Do you think men should be allowed to go to a STRIP CLUB if they are in a committed relationship? (Page 2)

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Do you think men should be allowed to go to a STRIP CLUB if they are in a committed relationship?

Leimarie · Answer

Sure. Go. Enjoy. So long as the guy budgets himself so he does not squander all of his family’s limited income at the strip club then it won’t hurt to let him go to unwind every so often.

Paris13 · Answer

"C" I Can SEE this... I did a Bachelor Party and with the Girls at their own Bachelorette party, Just Gifts and Fun, Hun, They did it right next Door to this so no one was Pissed. xx

ret04 · Answer

There's a problem with the way you framed the question. In a committed relationship? How committed are you, if you want to go to strip club? Sort of committed? Mostly committed?

How disrespectful is that. What if your girl wanted to go ogle and hang around a bunch of horny buff dudes? How would that make you feel? I wouldn't like it at all. I also wouldn't feel very committed if I felt like going to such a place.

Girther10 · Answer

“Allowed”... It sounds like some rule book about relationships... I don’t know of any such book...
I think every relationship is different, so many variables between people, it’s hard to make a generalized agreement like that. So every single relationship is unique and couples always work those things out in their own way.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, why are women so insecure about their boyfriend or husband. If the man truly loves them they have nothing to worry about. I would never want to control a boyfriend or husband with a ball and chain and constant monitoring. lol

Nivinxus · Answer

I honestly wouldn't be happy if the positions are reversed, so its more like 'If you are okay with your partner going to a strip club, then it should be okay'. And in my case, I'm not, so I won't.

Cyber_Us · Answer

I guess it really depends on if the other is comfortable with the situation. Some are really open and confident so they don't mind, some are very conservative and easily confused so it would break their world. I told my boyfriend he could go if he wanted, told me he didn't see the point for him but would go in some occasion (like a bachelor party).

Izumiblu · Answer

Allowed to go? I don't know. He’s his own guy. That being said I’ll be wondering why I’m with him if he’s got nothing better to do than hang out at strip clubs all the time.

apple24 · Answer

I wouldn't date have dated him if he was into strip clubs. Of course if he goes with his buddies or with friends for one time on a rare moon than sure. But I really don't see the point of standing around and looking at women giggle their ass.

Thatsamazing · Answer

Other-- the hell does "allowed to" mean? Allowed by whom-- their wife or girlfriend? Uh, if a guy wants to go to a strip club, he's going to go. Period. His wife or girlfriend doesn't own him. If she's insecure about him checking out other girls who may be more attractive than her, tough shit. She gets to get over it. She doesn't own him or his eyesight, the same way he doesn't own hers. This entire mindset is pure bullshit.

dipta · Answer

Surely no one is checking at the door if those guys are committed or not?  I personally wouldn't want to be their partner though.

4465loveyou5577 · Answer

They are allowed to go to a strip club no matter what they're relationship status is BUT their girlfriend is also allowed to break up with them if she doesn't approve.

Susan_in_charge · Answer

Yes on the condition that the next night he has to go and see male strippers with his partner and her friends.

NineBreaker · Answer

I don't think that anyone should go to a strip club. That being said, that is my personal opinion. It's particularly wise if you have a significant other.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes sure if he brings me too.  I ve seen girls in strip club

echoaj · Answer

I would allow my girlfriend to go to a male strip club. So I say yes to this question.

Salmon4056 · Answer

No. It would be best for the husband to go to his wife for that instead of going out to lust over some other woman.

TheHillsRAlive · Answer

I'm still not sure what all the appeal is about. If they must, then go ahead. Just as long as there are no complaints about what I do either

Lunasss · Answer

Yes why not? If is like a special occasion like friends party or bachelor it’s acceptable. I also would love to go with him sometime

CubsterShura · Answer

Pro tip: Don't get married if your spouse alone won't be enough for you.

OtakuNeko666 · Answer

I'm ok as long as he's not partying too hard. I can trust them.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I think it depends on the woman in the relationship. Some would not want their guy going and others would laugh it off, or even want to go themselves!

Anonymous · Answer

a strip club is not a brothel-try touching one and see the pain that will be inflicted on you by a huge biker-bouncer. What is this "allowed" stuff? Allowed by whom? Just because you are in a committed relationship doesn't mean she gets to dictate where you go. Women hate the idea of their men looking at other women naked (whether porn of strippers) because of their own insecurities-they think you are comparing their bodies to the stripper/porn model to their detriment. Grow a pair and man up.

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Allowed? Yes. However, as my Grandmother used to say, "Just because you CAN do something, doesn't mean you necessarily or automatically SHOULD."

Denz1510 · Answer

No it wouldn't bother me, he's been with friends and I've been to see male strippers with my friends.

Anonymous · Answer

If he does I’ll go ahead and lap dance 10 guys. No problem.

Browneye57 · Answer

Of course. What does a strip club have to do with a guy's relationship?

