What I want to know is where are all the nice girls? Why do men feel compelled to make a woman feel better, but the same isn't offered in return? This isn't fair, where do I get my self esteem from?
My point is are u attracted to bad girls as a nice guy? if so that is why you're feeling taken for granted. nice guys ignore the good girls and go for the bed ones that aren't suited for them
Honestly I'm attarcted to both and have tried both but I tend to go for the sweet feminine type of girls more I've only recently even considered giving the more bad boy kinda girls a chance and over all the nice girls are the one I prefer
Not saying good girls don't get taken for granted you know but let me give you some presepctive where do you think most of the asshole kinda guys come from they weren't always assholes a lot of the time they started out as a nice guy but that wasn't working out so they changed to who they thought women would prefer
Well cause I do most guys my age have at least had one girlfriend before and they know what it's like to feel that love only a women who cares about you can I'm getting older and older everyday and I wanna experience that as well plus us guys aren't always gonna have an abundance of women to choose from unless your really good looking
A lot think that any girl deserve a nice guy. Guess what? No they don't. Only good girls deserve good guys, just like only ladies deserve to have a gentleman at their side.
Technically I'm not admitting anything, this isn't a confession haha but I do know several women that have taken advantage of men both emotionally and physically, the same as I know men who have done similar.
Well I posted it like a few days ago and it's a Monday everyone hates Mondays so I'm supersied people are on gag answering this question of all questions 😂
Every man who defines themselves as being Nice is a shitty person with a super short fuse. The nicest people I know are just nice because they want to be and don't talk about it every other second
Ok I'm sorry but that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard even having a short fuse doesn't make a person not nice and I'm just saying what I've heard others have said would best describe me I've never really considered my self a nice guy I see it as just personalty nothing more nothing less but there always women like you that try to flip the script and make seem like cause. Some saying there nice they are saying they deserve this and that or that they are shitty underneath and your flawed logic is seriously dated and needs to be addressed
Yeah I went off on you cause you insulted me and any guy like me be short tempered does not make me a mean person and you shouldn't be talking your exactly the type of women men avoid always trying to turn things around so that your right this post isn't here for your neagtivity and I'll go off on you again if you continue to talk your nonsense
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Being nice really doesn't matter all that much. Looks and social skills are far more important.
So I could treat a women like shit but as long as I've got looks and social skills I'm set
Depends on the woman, but in general the better looking you are the more women ignore your personality flaws.
Also, I do think a hot guy with good social skills would do a lot better with women compared to an ugly nice guy with mediocre social skills.
What I want to know is where are all the nice girls? Why do men feel compelled to make a woman feel better, but the same isn't offered in return? This isn't fair, where do I get my self esteem from?
Depends, what kind of women are you liking? bc men tend to take the nice girls for granted.
That maybe true but we didn't start a saying specifically to put down men that fall into the nice category
My point is are u attracted to bad girls as a nice guy? if so that is why you're feeling taken for granted. nice guys ignore the good girls and go for the bed ones that aren't suited for them
Honestly I'm attarcted to both and have tried both but I tend to go for the sweet feminine type of girls more I've only recently even considered giving the more bad boy kinda girls a chance and over all the nice girls are the one I prefer
And that's just for the approach I haven't even dated before
Not saying good girls don't get taken for granted you know but let me give you some presepctive where do you think most of the asshole kinda guys come from they weren't always assholes a lot of the time they started out as a nice guy but that wasn't working out so they changed to who they thought women would prefer
Maybe you're too eager for a girlfriend.. why do u want a relationship so bad?
Ugh when ever I post these questions I get that respones why does anyone want someone to be by there side think about that
Sorry kinda goin off on you and you don't deserve that ugh I'm to nice I hate being nice sometimes
I mean why are u in such a rush? you're 19?
What makes you think I'm in a rush?
You post a lot about wanting a relationship lol
Well cause I do most guys my age have at least had one girlfriend before and they know what it's like to feel that love only a women who cares about you can I'm getting older and older everyday and I wanna experience that as well plus us guys aren't always gonna have an abundance of women to choose from unless your really good looking
No. Straight up, nice guys just overthink that into an actual possibility. A man needs to be accountable and take charge every now and then.
What do you mean a person can be nice and do both those things but still be taken for granted
A lot think that any girl deserve a nice guy. Guess what? No they don't. Only good girls deserve good guys, just like only ladies deserve to have a gentleman at their side.
Yes some do and visa versa.
At least some women are willing to admit it others just wanna cause drama
Technically I'm not admitting anything, this isn't a confession haha but I do know several women that have taken advantage of men both emotionally and physically, the same as I know men who have done similar.
Basically depends on since how long she been knowing him and how close they are
sadly some do
but Not me :p
I believe you I'm supersied I'm getting a lot of comments on this post today
why? its a good question!
Well I posted it like a few days ago and it's a Monday everyone hates Mondays so I'm supersied people are on gag answering this question of all questions 😂
ohhhh I see :D
Yeah lol
Every man who defines themselves as being Nice is a shitty person with a super short fuse. The nicest people I know are just nice because they want to be and don't talk about it every other second
Ok I'm sorry but that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard even having a short fuse doesn't make a person not nice and I'm just saying what I've heard others have said would best describe me I've never really considered my self a nice guy I see it as just personalty nothing more nothing less but there always women like you that try to flip the script and make seem like cause. Some saying there nice they are saying they deserve this and that or that they are shitty underneath and your flawed logic is seriously dated and needs to be addressed
That's exactly what I meant good illustration. Second you're challenged boom all pretenses gone.
Yeah I went off on you cause you insulted me and any guy like me be short tempered does not make me a mean person and you shouldn't be talking your exactly the type of women men avoid always trying to turn things around so that your right this post isn't here for your neagtivity and I'll go off on you again if you continue to talk your nonsense
Yes for sure. As girls get older they look for and want nicer guys. :)
if he is not confident then yes the sweet boi does get taken advantaged of
No... they just don't take them.
Some desperate sad girls would yeah
I think so, I been a doormat..
Some woman do not all but they loss out in the end
Indeed
Yes they do.