I still do it. Tbh I don't know any other way.How do the guys date girls? They have to ask them out smh.I recently did this with a 22yo. I said to her that I don't see her often and how long she will stay. Following I asked her out to get her know better. After a short break she declined the offer with the reason that she is already in a relationship.I said ok it was still worth the try. After that I joked a bit with her around and went my way.Side question: is there the possibility that she wanted me to "hunt" her more with her answer?
Very descriptive and clear answer, and yea, makes all perfect sense to me.
"You are the prize." Lol, thanks for the laugh. You made my day.
Hahaha I’m glad 🙂
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bahahahahahaha that cartoon lol
You know it's true.
LOL something like that.
How drunk or high WERE you? LOL
I used a lot of these on my Instagram stories so... they seem to be all the rage! lol Not that drunk lol
Wow that is really sad 😥 that if you saw that one beautiful woman on the street and you just knew you were meant to be you would just have to let her walk on by.
@DarkDreamYes, that would be sad, but that is the reality that possibly the majority of Western face every day.I have lost count of the hostile responses that I have received when I approached women. That was here in Australia, though. The women here made being an unapproachable bitch an art form decades ago.When the Australian Army sent me to the USA during the 1980s I did very well with the women there.In Britain, a man can be sent to prison for years and placed on the sex offenders registry for life, for simply approaching a woman.When a normal approach to a woman can result in a career or education ending complaint, possible criminal prosecution and prison time, a sexual harassment allegation, being the target of a #MeToo allegation and more, not many men are going to approach.Women, as a collective, have made themselves too dangerous for interaction with them to be a rational act.
Thats just crazy they just want to make themselves untouchable what a pride complex those women have.
@DarkDreamYes, it is insane.I wish that it was not so.I am so empty inside and lonely.Women approach me often while I am working, but I pretend to not notice their interest, because I have no way to know whether she is genuine, or setting me up for a sexual harassment complaint. It happens. Some women make destroying the lives of men a psychotic sport.During my time as a journalist I saw “good morning” used as the basis for a sexual-harassment complaint to HR.When I attend church (when my work permits) a gaggle of 40+ unattached women make themselves known, but (aside from none of them having any physical appeal) it is another case of being wary because I do not know their true intentions. I have seen men banned from the church after unproven allegations were made.On rare occasions I will approach a female, if I have interacted with her enough to believe that, on the balance of probability, she might not be a psychotic Feminist.The last one rejected me for no specified reason. She gave me a death stare and has hardly spoken to me since that day.The previous female said no, then slipped into a near catatonic state.A month later, I saw her with a new man, whose knuckles left drag marks on the floor.My batting average with Australian women has not improved since I was a young man.
I am very sorry please don't hate me for the laughter here drag marks left by his knuckle's hahaha. I am rolling on the floor laughing how can a women give up a great man for that I don't get it. Do they not like security any more do they hate romance? Do they not like inilectual conversation. I gues hey u girl get in my car and buy me a burger works for people now. Then there is the whole you have to be a supermodel or the perfect sex symbol to get anywhere also. No one in this place is perfect if we were we wouldn't be who we are. Those women need to get off thier high horses and step into the real world.
I'm sorry you are lonely no one deserves to be treated that way. This world is already way too harsh without lousy people messing it up further. I often wonder where the romanticism of life went when you could actually get asked out on a date. Enjoy yourself. Smile laugh. Feel young again too many day spent dreaming right.
@DarkDreamThankyou for your kind words.It disappoints me that we are on opposite sides of the planet, because I like what you have revealed about yourself.
True too bad I was looking for a great pen pal to get to know anyway
Basically u can't do anything to a. girl these days, not even look. at one or else it's a. form. of "harassment"So empowering these feminists, aren't they?What a great bunch of freedom they have brought woman.. the ability to. not be asked out by a man or else. he will go to jailGreat times we live in huh
Have you gone to jail or know anyone who has gone to jail? LOL
I have known both.
Run fast they will chase you
Ha ha ha
20 30 years ago car manuals would tell us how to fix things... now the manuals tell us not to drink the battery acid. So who knows lol
Why would I want to date the current crop of women, when by all accounts I’m liable to be rejected/shot down, there’s a possibility of being falsely accused, when I’m not seen as a person but as a utility, when all they are looking for is attention, they are not feminine any more, deep down they hate men, that sounds worse to me than it was 20 years ago!
They do? Where are you getting this info? LOL
It seems like most girls on here said yes didn't they?
yes I am talking about the fact that you said they will still usually say no? Why do you think that?
