Is this really true for how love works for us nice guys? (Page 2)
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Everyone who fancys someone who fancys someone else looks for reasons why, typically being "I'm nicer than him therefore she doesn't like nice guys" or something similar
Honestly, I'm not dtf, told my friends I'd have been happy to jut go on a picnic, get soem dating experience, somd female companionship dosnt got to be sex, but thing is not chasing it just seems to make it harder,
Not the case. Girls are attracted to confidence. There are many nice guys that girls love, who are charming and good looking and smart. The "nice guy" you're talking about here are the guys with no confidence, where you can smell their neediness.
I think this should be MHO, because it is most helpful. Although, allow me to rephrase the point for guys to understand. Nice guys tend to be less confident than jerks because nice guys are considerate of others. Girls are into assertive personalities even when they're jerks. That's how it is.
And just for the record, I am nice and inconfident myself though still working on it.
Neediness and that's why they are pretending to be nice. They're here to exploit you especially if you're an empathetic woman. They usually have a lot of shady secrets.
Read "no more mr nice guy" - mindset problem is solved
Jerks typically date jerks, avoid women who like jerks, as there is a near certainty that, they too are jerks.
Self proclaimed nice guys, are not usually nice guys. I'll leave it at that.
Being a nice guy to right girl is good, but most girls aren’t the right ones.
Yes but it kind of depends, I would say maybe for the "beginner's" love, later it changes as women really know better
Yes, this is what women want.
it can happen
have you ever heard of pick up artist?
they are men who learned the art of physiological manipulation to seduce women , their best target are usually women with low esteem
Well, “real” variables are rare, so it almost HAS to be this way.
No that's not true only bad girls would be attracted to jerks
Wrong. I have seen high quality women marry jackasses plenty of times, than complain that he is a jackass.
-He was a jackass when you met him.
-He was a jackass when you started dating/fucking him.
-He was a jackass when you agreed to marry him.
-He was a jackass when you started having kids with him.
Than one day she wakes up and says "my husband is a jackass"! No shit lady. #NoSpathy.
Not if you find grown up women rather than chasing girls
Or maybe it's my confidence or just my ability to not give a fuck or even the streak of me that can be an utter bastard at times
Sometimes it seems like that but I think that things even out once you become an adult.
Nice guys are almost always boring and ugly. "Jerks" have hobbies, look good, and know how to be interesting.
No friend.
What you described in that image is only infactuation not love.
For ages 18-32ish yes but after age 32 the nice guys check out of the market and just enjoy other things in life
Yes, once she knows she has power over you, you lose 50% or more of your attractiveness.
You need, to check definition of nice guy and compare it to your understanding first.
It has nothing in it for Simps...
I'm so tired of seeing this girls hate nice guys and only want jerks. Not fucking true! We just want a guy thats interesting, not so needy and doesn't look like hangman
So jerks
Anon. You are "so tired of it" that you posted anonymously.
@KrakenAttackin where is the correlation between me posting anonymously and saying that I am "so tired of it"? please explain.
You know your overall position is bullshit so you post anon.
@KrakenAttackin LMAO oops you caught me!!