Or as wifey would say, "I don't care where you get your appetite as long as you come home to eat". :)

Personally I don't care for them, I always feel sorry for the girls - but they CHOOSE that shit so it's on them. The guys just want to ogle, so what. His woman would be smart to be ready for him when he gets home - she could surely have some fun!

loveslongnails · Answer

I never saw the point in going to a strip club. You get teased and blue balls, and get nothing but a lap dance. By the time you're done, you've spent hundreds of dollars and had no sex and moderate entertainment. If I'm going to spend that kind of money, I'll hire a call girl who can also dance !!

DDpsy · Answer

... and how exactly are you going to enforce that rule?

confusednbored · Answer

It’s fine to watch only without having physical contacts with these girls. No difference than watching porn videos

Massageman · Answer

"Allowed to"? BY the time people are old enough to go to a club, you would think they would be old enough to discuss these things before they became a "thing".

ImJustCurious13 · Answer

I would say it depends on why he's going there. If it's to check out the girls and get a lap dance, then NO. If it's to hang out with his single friends then SURE.

zagor · Answer

Wow, got a shitload of responses to this.

Let me relate a personal experience - a friend was getting married and we had it all arranged to rent a limo and go to a strip club, but the bride-to-be got wind of it, and threw a fit. Got nixed. Bachelor Party wound up being a staid dinner at a restaurant.

We were kind of pissed, especially since it was unlikely things would get out of hand as her DAD was going to go with us to the club...

Gedaria · Answer

Yes. Not that I agree that they should go but firstly it just a strip club, naked women, see worse on the beach in summer. Plus if they are inclined to frequent these places they will go behind your back. I have a little , proposal to put on your own strip for your man plus with benefits !!!

pootytangg · Answer

It doesn't bother me honestly. I am his partner not his parent.

MyExperience · Answer

I find them to be a bore and a waste of money but If I need to take a client to one, I will. I stopped telling my girl when those type meetings arise.

ItsyBits · Answer

That's between him and his SO. It doesn't bother me unless he's there all the time.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

I don't even get the point of strip clubs. You're essentially paying to get blue-balled.

lovedejj_xo · Answer

I go with my friends when we go on vacations for fun... I wouldn’t care. We can go together if it’s that serious.

Alesi · Answer

Yup. Just because y’all are in a relationship doesn’t mean y’all are blind, so both should be able to go and get lap dances all that. It’s in a controlled environment so why not!

Logorithim · Answer

No, of course not.

chrisbigman · Answer

If God gives free will to people, then so should their spouses/significant others. As for whether or not it's a good idea, usually it's advised to NOT be (a good idea).

Anonymous · Answer

If my boyfriend felt the need to go, aside from a friends bachelor party, I’d genuinely have to question why. Can’t say it bodes very well.

CoffeeWC · Answer

People who are in a serious relationship aren't in it just for the looks. If that were the case, it won't last too long as a woman's looks deteriorate over time. When a man goes to a strip club they are only their for some entertainment. It's not for love, it's for lust. People tend to think love and lust are the same but they're not.

reptocarl · Answer

They should be allowed but not be a jerk and go if their partner doesn’t like it

Peege · Answer

Strip clubs are degrading for women, think they should be shut down.

i_am_me_you_see · Answer

Should be free to do what you want too do, just cause went to a strip club dont mean he going to put his chub in a stripper, of he loyal and committed he will bring his game home and y'all should have a nasty good time lol

Phanta · Answer

Strip clubs should be bulldozed into the ground. They are only for the purpose of getting men drunk and robbing them of their money. They pay big money yet can't even touch the women. Insane. Then they leave the club to go out on the highway drunk.

FatherJack · Answer

What is the point of strip-clubs? Pay to leave sexually frustrated... why? Men are letting themselves get fleeced.

zippididooda · Answer

This had to be a vagina-owner. Only a vagina-owner would consider that question as not insulting to men. What do you mean "should be allowed" ?
Where does anybody get off saying what men should or shouldn't be allowed to do?

TheSikuu · Answer

Naaah. I just don't see why any happily married man would need that

ThatInsaneChick · Answer

As long as they don't fuck or touch anyone else, yeah.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I'm ok with it a few times a year but not more. He can watch porn.

zoe2187 · Answer

I don’t care if he wants to go. It’s his choice. My guy wouldn’t want to. He thinks girls that get naked for money are gross. I wouldn’t be with a guy that was attracted to women with low self worth values. In the end I’m not his keeper.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm using both what I would want for both myself and my girl. If I can, she can go to a strip club with guys in it (yes those exist), but only if it's some kind of bachelor party. Otherwise I wouldn't want her to and I doubt she'd want me to.

jumping2conclusions · Answer

Nope! Lol.  Those thots ain’t touching my man!  And he ain’t paying no thots either! It better be his little secret lmao

Iron_Man · Answer

No they shouldn't be allowed to go to a strip club the same thing with the woman no male strip clubs

Anonymous · Answer

I’m not too fond if the word “allowed” — it kind of makes me feel like a possession. I also think it’s okay for women to go too. I wouldn’t want to make it a regular thing though. I probably see more t&a on hbo 😆

NatashaJ · Answer

let your guy go just put a heart rate monitor on him and if it goes way too up wait til he comes home and cuss him off duh.

Mikayla3 · Answer

It’s a stupid pass time. I mean if I’m not good enough to look at then go to the stripe club... and be single!

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