When you are in a relationship, why do some guys think it’s ok for them to look like a slob when you visit their house by wearing sweat pants, messy look, etc.? (Page 3)
When you are in a relationship, why do some guys think it’s ok for them to look like a slob when you visit their house by wearing sweat pants, messy look, etc.?
Never been with a guy like that. All men have always made it a point to look their best.
Only one who dosnt care would be like my friends with benefits. We aren't trying to impress each other
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With your 'charming' attitude I highly doubt you equate more than friends with benefits / callgirl. So make do. You've likely been just called to the house for a fuck anyway so why should he care?
A guy has the right to relax too... Everyone keeps him on edge and makes him "work" -- his boss and company, his wife and his girl (whether its making the moolah or performing bed). Some guys at some times just feel the need to relax and take it easy. I can understand that.
Look at it this way that's the real deal that's who they are they are being open and honest with you if you lived with them and or married thats the way they would dress when they're just relaxing at home
Theyre just being comfortable. So long as he doesn't mind me taking off my wig and farming in front of him, I won't shame him for not shaving or burping.
Because when you're at home you're at fucking home! I'll look like a damn homeless person in my own house. If you ain't with it, get the fuck on then!! If so wanna lounge I will lounge.
God, it enlightens me to see that all the women who responded have sense in them! I'm seriously blown away by this question. I don't really give a fuck what anyone thinks of me. I will wear unmatching sweats, tshirts, different shoes and whatever I damn well please almost anywhere. If some random irrelevant person judges me, whatever! If they ain't buying my clothes or putting money in my bank account they can't eat a big bowl of shit with their judgement. Now, when it's time to dress up, it's game on. Chillen at my house, that's my space to do whatever the fuck I want.
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Never been with a guy like that. All men have always made it a point to look their best.
Only one who dosnt care would be like my friends with benefits. We aren't trying to impress each other
With your 'charming' attitude I highly doubt you equate more than friends with benefits / callgirl. So make do. You've likely been just called to the house for a fuck anyway so why should he care?
I really don’t care.
I’d be going to see them, not be critical of what they are wearing at home, in their comfort zone!
Bc in home it's comfy to wear less, thank god he is not naked 😱bc do people just be naked at home relaxed😂be thankful hear wears clothes at least 😉😂
Because we don’t give a fuck why you think and we don’t have to dress a certain way to please you,
if you love is you will accept us for us for who we are
Loljoke but I don’t know who your boyfriend is
It’s wrong to assume all guys are like that
I think only scruffy lazy ones do that
If i was into a girl is always make myself look hot
A guy has the right to relax too... Everyone keeps him on edge and makes him "work" -- his boss and company, his wife and his girl (whether its making the moolah or performing bed).
Some guys at some times just feel the need to relax and take it easy. I can understand that.
A lot of women tend to do the same. Feeling and getting comfortable is a normal part, and if I'm at my house then I want to feel comfortable.
Mainly because It's their house?
Or because are not a princess, boss or parole officer that they need to "dress up" for.
Because it's his house and he can dress however he wants to in his house. You're lucky he's wearing clothes at all
Oh dear... you're one of THOSE. Figure he'll dump your azz too.
Look at it this way that's the real deal that's who they are they are being open and honest with you if you lived with them and or married thats the way they would dress when they're just relaxing at home
It has been normalised in society. There is nothing attractive about it. It does not exude confidence as some guys think
as time passes on people become more comfortable around their partner. so they tend to not stress over things like appearance as much.
Theyre just being comfortable. So long as he doesn't mind me taking off my wig and farming in front of him, I won't shame him for not shaving or burping.
Because when you're at home you're at fucking home! I'll look like a damn homeless person in my own house. If you ain't with it, get the fuck on then!! If so wanna lounge I will lounge.
God, it enlightens me to see that all the women who responded have sense in them! I'm seriously blown away by this question. I don't really give a fuck what anyone thinks of me. I will wear unmatching sweats, tshirts, different shoes and whatever I damn well please almost anywhere. If some random irrelevant person judges me, whatever! If they ain't buying my clothes or putting money in my bank account they can't eat a big bowl of shit with their judgement. Now, when it's time to dress up, it's game on. Chillen at my house, that's my space to do whatever the fuck I want.
Because they think they can be comfortable around you mam.
Same reasons as women. Maybe up bringing, lack social awareness, or apathy
Because if we are dating and she comes over, i am not gonna dress up cause of what she wants, its my house my life, my rules
Sounds pretty vain. If you don't like it then find a man that cares about their appearance as much as you. Comes down to preferences.
Women do the same. Its because they are starting to feel comfortable