If he invites you to your home he'd be open to having sex with you otherwise he would not do it. Doesn't automatically mean he'd need it to happen but it does mean he's open to it or even hoping for it happening. Doesn't have to mean being a hook either, obviously if you love someone you will want sex with them so why not do the date in a setting where its possible he'd have thought.
If a girl i like told me she'd rather do something else i'd respect that to and do something else instead. And i would not have done the date differently than if she had done the date in my house. And that is where your post starts conflicting with my own behavior causing me to think you assumed the worst here instead of him doing it on purpose. I am a guy who is really open, even if its not always going to depict me in a positive light. I don't try to win her over, i am me and want her to accept me for who i am. Sharing things she may not like is part of that test, its a risk. But if she doesn't react badly to me being me or sharing things i know will be controversial i know she's a keeper. So where you assumed he may have tried it to scare you away and turn you off on purpose, i see it as him daring to be open with you rather than trying to win you over.
So what is the point of setting a boundary? The point of having it not die before it begins. Its important for both of you to know where you stand and what you want. As long as that aligns you continue, once it does not that is where the journey ends.
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Most of the time yes. A guy wants to hook up if he invites you to his place. But not always. Sounds you really like him. You are trying hard to make it work?
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