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It’s not intentional. Getting into a woman’s pants, or anything of the sort has never been at the top of my list of things to do. I have too much respect for women to act like the typical Hollywood portrayal of a guy. So as a result, I am quite oblivious to interests, flirting, and advances from women. I’m literally one of those people that you’re gonna have to do drastic things to get me to notice you’re interested.
Since I'm quite the shy person I usually wait, but I think that making a move is important when you REALLY like someone (and act accordingly, despite being shy)
I find this kinda interesting, because I'm gay and I don't really approach men. At least not in person. I'll send the first message on a dating site or whatever, but I think everyone likes it when someone they are interested approaches them first. It makes you feel desirable
i mean yeah love finds you but i also dont really got time for that maybe after 3 years i could do something or also just wait sure if someone is approaching me that i think has a good and worthy personallity im in for it but only restricted with some rules but those should only be for outside of the relationship so im between B and C but mostly C
If she is gorgeous and blows me away I will approach her but the only relationships that survived for a long period of time with me , were the girls that asked me out and I said yes lol if I asked a girl out and she says yes , it usually won’t last long , so if a girl asks you out and you like her keep her
I don't mind making a move but I'm not good a figuring out if it's the right time so i don't, hell i could have a girl kiss me and I'd still be like "does she like me or like like me?"
It is a girl's responsibility to make the first move. That doesn't mean they must ask only that they smile and say, "Hi" or do something to indicate that they are receptive to being approached. Men that approach women without her first giving some indication that she would be receptive to being approached are fools. Almost certainly they will be rejected and often very rudely rejected.
Voted C , neither , lost interest altogether , my former marriage has left it's mark... plus I am a single FT working dad , I have lost the inclination , plus single dads are not exactly first choice for women. The impression I get is that most women would rather men left them alone anyway.
I'm tired of approaching and getting rejected. It's time for girls to have a taste of their own medicine. It's not fair for guys to be the ones to majorly feel this awful pain.
Of course, if I like her, I'll happily accept her turbulent confession of feelings.
Thats a difficult question. Its normally that we approach women, but nowadays that is enough to "trigger" people. Hence nowadays its more relaxing if the women made the first move or at least gave a hint at being interested. If so then. Yeah.