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Ok somethings in life as human beings we need to understand.
1. No matter who ever is with you in life, you will be always alone you may have companions or crusaders with you as friends and family, yet everyone is for themselves.
2. if coming to concept of reality then what is real in true sense you work so hard earn money be the boss yet if you die tomorrow you will be replaced in matter of days world will not stop.
3. So as human beings we have been gifted some emotions in life that govern our whole life span and two most best things of that are our capability to love and hate and more weightage is always with love, everybody needs love yet we choose whom we share it with.
4. So be a person who can fuse his feelings with logical thinking then you will attract the right person.
5. Know that everything comes with a price or a value you have to give something in order to receive something else it's the way of life and karma.
6. Be a person of value and not of pride so it will be easy for you to see who else is as you.
7. But remember everyone will expect something or other from you and it can be in any form or anything and you would also expect it is how it is but choosing qualities in person you meet is your choice and you can use it.
Self esteem and confidence are the 2 most important things,, dont confuse "confidence" with being a plunt, rude, pig. Non2 girls are the same in feel like it could be the difference of approach like "your looks caught my eye from across the dance floor, I had to come say hi" vs :"damn you are a smokin hot piece of ass, want to get out of her and in my bed" technically both confident buuuut 1 of them is gonna piss off a lot more girls.
Looks do matter but I think they are like 4th on the list after confidence, self esteem, polite/charm.
I agree with you that there is nothing real in dating and that is also the reason why I do not date.
People never show their real personality or character in the first few dates, which are the most important ones because they are the ones where you make up your mind about that person.
No one is going to tell on the first or second date that they have a criminal record, that they are addicts or that they have a serious mental illness.
Personally, I don't care about looks. What interests me in a person are the 3 most important aspects of that person and those are the character, personality and intellect. If a person fails to give me a positive feeling on any of the 3 traits, I am not interested in that person. Not today, not tomorrow.
personally I value looks most to begin with just bc I obviously wanna find the guy im dating attractive. But other factors are probably more important in the long term, as they determine how compatible you are with someone. Like if someone's fit but dead boring I'm not gunna wanna be around them, whereas if someones alright looking but we get on really well and share common interests then I'm more inclined to keep them around.
dating is kinda bullshit tho, like I much prefer the idea of meeting someone naturally and gradually becoming a couple, but that seems hard to come by in this day and age.
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Swap the 70% with the 30% and that sounds more accurate to me. Your value is what you provide. That includes safety, comfort, a good time, a sense of direction, stability, peace of mind, etc. The list goes on, but most of these things come from being at least moderately successful
In the dating world, according to women, at least?
- 40% Confidence (super-high self-esteem and pride).
- 30% Size (Height of six feet and above, or muscles).
- 30% Social status (Career, wealth, popularity, possessions, degree, etc).
You need at least 70% to have a snowball's chance in hell with any given woman nowadays. Any less than that, and don't even bother trying. You won't succeed. Sad but true.
I believe a mans value is derived from his ability to lead and provide. Aesthetics play a factor, but women are more emotionally stimulated in regards to attraction for a large portion of their life in comparison to men. A man who exudes confidence, knowledge, possesses emotional maturity, can provide, and lead a room effortlessly will have more dating value than a man who’s only trait is looking good.
Expect rejections still even after if you have all 3. As far as online dating goes, if you swipe 100 women to LIKE, you'll match with 10 women. Then you write all 10 women and only 1-2 will keep responding to you. This is "normal". So don't feel bad if t happens. Ask a million women out until you get a permanent girlfriend and don't wait for anybody.
Depends on your age, there's a pretty big shift around 22-23, and probably a bit of a shift again in early 30s.
At sub 23, it's looks, charm, status/social capital.
Most women don't give a fuck about looks at the end of the day. I'm not the best looking dude but I've had some beautiful women In my life. Your personality is by far the most attractive thing you have in any gender. I've met models who are dumb as fucking rocks and not physically attractive girls who shine with beauty.
Girls will say otherwise to not sound like an asshole but this is the truth. if a dude is ugly, the girl won't care to find out what the "other things are". I mean, this could vary under the circumstances of two people being forced to sit with eachother for long amounts of time over and over again, like work or school. The other things come out naturally. But damn, if you're ugly, a girl won't even take the time to look past your appearance if you barely know eachother.
Here's how you measure your value as a man besides whatever talent or skill you may have. People really loves this in a person and man.
Integrity.
Honest.
Respectful.
Kind.
Courage.
Confidence.
Hard working.
You possess those traits and you will have great value as a man.
I mean, as a woman, what opens the door is if the guy is attractive, but I'm not going to walk through that door and go inside unless he's also fun, smart, willing to go out and try new things, is nice and has some level of ambition.
It's what you do... Dating in majority and what happens in it is not something you have to do... too... also troll post?
The U. S. Office of Management and Budget estimates a human life to be worth $7 million to $9 million.
No idea about you in particular though because I have no idea who you are xD
"Other things"? This option is so vague. Whatever value you put on yourself, that's your value. It's your choice.
A good personality, reasonable intelligence and a good sense of humour are more important than your looks or your job.
Watch this:
https://youtu.be/YP3rgOrtQkY
Women date for different reasons. Men date for different reasons. I date to have fun. The minute it stops being fun then I stop.
Noooo you're looks are 50% tops. If your personality is crap I'm not dating you no matter how good looking you are.
Who you are. The fire that you have. The personality you show.
they come to you because of looks they stay because of who u r as a man
What you look like just makes things easier/harder. It doesn't determine the results.
Men love women for who they are. Women love men for what they can provide.
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