Because actually agreeing to grab a drink or whatever implies too much. Once she says yes to do something small, she's also saying yes to sex. She knows if she sees him one-on-one he's going to make the next move. And then she can't really say no after a first date because she will feel like a bitch. They're invested now. He has her number and think it's a budding relationship. Backing out after a first date creates stalker situations. It's all psychological. I could write many articles about this stuff
LOL okay man.. thanks for the comments.
lol what I'm saying is unless the guy is an idiot, if you can get one date with her, you should be able to hook up with her
India. Dating is very complicated here.
I'm from India too and I must say, it's not in cities.
Yeah it is, even in Mumbai. I grew up watching Hollywood movies & American TV shows. So it's not THAT easy. Here people start from friendship, give mixed signals & everyone is confused wheather someone is interested or just being a good friend. There's no holding hands/hugging/kissing to know that they want us to be more than a friend. It either ends up with getting in a relationship or breaking the friendship.
Wow, I thought that tinder and other apps rocks there 😲
Anyway many guys are afraid of rejection, or being called a brother
I don't think many people use Tinder here. Some of my friends tried it, but they say they feel comfortable with talking to people they know & meet everyday. 😅 With strangers, it's like starting from zero.
Hey, Do you think guys would like to date their female friends? 😅
Definitely definitely definitely. 😃You should know that almost all male friends of a woman are actually into her.
I had a doubt about my guy friend. 😅 He was acting weird than other guy friends. After college our group broke up, but he stayed with me. Since then we're best friends. Before pandemic, we used to go for lunch 2-3 times a week. He tells me almost everything happens during the day. He said that he can't answer my call when he's home with his parents & when they ask who's he talking to for 1-2 hours, he says that I'm a "classmate". 🤷🏻♀️
I don't know what you mean by weird, but is he generally shy? And yeah he might have a thing for you, especially if you are what your username claims 😃
Yeah he's kind of shy & also expert of sending double meaning texts. It confuses me a lot. I don't wanna scare him off. 😅Well, I believe that everyone is perfect when they meet the right person. 😊
You won't scare him off, but you will definitely make a shy guy nervous.
If you like him, go ahead, give him some signs, I'm no relationship expert, but I'll definitely help, if you want to know anything about guys
Thank you for asking! I do need some help. It's a pretty long story. I've been posting questions about it, but many people don't read the entire story & their opinions are based on western culture. I'd like to hear an Indian guy's opinion. 😅
I'm trying to show interest in the language he can understand; without freaking him out. But I'm confused by his mixed signals. 🤷🏻♀️
What signals are you giving him?
# I Smile/laugh at everything he says, hold eye contact, touch his arm/shoulder. Once his family was out & he invited our group, I cooked butter chicken for him. I made a cake on his birthday. I think cooking was a clear sign.# I was the only girl in our group. So when the group broke up, we were still nervous & couldn't talk openly unless 3rd person is involved in the conversation. I told him that he don't have to force it just because I don't have any friends, but he stayed.# Before pandemic, only two of us to go to McDonald's 2-3 times a week & he used to drive for 30-40 minutes to come to my city.# I ask him about his day, his family & he tells me everything, even I tell him everything. # Whenever I ask him for help, he's always there. If he's struggling with something, he doesn't let me know or he tells me when it's over. When I get a hint about it, I let him know that I'm always here if he need some help.# Once I asked him if he wants go for a movie & he chose a horror movie! He knows that I don't like horror movies, I have nightmares. During the movie, he was laughing at my scared expressions. # I don't play "hard to get" like other girls do. I naver had any friends since childhood & he knows that he's the only friend I have. So there are no other guys. # I've never done all this stuff for my other guy friends, I didn't even talked to them since the group broke up 2 years ago. I made plans for only two of us.
I'm going anonymous. 😅 I don't know he's on GAG or not, but he knows my username.
I must say that these are very clear signs, but sometimes friends do these too. I'm sure he must be having a battle inside his head: "she likes me, she likes me not, she likes me, she likes me not" 😅 . It's a very tough position
Some movies have fucked up these signs
I don't think he needs your username, if that's your pet in your profile picture, he'll understand who you are
You can pm me if you want, I won't be creepy 😅
Well, that was just my part of the story. I got a big list about his part. 😅 I was going to ask about DM, I thought it'd be weird. 😂I don't want him to find out how I feel on GAG. 😅
Yes, I can understand your nervousness 😅
This is too funny
This is not always true but you could be looking a petty women also...
And it won't change unless more men call out this bullshit. I've called out this nonsense many times on GAG, but I am just one man. I personally believe that most men who still follow these 'rules' are either simps who crave female validation or they lust don't know any better. If we keep calling this BS out maybe one day many of these men will have a 'eureka' moment and realise that they don't have to follow these 'rules.'
Sex on the first date?
For me sex is supposed to be an intimate experience. You don’t know enough about the person on the first date so to me that’s a no.