He wants to see me again but rarely answers my messages?
I really struggle with sth. I met a guy on Tinder and we texted a few weeks before our first date. I wasn’t around for that long unfortunately, so a date wasn’t possible sooner. I actually appreciate he was that patient.
A few days ago, we had our first date. It seemed to go well and he checked up on me the same night. The next day he already told me that we could meet up for a second time soon.
Sounds good and all, but the problem I have is that I am really unsure about him. Not like he wouldn’t be my type and all, but he while texting everything seems so different. I text him and get an answer 5-10 hours later. Sometimes I see that he’s online and isn’t answering back. And that’s a huge red flag for me, since it just shows he doesn’t want to deal with me at that moment.
He just seems not interested anymore, although he always tells me how nice he thought the date went and he wants to see me again.
But if a guy isn’t answering me all day, I just don’t think he’s interested or ofc another girl is more important.
What do you think of this?
I really struggle with sth. I met a guy on Tinder and we texted a few weeks before our first date. I wasn’t around for that long unfortunately, so a date wasn’t possible sooner. I actually appreciate he was that patient.
A few days ago, we had our first date. It seemed to go well and he checked up on me the same night. The next day he already told me that we could meet up for a second time soon.
Sounds good and all, but the problem I have is that I am really unsure about him. Not like he wouldn’t be my type and all, but he while texting everything seems so different. I text him and get an answer 5-10 hours later. Sometimes I see that he’s online and isn’t answering back. And that’s a huge red flag for me, since it just shows he doesn’t want to deal with me at that moment.
He just seems not interested anymore, although he always tells me how nice he thought the date went and he wants to see me again.
But if a guy isn’t answering me all day, I just don’t think he’s interested or ofc another girl is more important.
What do you think of this?
