That definitely hurt the cause. I dated a chick for a second and ran as fast as I could from her crazy ass. Fortunately she took the hint, I’d rather be alone than with her. Never trust a government worker!
🤣🤣 please don't... Hated the fact it was a federal agency, but needed the flexibility it afforded me to be able to set my own schedule, and still take care of my hubby. There were times I worked from my vehicle in the parking structure of the hospital when he was in the ICU
Oh man, I wasn't intending to dredge up memories of your tough times, I was just kidding around, which is 90% of the time. It doesn't come across in text, I understand. And of course, if the government has a good job for me, I will take it. I am not anti-government... Well, the current one yes, but I digress.
@Brainsbeforebeauty Perhaps not first date. 🤣 I cannot think of anything else that would have an effect on me, though. I have been hurt so often, for so long, that in my dealings with women I border on the psychopathic now, in terms of being unable to allow myself to feel anything. My mate selection is done on logic (channelling my inner Vulcan). Attachment, if it happens, comes much later. There is currently one female on the planet in whom I have an interest, but she does not want to know. That is the story of my life.
@Brainsbeforebeauty I do not know why she is not interested. We have known each other for 36 years, during which time we have done the wild thing more than once. I suspect that there is another man who is servicing her currently. I have to say that it hurts, because I have a genuine and deep affection for her. This happens every time that I allow myself to feel anything for a female. We had a conversation about my desire for her. She told me that she was not interested in a relationship, although friends with benefits was a possibility. That has not happened and she continues to find reasons to not get together. I have stopped trying. The message has been understood.
@Brainsbeforebeauty Based on a lifetime of rejection and occasional heartbreak, I have formed the view that the universe has decreed that I do not deserve anyone. I am not meant to know that form of happiness, apparently. Plenty of women come sniffing around, but, for a variety of reasons, none of them interest me. When I do security a weddings, it is almost comical to watch how the single/divorced/widowed women on the wrong side of 40 acquire me on their radar.
@Brainsbeforebeauty No handcuffs for private security in Australia, which is typical libtard government insanity, because it means that the only way left for us to deal with a violent threat is to kill them, or break an arm and/or leg. Anyway, no handcuffs, but at home I can offer leather cuffs, steel shackles and many other... toys. 😈
@Brainsbeforebeauty After 50 Shades of Grey became the top selling work of fiction in the history of the world, nobody should be surprised that a lot of women get off on being... restrained.
Why tho? Cuz I don't engage in casual sex. Not going to say never did, but it's not what/who I really am... I'm the one guy/one gal committed/monogomous relationship. And even the casual sex was with the same person on and off for 3+years... Naughty and whore aren't the same thing... These youngins don't get that🤣
Aww see I don't pm on here. Had too many issues with it in the past, why my settings are set the way they are... Cuz of had prior stalk/harass, create fake accounts, underage or "pretend" underage users and when reported, those accounts deactivated right away, so now stick to public threads
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hmmmmm
I guess I’m dead or feelingless.
I can’t think of anything.
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Do something that I'm not expecting.
Such as? Or just anything?
A good just anything. Especially, if he shows his gentleman qualities and kindness towards others.
👍👍🙂
If they had a killer smile like yours.
Thank you🙂
Take hold of my hand while we were walking.
Yeah that's nice
Bring there sister... I mean that's a joke! Honestly lol
Do you honestly though
Show up for a change!
Ouch. Had a lot of no show dates?
No, haven’t had a lot of dates lately.
Well there was a lockdown
That definitely hurt the cause. I dated a chick for a second and ran as fast as I could from her crazy ass. Fortunately she took the hint, I’d rather be alone than with her. Never trust a government worker!
Hey you know I worked for a government agency once🧐 lolol
**taking notes** Okay, thanks I will attach that to your resume.
🤣🤣 please don't... Hated the fact it was a federal agency, but needed the flexibility it afforded me to be able to set my own schedule, and still take care of my hubby.
There were times I worked from my vehicle in the parking structure of the hospital when he was in the ICU
Oh man, I wasn't intending to dredge up memories of your tough times, I was just kidding around, which is 90% of the time. It doesn't come across in text, I understand. And of course, if the government has a good job for me, I will take it. I am not anti-government... Well, the current one yes, but I digress.
