Are YOU undateable? If so, why? (Page 2)

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For those of you that are single and can't seem to find anyone, what, if any, "flaws" do you have that make dating or relationships difficult for you?  I use the term flaw VERY loosely because what others might consider a flaw, may be reasonable to you or someone else.  We all have our flaws, but are they the reason you're still single? It is your appearance, standards, fear of rejection or being hurt again... or something else- Yes, I'm undateable. But I want to hear what y'all have to say first :)

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

I’m dateable if I tried. But I don’t want to try. I like being single and free.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I'm "undateable" simply because I'm already taken & married.

WesBrewer · Answer

Nope, I'm not undateable, at the moment I have chosen to be single.

ak3096 · Answer

I become nervous, I usually forget what should I do next😂. I have very low pitch voice that result in sometime people taking me as a boring guy.

MrStitch · Answer

I don’t believe anyone is undateable, as long as you set realistic goals in dating.

link1980 · Answer

I suck at texting, and not the greatest at conversation. I enjoy just sitting back and enjoying the silence together.

Anonymous · Answer

Sometimes I feel like I am because I haven’t had a girlfriend in years since being divorced so maybe that’s one and not being 6 foot plus even though I’m still above average height, maybe I don’t make enough money, who knows, but it’s not easy meeting anyone either

Kuressento · Answer

My view on the world, life, etc., is different from most, making it very difficult to find someone with similar ideas. Though I have been with many people in the past, though most of the encounters been just fun and not anything serious.

Celtero · Answer

Yep. Too disinterested in taking care of my appearance. Often insecure, and I don't like playing the role that women seem to be into. A not so low-key misogynist. At my core I'm a loner and being around others drains me too much.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm guessing I must be ugly as hell because nobody ever gets to know anything about me for it to be anything else lol

Vviiccttoorr · Answer

No one is undateable, some just need some more help with it I would say. If it’s your desire to be with somebody then there is definitely somebody out there for you

EvelynnTheFae · Answer

Tall and insecure seem to be what I'm called out for😅

Unit1 · Answer

I don't think so. There are no willing candidates in my proximity.

Twinrova · Answer

Yes. Why? I was born with an IQ below 0. Now, you're thinking to yourself "but that isn't possible. IQ cannot fall below 0. Having negative intelligence is not plausible." Not for me, because I voted for Joe Biden.

es20490446e · Answer

I needed to be less dateable, so I'm more available to the good candidates.

WowwGirl · Answer

If I was it's would be I'm high maintenance and spoiled. Only child

Shark_61695 · Answer

Looks, personality, depression, opportunity, location.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

If she's really into a romantic relationship then i'm not the person for her. I'm aromantic. Im more of a BFF with benifit type person till the end.

Deku2009 · Answer

I think I am , I have very few success in the dating department. It’s just hard to tell if a girl likes me or not.

Clarke498 · Answer

1. Unattractive. Need to lose some weight. 2. Anti social as fuck. Even if i did get in shape, no woman would find me.

Tonita91996 · Answer

It isn't me it is there are so many toxic people on the world who dont want to commit to anybody.

bannacookies · Answer

I'm not. I go on dates but I'm not serious about it. Just for fun.

codyccc · Answer

For 93% of the world yes as being religious in anyway is a non starter

Anonymous · Answer

I used to think I was undateable because I’d be hopeless with girls on tinder, every girl would either reject me or ghost me before a first date would even happen. But now I have a girlfriend my confidence has boosted massively

Anonymous · Answer

I am an insecure little bitch. People can sense that.

wankiam · Answer

i wouldn't say im undateable but it takes a special lady to want to be with a chronic masturbater and porn addict

Soporific-san · Answer

Not attractive (clean up facial and such) I look like a lazy bastard. I also have a shit personality and living style.

sp33d · Answer

It's a bit pandemicy out there, lots of covid on the forecast, so I'm keeping my distance. Otherwise, not undateable, been on many dates. Am I commitment material, though, that would be a more appropriate question in my case..

zagor · Answer

Probably. I never meet anyone anymore (even before covid, though absolute now) and when I do I'm too apathetic to approach. I tend to go for girls too young for me and that probably doesn't help either.

twotone54 · Answer

I'm scared don't know how to approach women sence my wife died 3years ago

ShootShootBangBang · Answer

I have 3 ladies who want to date me now. I have an awesome girlfriend though. Nicest girl I’ve met.

Camel22 · Answer

Yes. But I have a girlfriend. lol. She just puts up with a lot

ecfresh · Answer

I’m undateable to most because of my obesity.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Yes, I'm undateable I'm too short I'm out of shape I've got autism I've got problems with my heart, my joints and my back  I don't make much money  Think that covers it

chris_987 · Answer

Girls have only ever ask for me to join there onlyfans or the Snapchat premium account, so if that the only time women talk to men then dating will be eventually a thing of the past

LukeMerchant · Answer

No, I'm not. I only have some minimal standards I don't wanna go under.

chapawapa · Answer

Yea, because I want to be... Why... Because life is better with family and friends. Don't need a love interest.. Happiest alone in that department

I-have-a-biscuit · Answer

When I was single I didn't care much. Not many caught my interest and those who did refused me until I found my current girlfriend

pervertedjester · Answer

Admit my flaws before you... Nice Try NSA!  (Almost had me)

Petra150 · Answer

I used to think so , until I met my hubby, I though I were a fuck theme, but never a dating theme

93_n_on · Answer

Nah i feel I'm a catch tbh. Im single and I've faced a lot of sabotage, inference, slander and hate. Im a solid guy

humanearth · Answer

I am undateable because i am married and in the US its agaist the law to have more then one wife.

llorando · Answer

Pretty much a lot of modern women aren't worth dating, so I don't date hence me being undateable.

SenseiSeptred · Answer

I am not the most relatable person around even as a 6 foot 2 guy here in America, I nerd-rage and everything.

Newhead · Answer

I am perfect, waiting on someone to notice that.

LemiaOfThunder · Answer

Most girls say I am broke because of my disabilties.

John_Doesnt · Answer

Yes, I'm undateable because my penis is too huge. Women are scared of it.

Guanfei · Answer

Ugly, stupid, too romantic, too naive, and poor I guess.

Alyssa11 · Answer

I’m scared of being hurt lol...

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

I think I’d be too “serious” for anyone to be completely comfortable. I might always seem angry to them too. Skin bag, suit. Dust.

heytakeiteasy · Answer

Most guys won't date me because I remain celibate til marriage.

loveslongnails · Answer

Can't imagine being un-date-able. Never happened to me.

Anonymous · Answer

🤔🤔🤔... I'm a socially awkward person, I'm inexperience in socializing with the opposite sex and... To be honest, I don't really know how to flirt. I easily get nervous sometimes and I don't know how to react when someone was flirting with me.

Anonymous · Answer

No im not. And im just unattractive but oh well that's life

CubsterShura · Answer

My impostor syndrome tells me that I am.

Anonymous · Answer

I feel I am. I'm short (5'6), skinny, acne scars all over my face, ugly curly hair, not much money, and with a less than average d***. I feel like no woman could overlook this :'(

shacky12 · Answer

I think I am unfatable because I only seem to attract women who don't work and want to use me for money

BlackdaddyD · Answer

Dating for me is no issue, I will say though that I am fairly picky and very open minded about different types of relationships.

Anonymous · Answer

I’m short and I have to deal with the fact that I’ve been broken so many times I don't know how to put all the pieces back together

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