Boyfriend cheated, I forgave & stayed and now I just feel angry all the time? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2019-06-22T16:00:29Z

this will hopefully not be too lengthy but i found out by the girl who he cheated on me with, i had her on instagram and somehow we started talking. i knew they fucked but i didn’t know the timeline of things (duh, ofc my boyfriend “forgot” when it happened) so then i asked her if she could just tell me when it was. she was super kind and gave me a phone call and told me the dates but wanted to make it sound in a way that they weren’t anything serious and they both were just trying to fuck. but then she gave the days when it happened — of course it was valentine’s day! and the next day i went to the hospital because of what i thought was a miscarriage. and the night before he just happened to be fucking another girl. she sent me pictures with him in it, and they had been talking for a month after that happened. me and him broke up in May 2018. they talked for a month in Feb. 2018. we broke up in May ‘18, but got back together in December ‘18. we’ve been together since then but i just found out he cheated on me last year. i keep having dreams about this and everyone around me is telling me to forgive him and stay with him because he’s a different person now and he loves me so much. but i feel the spark is gone now. i’ve been through so much shit w/ him I don't know what to feel

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The question is why are you still with him? I would have been gone a long time ago.

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You either work it out and move past it or you go your separate ways. You can't sustain the way you're living

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Anonymous
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You feel real stupid. Thats the emotion that you feel.

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Anonymous
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Get caught sucking some cock. Pay him back!

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  I like this one lmao
  
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How do you forgive someone like that

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were you guys living together when it happened?

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Leave now. Thank me later

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Once a cheater, always a cheater

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You're an idiot

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  even though it was a year ago?
  
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  Yup.
  
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You did right thing

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