You're good... Hard not to be anti government these days
flowers
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Rescue an injured animal
But what if there is no injured animal to rescue? Lol
Never really thought about tbh
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Making me dinner we're giving me a blojob or both would do it
Blow Job on a first date? 🤷🏼♀️ Yeah that would be a no for me..
you would be surprised how many women do just that.
@msc545 please tell me you go down on them too.
@loves2learn Of course - that is one of my favorite things!
All good then. :)
My husband went down on me the day we met. I also gave him a bj. Been together for 20 years.
Nice! 😃
you say shut up and you feel so FUCKING BAD THAT YOU SAID THAT SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIT
Be really straightforward, without any lies
Actually show up and participate in the date.
Be themselves
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You could prepare and cook a romantic dinner
That sounds too personal for a first date.
open the car door
Heating it at 6000°c
🤣🤣🤣 well if she pulls a blow torch or of her purse "Run Forrest Run"😂
She could be honest.
Let me touch her boobs.
Swallow. 😈
See it's that right there that ruins first dates...
@Brainsbeforebeauty
🤣
I am certain that you will agree that there is no more certain way to a man’s heart.
But first date? And then guys wonder why women think guys expect sex on the first date
@Brainsbeforebeauty
Perhaps not first date. 🤣
I cannot think of anything else that would have an effect on me, though.
I have been hurt so often, for so long, that in my dealings with women I border on the psychopathic now, in terms of being unable to allow myself to feel anything.
My mate selection is done on logic (channelling my inner Vulcan). Attachment, if it happens, comes much later.
There is currently one female on the planet in whom I have an interest, but she does not want to know.
That is the story of my life.
Why doesn't she want to know? And how can you be sure of that?
@Brainsbeforebeauty
I do not know why she is not interested.
We have known each other for 36 years, during which time we have done the wild thing more than once.
I suspect that there is another man who is servicing her currently.
I have to say that it hurts, because I have a genuine and deep affection for her. This happens every time that I allow myself to feel anything for a female.
We had a conversation about my desire for her. She told me that she was not interested in a relationship, although friends with benefits was a possibility.
That has not happened and she continues to find reasons to not get together.
I have stopped trying. The message has been understood.
Yeah, you deserve sometime that wants you and not as just an alternative
*someone
@Brainsbeforebeauty
Based on a lifetime of rejection and occasional heartbreak, I have formed the view that the universe has decreed that I do not deserve anyone.
I am not meant to know that form of happiness, apparently.
Plenty of women come sniffing around, but, for a variety of reasons, none of them interest me.
When I do security a weddings, it is almost comical to watch how the single/divorced/widowed women on the wrong side of 40 acquire me on their radar.
Security? Are handcuffs part of the uniform? That could be a reason😂😂😂
@Brainsbeforebeauty
No handcuffs for private security in Australia, which is typical libtard government insanity, because it means that the only way left for us to deal with a violent threat is to kill them, or break an arm and/or leg.
Anyway, no handcuffs, but at home I can offer leather cuffs, steel shackles and many other... toys. 😈
Lololol🤣
@Brainsbeforebeauty
After 50 Shades of Grey became the top selling work of fiction in the history of the world, nobody should be surprised that a lot of women get off on being... restrained.
Who was surprised even before that lolol not me lol
@Brainsbeforebeauty
What a pity that we are on opposite sides of the planet.
Why tho? Cuz I don't engage in casual sex. Not going to say never did, but it's not what/who I really am... I'm the one guy/one gal committed/monogomous relationship. And even the casual sex was with the same person on and off for 3+years... Naughty and whore aren't the same thing... These youngins don't get that🤣
@Brainsbeforebeauty
Follow me so that I cam PM you.
Aww see I don't pm on here. Had too many issues with it in the past, why my settings are set the way they are... Cuz of had prior stalk/harass, create fake accounts, underage or "pretend" underage users and when reported, those accounts deactivated right away, so now stick to public threads
@Brainsbeforebeauty
As you wish.