I dont. If she's the legal age or 38 I will ride. Younger is always better though. 2 years ago I hooked up with a teenager at a student party last day of school. Dated her all summer, her parents weren't happy but who cares right.
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The great thing about younger women I think is that they are easily impressed if you have a nice car, your own pad, make bank and are in good shape. There's no taking them out on an expensive date only to get a peck on the cheek at the end of the date. There's no kids to worry about or crazy ex to worry about.
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Just pull up to her in your BMW and ask her out in front of her friends outside her highschool. Because younger women are so competitive and younger men inexperienced you can nail her friends one after the other because she's boasting about what an amazing time she had with you.
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If she old enough to cross the street...
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It's like @hi_it_is_me123 says if they 15 she 15 lol.
Do you care about age difference when hooking up/dating?
As long as she is legal age of consent , but age doesn’t really bother me what so ever , what matters is the chemistry and connection and if we are both attracted to each other , I don’t walk up to a beautiful girl that caught my eye and say How old are you? , , that’s not going to be the first words out of my mouth , I am approaching her cuz I find her beautiful and want To get to know her , if her and I have great chemistry that’s all that matters , the question of age would come out later in the conversation, Now if she told me she was Under legal age of consent then it doesn’t mean I am all of a sudden going to not like her , I am just not going to pursue her any further and tell her wait until she is of legal age for us to go any further Cuz my ass does not want to take the chance of going to jail and being considered a friggin pedophile , so it just comes down to how you handle yourself , I had underaged girls flirt with me and wanting to fuck me , but I just smile and tell them wait til your older and tell them I am flattered they find me attractive thank you for the compliment but my ass is not going to jail or taking the chance of going to jail for sex , I like to think I am wise enough to not be a dumbass and wise enough to not approach a girl that looks like she is under legal age , but if she approaches me I am not going to be an asshole about it , I am just going to tell her sorry it’s not going to happen until you are of legal age , I have dated younger girls that were of legal age only because I found her beautiful and we had great chemistry and connection together , so age really means shit to be honest as long as they are of legal age is all that matters , I have dated younger and older of myself I don’t use age as a deciding factor if I am going to like someone or not , people that do that are only limiting themselves is the way I look at it Some of the younger girls I dated were way more maturer then some of the older girls I dated , it’s all about chemistry and connection and being wise
I am dating to find a long term partner and that is much more likely to happen with someone reasonably close to my age. My girlfriend is 57 and I am 66. That she difference is comfortable for me. If she was 47 or 37, it might be fun in bed for awhile but that's not an LTR.
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I care about age. There's traits in every generation that differs from the other and I prefer to be someone a few years older or at least 2 years younger. Also I'm not humping old man dick sorry not sorry, or some young guy who isn't stable like me. Also It's really gross for any guy to be with a girl under 18. She's still a child by societies standards so it's really inappropriate. She is not old enough to be on her own and be independent financially. This can easily be a tool for older men to manipulate them.
Anyone under 18 is and and even ifshe is 18, it is disgusting that he groom young women at the age of 18-19 since they are still teenies and have almost no adult life experience. Read his update
Just because it is legal, it does not mean it is ethical. In japan the age of consent is 13, in some countries it may be lower. The maturity level is not the same due to brain development etc. Maybe you did not know and i know the culture of austria/german where dating people under 18 or even under 16 is very normal. So know it and i hope you dont do that anymore.
I know many girls who get mental issues because of this. These girls did not think much about it but later it affects them. There is also huge power imbalance
Age is just a number. But only if it's between 2 consenting adults. Her parents could press charges if they wanted seeing how it's illegal. Honestly, I would just chop off a guys member if they went after my daughter when she's a teenager and they were old enough to know better.
That's exactly how pedophiles think... just show up at the park and flash some candy or a puppy dog and they will come to you willingly.. they don't know any better..
I do believe you just like creating upheaval though lol.
Ok look first off any adult that touches a “child” should be shot. That being said. The age of adulthood is too high. It’s because we allow our kids to play games, have fun, and jerk around. I firmly believe if kids had to work in the home, go to school 6 days a week at least throughout the whole year, and we’re forced into some kind of after school programs the world would be a better place and they would grow up better and faster. Our kiddy glove approach to children means our 18 year olds arnt even as mature as 13 year olds back when 15 was an adult. Such a waste of potential.
But age is more than a number as well. It’s a timeframe of experience. It’s unlikely a young person of 13 thinks the same as a 30 year old.
You're probably a creepy man with pedophilia tendencies. It's incredibly gross to prefer barely legal teens for your own sexual pleasure. I'm glad I was warned from men like you by older women who experienced this type of predation. You probably feel threatened by women who know their worth and have to try and impress children, that's so pathetic.
