Do women realize that men have standards in the dating market too? Did you know if you dont meet them they just ask for friends with benefits? (Page 2)
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I'd a guy ike me. If doesn't like my standard about what Ihe only want friends with benefits then I will just move on and find someone who would prefer a long term relationship. I am not interested anything to do sex. The important part finding a guy that will put I. Work and be there self for once.
High value men have standards. most not so much...
too many simps who are not really desired by women.
Women on the other hand must be submissive and feminine otherwise, high value men are gonna just play with them.
it is what it is.
From the guy who calls himself alpha4u👍🏻
@OliviaOfTheScots It is what it is...
This is something that I’ve always been aware of ever since I was a little girl. You pick and choose how you want the guy to see you tbh.
Yeah most people have boxes to check when it comes to dating, and if you don't meet enough of them there's no relationship to pursue. No shit lol. This isn't a new concept my guy.
Are you sure about that? Wait for my next question. The responses will shock you. Women have no idea what matters to a man. No clue. They are so introspectively selfish and taught the man should please them... they dont even know how to keep a man. A lot of single mamas out there.
No idea is a stretch, a lot of you talk about what you want and only what you want all the time. And that's even more evident in the bedroom, lol most men can't even get a woman off. The only time you types are interested is when a woman is willing to bend over backwards to be your mother. Women now are starting to say no to it, and you don't like it. Now of course there are women who pass up good men and complain that there aren't any, but don't act like you are any better. I've seen your content, and I have to say you don't sound like a desirable person. You take the time to write these one sided posts that everyone knows is just you complaining because you can't have your way, and your not at all willing to look at what is wrong with yourself before you judge others. This "lady's man" masquerade is laughable, and it's funny you mention how women are selfish and only want men to serve them when that was something women where forced to do for men until fairly recently historically. Now that you are receiving the same expectations in return you feel attacked. If you don't like modern women, date men. Let's see how far you get;)
Did you know? Lots of women have standards and if you don't meet them they just ask for friends with benefits? Even worse, fuck buddy if you're coming from the streets... I hope you get how ridiculous is your statement. Plain stupid and has no logical basis, perhaps try cultivating your spirit and stop feeding people publicly with misleading and wrong input.
his statement is entirely logical; you are the one spewing your vaginal emotions over the conversation because you're offended. put your emotions away
women do not ask for fuck buddies if you don't meet their standards. they just leave. its like you know nothing about women
@007kingifrit you are funny trying to make a distinction between men and women... truly hilarious thank you! I am a woman and had in the past friends with benefits and sex buddies, and wow, nothing emotional about it just having sex and it had nothing to do with standards but my lifestyle that period and the priorities I had focusing on my career. You must be really old fashioned to think like this but I don't blame you. You do feel threatened by women owing it, so I'll let you believe whatever crap works for you about standards and exploring your sexuality with a trusted person. Still friends with these guys and it only ended when I started dating my boyfriend, just happened to be the right time.
making a distinction between men and women is... funny? you think they are the same?
@007kingifrit not in many aspects but in dating having standards or not it's a personal thing nothing to with gender. Since when if you enjoy someone's company, think they are good mate or partner and if you don't makes it a point of distinction? Women leave, men categorize u marriage material or hook up, I don't buy this superficial bullshit. There's complexities in both men and women and it's up to the person to deal with them but you can't project it into others and try to make a point out of it
Everyone has standards.
Although there are many out there who are only interested in what they can get and they do not care if they actually ruin others.
Do not set standards to high because you might never get what or who you want or need. I know from my own personal experiences.
I get it, we are not marriage material, but what made you think that YOU are marriage material? Spending your life on GAG whining about how girls aren't good enough nowadays? As if girls are lined up for you out there LMAO
For some men they really are lined up. Probably why some men are so confident about their standards. 😂
@bamesjond0069 I'm talking about OP, otherwise there are girls for whom men are lined up as well. Although on this misogynistic site male users are always pressed when they find out girls have certain standards, being tall per say.
In my experience there are essentially no women who men are lined up for. Any woman worth marrying is going to be married asap. Women who wait and wait and wait and next man after man are not marriage material. They are just hot. Which means the line of men is for sex, not marriage.
A man looking for a woman who is marriage material... hmmm. that sounds like a man whos marriage material.
Good point.
Of course, men have standards too. Ridiculous to think otherwise.
Read the comments. A lot of triggered ridiculous women.
There triggered because they really do believe no women should be criticized ever, if flip the gender and a women asked this question, every girls would agree and say men are low quality
Have you ever posted anything about your own mother? is there a link to that post, that of couser,, if you have posted about her?
Yes. But why are you obsessed with my mother? Thats creepy dude
I only asked one time, all other 9,999 thousands are imagined by you... so, do you have a link for it? I am genuinely interested on reading that.
Why do none of those kids have shoes in that first pic? That seems kinda weird.
Im confused, the question was asking if men have standards (yep) but the answers are about why women in their 30s are single? (Millions of reasons)
My standards are kind of high because I only want relationships which could lead up to marriage and children. Modern women often fail at the basic stuff but there are some really good women out there I don't want to miss out on.
Use you’re real picture not some random black guy smiling lol. I did A project and remember me and my friends looking at that picture and he’s a model.
your*
He's allowed to use it 🤣
I know I’m not being racist It’s just funny
I don't care if your racist or not. It's okay 🙏🏻
You're**
You should if I was & it’s just an app i corrected myself earlier
I would treat the same 🙏🏻
I know. I corrected my own mistake 😅🤣
Do you know how many spammers are online? People who hack into accounts? So no I am not going to use my real photo. BUt in real life I do kind of look like him. THat's why I chose him. I am an athletic looking black man. just with glasses.
Cool.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@7771999 i look exactly like the dude in the pictures. Just read my mytake about goingbfrom a best friend to a ladies man. But can we make fun of a chic called "anonymous " and zero picture demanding that i use my real picture? Can we make fun of her?
women don't eye signal to men above them as they know the will get dirty looks. The game has a cast system
Don't listen to this jack off, girls
He has no idea what he's talking about
So you don't have standards. Got it.
Yeah
I chose option B since a lot of girls are way too slutty. They think they can get everything and everyone by acting like an hoe and dressing like one. But yes the sad thing is a lot of guys fall for this too.
If you are asking for friends with benefits , u actuqlly have no standards! LOL
Some of my standards are, honestly, trust and respect. And attraction ofc. But thats about it.
Don't you know that as a man you're not supposed to have standards. Instead you're supposed to be grateful for any woman who is willing to spread their legs for you lol.
Seriously though, I wrote that I basically want a grown up adult woman for a partner and I got two pink downvotes. And after reading many of the pink comments, it is clear that many women begrudge men having standards because they know that they don't measure up to said standards.
Yes of course and it works both way. Women think we are such pigs sometimes that just cause we see a nice body that we will want to be in a relationship with them. Like that is our only standard.
Just gonna leave this here
https://www.youtube.com/embed/GYJjGpUwhrU