - the successful bachelors in their late 20s.
"Yes, girls have become picky because they have endless options so they become more and more shallow. But [...]" Oh, I take it you are picking from women past their primes for hookups then?
@Benedek38 If you want to believe that, good for you bud. I won't post any of my experiences but there have been people who prove my point... www.boredpanda.com/.../
I think everyone likes to be messaged first to avoid the possibility of rejection, but if you’re comfortable doing it I’d say go for it. Personally the few I’ve messaged never respond 😂
That's exactly why online dating doesn't work. I guy copies and pastes a message to 600 women, and they all think that makes them special. Of course they fall for it hook line & sinker... and when they get burnt, they say: "Why are all men assholes?" All men aren't assholes, but some women have shit for brains. :)
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Ok while I tend to message first because I think it's polite I will say a girl who messages first is instantly more attractive to me
Sometime i just clicked in the l
"Like" buttom many times really fast until i run out of likes, look the matches and if i like her i'll text her... just for you to know i may not be the only one
I think the whole idea of men being responsible for messaging first is bullshit. If you match and actually like the person just message them, doesn't matter who texts who first. It doesn't make you look desperate or anything like that.
I don't get matches so I never formed an expectation.
Why the fuck would it be an obligation to any sex? Bother persons swiped right so the first to notice should start the conversation. I think it's childish to say I don't message first.
not a fan of tinder much. I got such bad luck from there
Not sure never been on Tinder , i thought Tinder was just for booking up and sex
Tinder is literally a place were guys go to find easy chicks to fuck, we don’t think about who should text who first
Have you ever been on Tinder? Because no man would say it's easy to find women on Tinder. Well, not if you have used the app in the last few years or so. Girls are ridiculously picky.
@Benedek38 If you are at all attractive, it is easy to find women on Tinder. Actually, women on tinder are more aggressive than most males when they see someone they are actually attracted to. They are direct and sexually aggressive.
Yes, girls have become picky because they have endless options so they become more and more shallow. But someday they will expire in the looks department and they will become desperate pathetic overused worn-out sacks of vaginal meat, and it's then that they will become less picky about the male and they will start "looking for a nice guy"... etc.
"If you are at all attractive, it is easy to find women on Tinder. Actually, women on tinder are more aggressive than most males when they see someone they are actually attracted to. They are direct and sexually aggressive. "
Bullshit. It really depends on region, and age group. How old are you, what's your financial state, and what age group are you trying to date, is the good question. But generally, women on Tinder are only aggressive with the top 10-15% of men - the successful bachelors in their late 20s.
"Yes, girls have become picky because they have endless options so they become more and more shallow. But [...]"
Oh, I take it you are picking from women past their primes for hookups then?
@Benedek38 If you want to believe that, good for you bud.
I won't post any of my experiences but there have been people who prove my point...
www.boredpanda.com/.../
I would love for a girl to message me first, but I certainly don't expect it.
I think everyone likes to be messaged first to avoid the possibility of rejection, but if you’re comfortable doing it I’d say go for it. Personally the few I’ve messaged never respond 😂
I'd guess it's to make sure the women aren't bots... heard a lot of that happens on dating sites to draw men in
Women should always message first since guys face too much rejection on apps like tinder.
We sure as hell aren't expecting it, but it's nice when it happens.
Tinder is horrible stuff... but no, I expect the guys should.
If you message first then you can all but secure a date, but men generally mass match people then only message as many people as they have time.
That's exactly why online dating doesn't work. I guy copies and pastes a message to 600 women, and they all think that makes them special. Of course they fall for it hook line & sinker... and when they get burnt, they say: "Why are all men assholes?" All men aren't assholes, but some women have shit for brains. :)
Message first? I don't expect most of them to message second.
They have far to many girls to message and to fuck you are last
I think they prefer to wait, because women has leads in choosing their partner online.
No gurl replied to me on tinder den i deleted it
I have no idea, what is tinder?
That's a pick up site?