It's pedophilic to be going after women fresh out of school when you are way older than them. I prefer to date around my age 5 above 3 below is my general rule at this moment.
That's not pedophilia. Pedophilia is an attraction to prepubescent children. But it is creepy for a man in his late 20's to be hitting on women under 21.
@slatyb didn't say it was pedophilia I said its pedophilic as in it shows pedophilic behavior. Like preferring women to be hairless or finding body hair on women gross is a pedophilic idea. A societal thing.
None of those things are "pedophilic", you should stop throwing that word around. They are merely sexual preferences. Not to say that I agree with the OP. Regardless of the age of consent, adult men should not consort with minors.
@slatyb nope. Women have to get rid of most signs of puberty to be considered attractive by societal standards. "Teen porn" is one of the most searched if not the most searched kind of porn. There's porn stars who act and dress like young teens. A lot of men want women to be submissive, do what they are told. Like a child. Yes it's a preference but it's a preference told to you by society which is encouraging these pedophilic ideas. 😊 It's creepy 100% I would never date a guy who refused to sleep with me because I didn't get rid of my body hair.
No one is suggesting that you should. The whole shaved legs thing started in the early 20th century, promoted by razor blade companies. The shaved pubis came later. Men don't like it because they imagine having sex with 13-year-olds. They like it because it leaves everything exposed.
Men also like it because men are naturally hairier than women, so a smooth body emphasizes the sex differences and is naturally attractive to many men.
@slatyb in the 40s bikinis became popular and at the same time Hugh Hefners playboy magazine encouraged hairless pubic area. If that isn't proof enough of pubic hair removal at least starting out as predatory I don't know what is...
@slatyb literally never said that. I'm just saying that the idea of women having bodies that resemble prepubescent girls (aka hairless) is an idea/ preference that started with pedophiles. a 30 something year old going after an 18 year old also suggests pedophilic ideas. What would a 34 year old have in common with an 18 year old? Basically nothing, he's going after her because she looks young and she is innocent in the sense of life skills - easily manipulated.
Exactly -- older men unsuccessful with women their age hit on naive young women because they are more easily impressed or because they believe that a young woman will be less assertive.
Although you may be the same physical maturity, mentally a highschool, no matter how intelligent won't and will never be as developed mentally as a 35 year old. I'm fine with age gaps as long as our mental maturity is in the same ball park at least.
I think this may be an attempt at a joke. Either way, it's still gross. When I see those purposefully looking for teenagers, I think: are you just going after inexperienced and underdeveloped teenagers because you can't get anyone your own age? Teenagers are very different from adults, hence the separate name. I believe you (34) shouldn't date anyone below the age of 21. I think it would be irresponsible of you to do so due to the unfair advantage you hold as an adult.
If i were single and looking for a fling i'd be happy to go as low as 18yr old. They're an adult, they can make their own decisions. She'd know it wasn't anything serious and she's never meet my kids. For a relationship, i dont think i would look below 30.
As for one of the pictures there I think it's absolutely hilarious how the same flawed logic that allowed things like homosexuality can be used just as logically for pedophilia. I believe I should state directly that I would never endorse homosexuality or pedophilia, in case anyone got the wrong ideas about that.
I think that if having a real relationship is the goal you have to be of the same generation in order to have things in common, most of the time that is.
D. Yes Love is certainly not linked to race. We’re all human. Love is not linked to religion, but not sharing one can make things quite difficult. Love is linked to gender and to age. (Nobody hate on me for having a different opinion. I’m not doing that to anyone.)
I don't date anyone younger. I'd rather impress potential partners my own age or older. I think having a relationship with someone younger can create a power imbalance. That and I'm not attracted to younger dudes/women.
I'm not generally into hookups, but if I were to do them, I wouldn't care about age as long as she is at least 18. Some of the best sex I've had was with women in their 50s.
Depends I like younger girls and I like older guys I'm weird. I guess age is just a number after 18. I don't think I would ever get with 18 year old tho 20 plus better
As far as your updates go, guy's like you ruin the daring pool for the rest of us, you don't need to bang everything with a pulse, stop being greedy, not everyone wants sex on the first date.
Age, race or wealth have no influence on who I would date, it is more personality. I can be attracted to 19 or 20 year olds as well as 50 and 60 year olds and anywhere in between. Each person is individual and should be treated like an individual.
Sure, I’d hook up with a younger woman, but dating? Possibly, I guess if we both have the same likes/dislikes and through being friends over time we became closer.
If a girl is older my biggest fear is her dying before me. Nothing else matters. I am assuming we're both legal. I usually go 1p years in either direction
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