I'd like to say yes, but unfortunately, I cannot relate due to guys not asking me out.
However, I would hope so.
Think about it: being asked out typically implies the guy is interested in you right? Or wants to see if there's any connection there. I'd be flattered knowing someone thinks I'm attractive and nice enough to ask out!
The feeling isn't mutual or you don't like him? Fine. Just politely tell him the truth. The fact of the matter is, it's nice being wanted or considered attractive; I think most people secretly want to feel that to a degree: men and women.
The only circumstances where I wouldn't l like it is if: he's asking me out because he feels obligated to, or someone dared him to. He's only after sex and nothing more. He's already in a relationship or seeing someone... the latter should be a given but, I know better than to make assumptions on the internet.
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DEFINITELY! I think how you allow yourself to be treated says a lot about you and ultimately what you’d allow in a relationship. If I’m in a talking stage with a guy, I’d expect to be asked out on multiple dates prior to getting in a relationship. If he disapproves, then I disapprove of him. Obviously, I’d also ask him on dates, however, I like the guy to ask first. Not to mention, if being with you is a challenge, a guy is more likely to be interested as he has to work to get you. You are the prize. It reminds me of the old fashioned courting period. I can tell whether a guy is worthy by how much effort in puts in, and for how long. Plus, dates generally are great fun!
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Women alike both like to be asked out. The only difference is there are some women that get an attitude about men that routinely ask them out that they feel are beneath them. Theirs no way of sugar coating this. Those women are straight up b****es and give all women a bad name. Whether you're a man or woman. When you ask somebody out you're puting yourself out there and should never be treated harshly for it. Rejection never feels good. But there's still a right and a wrong way to reject someone.
As much as women hate to admit it. They like being chased. Not harrassed. But chased. They want the man or, the person interested to ask them out. I have met a lot of girls who asked out the guy's the started dating. And a few months later. The relationship ended really badly. Because he never chased her. And she always took the lead. It all comes from our natural animal instincts. In every animal kingdom. The male makes a effort to chase the female. And if they have to chase. They get bored fast. It's science. Lol
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The times I ask them out they seem happy.
But I have to admit that the times I asked them out of my initiative can be counted on the fingers of an hand and they often have to drag me kicking and screaming to dates!- u
Let me rephrase the question: Is there even a single woman on this planet who does not want to know that she can get the attention of a man without even trying?
Yes. For attention and validation. They dont actually want to date you
Sure! When did this become a non-thing? At best they'll say yea, at worst they'll say no. You got a 50-50 chance all the time. Don't take "no" personally. But do your research.
If she never laughs at anything you say that you KNOW is funny, she ain't your type. You have to be able to amuse a woman. See if you have anything in common. Read the VIBES... If there ain't any..., don't ask.
Have a conversation before you do ANYTHING. If it falls flat, you know the drill.
And remember, a coffee date is the safest, least expensive, best investment of your dating life.
Go Dutch, everyone pays for themselves, unless you're having such a marvelous time, the next date is in the bag and you're feeling generous.
If it's nothing doing, you gave it the old college try, thought it out and worked it out to the best of your knowledge and knowledge is power. You'll do better next time around.
And sometimes they'll ask YOU!Unfortunately this day and age women are use to every creep, and weirdo hitting on them. So naturally they translate everything a random guy says into. “ how bout some dick?” Nice weather we are having today. “ how bout some dick?” What breed of dog is that? “ how bout some dick.” Do you know if this tomato is better on hamburgers or this one? “ how bout some dick?” Ok ok ok the last one might work because she’ll know you can cook. I’d even throw in there. “ mmmm that’s right baby I cook. And when I get home I’m gonna be soooo naughty and do the dishes and vacuum. And afterwards I’m gonna text you.” she's still gonna translate that into “ how bout some dick.” But at least she knows you cook and clean. She’ll probably chase you down in the parking lot and propose to you.
TOTALLY. though its not happening, cuz cafes are closed #pandemictimes
*big sad* T___T
I like it when we are in a quality environment, spending quality time. I aim to have as many quality experiences in my life as i can. Celebrate life every day, because its such a gift that we get to be here. Dressing up, feeling your best, next to wonderful company... why would anyone say no to that?
If there's enough compatibility to have an engaged conversation, than its a yes without doubtOnly if it's a guy I've been talking to for a while, I don't want someone approaching me out of the blue asking for a date unless we've been flirting for a while before the question. That way i don't have to reject anyone cause you can definitely tell when I'm flirting back. 😋
Only if he's good looking or rich or both.
Yes they do, however how you ask and the way you ask has slightly changed.
I've asked girls on dates and had same from them.
I prefer doing it in person, however sometimes it’s via social media, or you can be chatting at 2am and suddenly find yourself asking them out lolWhy do a 50 years old man care about dating? Go care about your kids or even grandkids (-sarcasm). But seriously it is so weird seeing old men talking about dating when men your age have grandkids in my culture. By the way when you were in your 20s women were different. So every generation is different. Women who could be your kids ain't traditional anymore and do not care whether they get asked out or not but women your age maybe still traditional and like to get asked out. I personally would not mind getting asked out but do not except from men to do the first step and i also can ask men out.
As a guy I have found that there are barely any real life situations where asking a woman out is possible. If I am in a place of work I feel like most women are focussed on their work so wouldn't like to be disturbed. The same goes for when i'm out shopping, at a bar etc. I tend to get the vibe that women don't want to be approached.
But then maybe its me that's the problem. I'm certainly no George Clooney.Based on the hostile reactions that I have borh seen and experienced, as well as an anti-catcalling law in Britain that made it a hate crime to approach a female, I would say that women were divided on the subject.
The safest course of action for a man is to not approach.
Women, as a collective, have made themselves so toxic that interaction with them is not a rational act.Of course they do. Even though we live in an Egalitarian society women have become extremely lazy and apathetic when it comes to dating. I see through women's BS. Many women will claim (in the 21st century no less) that they have "Traditional values," to absolve themselves of responsibility or putting any real effort in finding a partner. Women who want men to chase them are lazy and gutless. End of story.
Coach, my man !! You must have been tired and bored when you posted that! LOL
Of COURSE they do !!!No I don't think they do, I think they call it catcalling or sexual harassment or something
Yeah absolutely, its nice to know that someone finds me nice or attractive. Makes my day.
It never really happened to me but in middle school mostly guys would ask some of my friends out as a dare or as joke. To me thats one reason why I wouldn't want to be asked out because it basically means that the person doesn't respect you or care.Only if the guy asking them out appeals to them or interests them, otherwise no. You are just a creep.
Why wouldn't they? Guess your girls are the hunters 🙂
They like to be asked by men they find attractive. If a man whom they don't find attractive asks her out, he is branded as "creepy", than she will angrily post and tell her friends "can you believe HE asked me out, OMG he is so creepy"!!
Yes I do so if anyone wants to take me out hi (joking lol)
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